Congratulations. And it is flippant and disrespectful. Do you normally do that at funerals and the aftermath of someone’s death? It’s true what they say - money can’t buy manners, discretion or tact.
I'm sorry you seem to have misinterpreted my tone. My response was to the PP who said that we're all the same in death and I was attempting to reflect on the poignant fact that even those who have access to phenomenal wealth in their life will leave it all behind, just as those of us with very ordinary financial circumstances.
Of course I would not say that to grieving relatives at a funeral, although the point would be largely meaningless if we were talking about Mrs Jones at number 48 who had died and left a three-bed semi in Basildon and £10K. Likewise, I wouldn't ask her family about where they stopped for a wee on the way there, if they came from a distance away.
Like it or not, the Queen was a very public figure - that's pretty much the whole idea of monarchy. As well as the personal aspects of it, her life was representative of that of the nation too. Have you noticed how Mrs Jones' death (and indeed mine, when it happens) wouldn't get a 20-second mention on the local news, whereas the death of the Queen dominates the main TV channels for two weeks or so?
Did you also find it disrespectful that everybody instantly started talking about Charles taking over his mother's job, home and privileges almost the instant that she died - even updating the Queen's own song to remove references to her in favour of him? Was that not in very poor taste too?