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Am I unusually heavy for my size or do I have reverse body dysmorphia?

252 replies

SaltySeaWitch · 04/08/2022 10:02

Name change as this is incredibly obviously outing if you know me at all.

I’m often seeing threads with women saying they weigh X amount and are Y size, or have a low BMI and wear a larger size than me or think they need to lose weight. I can’t tell if I am unusually dense (yes I’m aware that muscle is ‘heavier’ but I’m not an elite athlete by any stretch!), or just think I look much slimmer than I actually do 😂

I’m about 166cm. What do I weigh and what clothing size do I wear?

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emmathedilemma · 04/08/2022 10:50

PeloAddict · 04/08/2022 10:19

I'm the same!
5ft 10 and even the doctors has been Confused at what I weigh (I'm not saying it's healthy/unhealthy) but I eat well and exercise a lot

You have big boobs though and that'll make a difference! One of my friends had a breast reduction and they took off 6lb and she's still left with decent sized boobs! Meanwhile my tits are contributing bugger all to my total weight!!

OhMerde · 04/08/2022 10:50

PixellatedPixie · 04/08/2022 10:20

You have a really nice figure. The way I determine if someone is overweight is by looking at their tummy and yours looks a healthy, flat size. Therefore there’s no way you are overweight or unhealthy.

If the op is more than about 10 stone ish, then she is absolutely overweight. I'm not saying she doesn't look great....she does but we have truly lost our perspective with weight. 12, 13 stone is obese, whether people like it or not.

BloodAndFire · 04/08/2022 10:50

You wear a size 18 and weigh around 13 stone.

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LynneBenfield · 04/08/2022 10:51

I agree with PP that you have an in proportion body shape and look good. At 5ft 5 ish, I’d guess you are around a size 14 and weigh around 12 stone.

Smarshian · 04/08/2022 10:52

11.5stone size 12

BloodAndFire · 04/08/2022 10:52

OhMerde · 04/08/2022 10:47

I'm 5.8 and fluctuate between 9.12 and 10.1. I can assure you I'm not waif-like! I wish I was but I'm not.

Correct. I'm your height, currently 9 st 6 and that is much too big on me. I'm comfortable at 8 st 12, only get waiflike under 8 st 7.

emmathedilemma · 04/08/2022 10:52

@OhMerde 10 stone at 166cm tall is a BMI of 23 so definitely not overweight!!

JustFrustrated · 04/08/2022 10:53

I'm saying size 12, 10 stone.

Based on me

I'm 1cm taller, wear a 10-12 and am about 9.5-10 stone.

Can't get an 8 over my boobs, or to do up around my tummy (well I can but I get a roll)

Also, sizes mean fuck all.

Onlyrainbows · 04/08/2022 10:53

wtf I posted my own and I weight 10.5st

Pyjamagame · 04/08/2022 10:53

14 bottom, 12 top. 11 stone

Society · 04/08/2022 10:54

Is say around 12 stone and a size 14. You look great though. Very in proportion

BlossomsOnATree · 04/08/2022 10:55

I can’t make any useful guesses but I also have a thing where I feel like I must have heavy bones or something. Doctors always say I’m clearly a healthy size/weight, one even called me tall and slim. I’m actually overweight according to BMI and my body seems to refuse to go below 13 stone (at 5’9”). I’m strong and large framed but not super muscly or athletic. So I conclude it’s a thing!

Pinkspice · 04/08/2022 10:55

I'd say 12-14 and 10 stone 13 lbs. I think you look great btw. A lovely slim waste and toned arms.

Sally090807 · 04/08/2022 10:55

I went to the doctors about 6 months ago, she asked me to stand on the scales.
She then said I was borderline obese and had I considered weightwatchers. I left the surgery feeling so pissed off as I’d gone in about horrendous pain in my shoulder.
Photo of me….

Cutemob · 04/08/2022 10:55

Lovely figure! Size 12-14 and about 11 stone I would guess. You look great in your clothes

10HailMarys · 04/08/2022 10:56

Maybe a size 12?

You look really great - fit and healthy, and certainly not overweight. You've got a really good figure and you look pretty toned to me. I suspect most of your weight is muscle.

FWIW my BMI put me at 'overweight' even when I was a size 8-10. My friend, who is about the same height as me, weighed less than I did and she was a 14-16. So I honestly wouldn't worry too much about what you weigh and just focus on how you feel and what fits you.

LilacPoppy · 04/08/2022 10:56

Size 16 and 13 stone. Nothing wrong with the way you look but I can tell you are overweight.

OhMerde · 04/08/2022 10:58

WTF475878237NC · 04/08/2022 10:48

All these people saying 13 stone I'd love to see you post a picture of someone you think weighs 10 stone as I just can't get my head around some of these replies.

I'm 5.8 and weigh exactly 10 stone here. This was 2 weeks ago and I definitely didn't feel in any way slim.

Am I unusually heavy for my size or do I have reverse body dysmorphia?
Sally090807 · 04/08/2022 11:00

LilacPoppy · 04/08/2022 10:56

Size 16 and 13 stone. Nothing wrong with the way you look but I can tell you are overweight.

What a nasty comment, the person in the photo has a lovely figure and is never a size 16. Are you jealous by any chance. 😏

TheDogsMother · 04/08/2022 11:00

Onlyrainbows · 04/08/2022 10:38

those jeans are a size 25in waist . I'm
10.5st with a 5'3ft height. PTs seem to think that because I don't lift I can't have that much muscle mass.

You look great ! I can't believe how much people vary at the same height. I am your height and a stone lighter but this weight is a stone heavier than my ideal of 8.4/8.5. I have a very short body and longer legs so the weight accumulates in the middle.

Shellingbynight · 04/08/2022 11:00

I'd say you're Size 12 and 10 stone, based on my friend who is about the same height as you. She is muscular but slim and is under 10 stone.

MigsandTiggs · 04/08/2022 11:01

11 stone and size 12

SheWoreYellow · 04/08/2022 11:01

Onlyrainbows · 04/08/2022 10:38

those jeans are a size 25in waist . I'm
10.5st with a 5'3ft height. PTs seem to think that because I don't lift I can't have that much muscle mass.

Gosh, I’d agree you have lead for bones! You do not look that heavy.

ShirleyPhallus · 04/08/2022 11:02

These threads are always brutal, some of the replies!

SheWoreYellow · 04/08/2022 11:02

I don’t mean that heavy. Argh. You just look lighter.

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