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Someone has left a Marmalade Sandwich outside Buckingham Palace...

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Elderflower14 · 10/09/2022 17:27

With a note attached saying "For later..." 😢 😢 😢 😢
As a MASSIVE Paddington fan this made me cry more than the taxis lined up in The Mall.... ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Someone has left a Marmalade Sandwich outside Buckingham Palace...
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sussexman · 10/09/2022 18:25

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/09/2022 18:16

That’s how I feel. I read the thread and thought ‘that’s ridiculous’ and assumed this would be a thread where the OP was here to say just that. Didn’t realise anybody would actually think this is a nice thing to do, especially in a country where so many are going to be facing food poverty this winter and in a world where around 1600 worldwide die of hunger each day. The country has actually gone mad! If people want to virtue signal they’d be better donating to a food bank or a charity which provides food to countries facing famine etc rather than leaving a plastic wrapped sandwich to decompose on the street in the memory of a woman who lived to a grand old age and likely never experienced a moment of hunger in her life.

How astonishingly joyless! It's clearly a homemade sandwich, likely wrapped in clingfilm. I assume you are also against all the plastic-wrapped flowers at this and every other memorial and have ensured that when you go, no one will express remorse or sorrow, except through specific charitable acts. Yet, somehow you still think that someone taking the time to make a personal tribute is virtue signalling in a way that posting about social injustice on a public forum is not.

Sparklingbrook · 10/09/2022 18:25

While I get the connection and I'm sure it was done in good faith my first thought was it's attracting seagulls/foxes and rats etc. But if that's the case at least it'll get eaten I suppose.

upinaballoon · 10/09/2022 18:26

Yes, Daniel Craig the actor, the one who joined the Queen in the big joke when she parachuted into the Olympics.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/09/2022 18:26

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 10/09/2022 18:23

in a world where around 1600 worldwide die of hunger each day

One marmalade sandwich won't do much to alleviate that. Unclench - assuming you can, of course.

Of course not. But if instead of making up sandwiches or buying flowers etc to go to landfill each person who felt compelled to mark her passing had made a charitable donation in the queen’s name instead then that could certainly have done a lot of good for others.

EverydayIsPJday · 10/09/2022 18:27

@Noentrymeansnoentry the Queen presumably didn't ask for the sandwich. Perhaps it was mouldy bread... I really don't feel the need to question it tbh. It's not a hamper or a £100 towards her funeral costs. It's a gesture that someone (not me) felt was appropriate in memory to the Queen.

Pumperthepumper · 10/09/2022 18:29

upinaballoon · 10/09/2022 18:26

Yes, Daniel Craig the actor, the one who joined the Queen in the big joke when she parachuted into the Olympics.

What a fitting tribute. Someone who was paid to hang out with her for four minutes.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 10/09/2022 18:29

But if instead of making up sandwiches or buying flowers etc to go to landfill each person who felt compelled to mark her passing had made a charitable donation in the queen’s name instead then that could certainly have done a lot of good for others

And how do you know they didn't? and what sodding business is it of yours anyway? bloody hell, there are some joy sucking po-faced puritans around.

Pumperthepumper · 10/09/2022 18:31

sussexman · 10/09/2022 18:25

How astonishingly joyless! It's clearly a homemade sandwich, likely wrapped in clingfilm. I assume you are also against all the plastic-wrapped flowers at this and every other memorial and have ensured that when you go, no one will express remorse or sorrow, except through specific charitable acts. Yet, somehow you still think that someone taking the time to make a personal tribute is virtue signalling in a way that posting about social injustice on a public forum is not.

I am. We know the planet is on its knees, having plastic-wrapped crap lying around for someone else to clean up is abhorrent.

Novum · 10/09/2022 18:31

Pumperthepumper · 10/09/2022 18:29

What a fitting tribute. Someone who was paid to hang out with her for four minutes.

If you think that took four minutes, you know nothing about filming.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/09/2022 18:31

sussexman · 10/09/2022 18:25

How astonishingly joyless! It's clearly a homemade sandwich, likely wrapped in clingfilm. I assume you are also against all the plastic-wrapped flowers at this and every other memorial and have ensured that when you go, no one will express remorse or sorrow, except through specific charitable acts. Yet, somehow you still think that someone taking the time to make a personal tribute is virtue signalling in a way that posting about social injustice on a public forum is not.

Yes of course I am against the flowers. I’ve only been part of arranging funerals for two people (parent and grandparent) and at both we said no flowers and suggested donations people could leave instead. I’m confident when I go my family will know I don’t want anything like that, I’m involved in a number of charities so yes would expect them to instead donate to one or more of these if they feel they have to do anything at all. Obviously though I’ll be dead and blissfully unaware so if nobody wants to express any remorse or sorrow at all that’s absolutely fine too and preferable to wasting their money on flowers or other sentimental gestures.

upinaballoon · 10/09/2022 18:32

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/09/2022 18:26

Of course not. But if instead of making up sandwiches or buying flowers etc to go to landfill each person who felt compelled to mark her passing had made a charitable donation in the queen’s name instead then that could certainly have done a lot of good for others.

How do YOU know that the person who made the one sandwich hasn't already given money this week to one of her charities? It's possible to do both.

What have you done this week to help hungry people? Have you bought anything this week which was in an unnecessary wrapper, something that you could have made at home and wrapped in a linen towel instead of using a polybag?

toomuchlaundry · 10/09/2022 18:32

In some cultures people leave food at shines

Pumperthepumper · 10/09/2022 18:32

Novum · 10/09/2022 18:31

If you think that took four minutes, you know nothing about filming.

How long did it take?

inmyslippers · 10/09/2022 18:33

HM was solely to blame for several hundred years of history.

She was the head of the commonwealth.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/09/2022 18:34

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 10/09/2022 18:29

But if instead of making up sandwiches or buying flowers etc to go to landfill each person who felt compelled to mark her passing had made a charitable donation in the queen’s name instead then that could certainly have done a lot of good for others

And how do you know they didn't? and what sodding business is it of yours anyway? bloody hell, there are some joy sucking po-faced puritans around.

As much my business to say I think it’s ridiculous as it is anyone else on here’s business to say they think it’s nice/ sweet/ fitting etc surely? She was as much my queen as anyone else’s and I’m entitled to my opinion on her passing as much as anyone else who lived under her reign.

Teenagelament · 10/09/2022 18:36

Why a marmalade sandwich? I don't understand

Cornettoninja · 10/09/2022 18:36

I’m entitled to my opinion on her passing

of course you are, it’s just a shame you choose to use it to piss on other peoples chips.

CambsAlways · 10/09/2022 18:36

I thought it was a lovely sentiment, god bless her

36degrees · 10/09/2022 18:36

I'm definitely with @MolkosTeenageAngst on the broccoli. The sandwich thing I suppose is symbolic and meaningful, and I hate cling film but I can also be terribly sentimental. It's a tough call. Not keen on the waste of flowers either but good for the florists, I guess?

Whokno · 10/09/2022 18:36

As one of the people struggling to eat/heat, I got a bit of joy from that marmalade sandwich. I don't begrudge someone spending about 15p to make possibly millions smile. Considering a bouquet of flowers costs about 20 quid and comes wrapped in plastic, I think the sandwich is rather lovely.

Leftbutcameback · 10/09/2022 18:36

Elderflower14 · 10/09/2022 17:42

And someone has just given Prince William a little PB.... ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

What a lovely idea, I hear the Queen loved doing the scene "with" Paddington. I know they played it in schools yesterday as well. I would have been in bits.

Novum · 10/09/2022 18:36

I assume you are also against all the plastic-wrapped flowers at this and every other memorial

To be honest, that is something I'm against. I thought that mound of rotting flowers wrapped in plastic when Diana died was hideous. I read that somewhere - Windsor? - they have a table set up where people can take the polythene off their flowers, so that ultimately they can be taken away for compost easily.

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Pumperthepumper · 10/09/2022 18:37

Teenagelament · 10/09/2022 18:36

Why a marmalade sandwich? I don't understand

Because she did a skit with Paddington for the Jubilee. And since she died people are posting really odd shit about Paddington taking her to meet Philip. And Paddington likes marmalade sandwiches.

AdditionalCharacter · 10/09/2022 18:38

My first thought on seeing the thread title was "but it'll attract some ants"