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Am I unusually heavy for my size or do I have reverse body dysmorphia?

252 replies

SaltySeaWitch · 04/08/2022 10:02

Name change as this is incredibly obviously outing if you know me at all.

I’m often seeing threads with women saying they weigh X amount and are Y size, or have a low BMI and wear a larger size than me or think they need to lose weight. I can’t tell if I am unusually dense (yes I’m aware that muscle is ‘heavier’ but I’m not an elite athlete by any stretch!), or just think I look much slimmer than I actually do 😂

I’m about 166cm. What do I weigh and what clothing size do I wear?

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Gettingthereslowly2020 · 04/08/2022 10:20

Agree with the above: size 12-14 and around 12-13 stone

MolliciousIntent · 04/08/2022 10:21

Rot · 04/08/2022 10:18

I reckon you're a size 16 and weigh 13 stone. I'm constantly surprised at how people underestimate weight. 10 stone is waif-like.

Lol, it's really not. I'm that height, 10st, and a size 12-14. I haven't been a waif for some time.

crosbystillsandmash · 04/08/2022 10:21

@rot

I'm amazed you think 10 stone is waif like!
I'm 8st 12 and don't look like a waif!
I have a tiny frame so don't like how I look if I hit more than 9st.

Op, you look great! Love the shorts & flowery top combo 😘

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Peapo82 · 04/08/2022 10:21

You look the same as me. I'm a bit taller though. I'm size 14 and 11st 7. I reckon you're about 11stone ish and size 12/14. You look great by the way! X

mynameiscalypso · 04/08/2022 10:22

I think you look amazing but I'm the same height and a similar shape (but a bit more wobbly) and I'm in the overweight BMI and a size 12/14

milesymoo · 04/08/2022 10:22

I think you're a size 14 and weigh 13 stone. You have a FANTASTIC figure that Im jealous of!

I say this as someone who is size 16, 175cm and weighing 14.5 stone so I'm comparing my fuller figure to yours

You have wonderful curves!

SheWoreYellow · 04/08/2022 10:23

I’d say size 14 and 11.5 stone.

Peapo82 · 04/08/2022 10:23

crosbystillsandmash · 04/08/2022 10:21

@rot

I'm amazed you think 10 stone is waif like!
I'm 8st 12 and don't look like a waif!
I have a tiny frame so don't like how I look if I hit more than 9st.

Op, you look great! Love the shorts & flowery top combo 😘

Some people do though. At 10stone(years ago) I was very slim size 10. Under that I looked ill.

bettybyebye · 04/08/2022 10:23

Size 12, 10st10lbs

Rot · 04/08/2022 10:23

At my heaviest, I weighed 15 and a half stone. A friend was astonished to learn that I weighed more than her - she was just under 11 stone. People are proper crap at this. The only people who always get it right are slimming world consultants who can weigh anyone by eye.

SammySueTwo · 04/08/2022 10:23

OP - Given height I'd say size 12 and 11 stone.

@PeloAddict I am the same height and am more pear shaped than you - you look like you weigh 12 stone.

Tougherpolicies · 04/08/2022 10:23

@rot 10 stone is not waif like fgs!

Holly60 · 04/08/2022 10:23

You will be in the overweight category I'd say but you look to

alnawire · 04/08/2022 10:24

I think you are around 11 stone and size 12. I also think the jeans are very unflattering.

Holly60 · 04/08/2022 10:24

Toned!

And healthy. You carry your weight pretty evenly but have a small waist so you look good

Richenda · 04/08/2022 10:24

Size 14, 11-12 stone? You have a nice figure that is in proportion and you’re wearing clothes that suit you.

Holly60 · 04/08/2022 10:24

alnawire · 04/08/2022 10:24

I think you are around 11 stone and size 12. I also think the jeans are very unflattering.

Weird because I love the jeans

PeloAddict · 04/08/2022 10:24

SammySueTwo · 04/08/2022 10:23

OP - Given height I'd say size 12 and 11 stone.

@PeloAddict I am the same height and am more pear shaped than you - you look like you weigh 12 stone.

Way out Smile

eurochick · 04/08/2022 10:25

In the shorts I'd say size 12 and 11stoneish. In the jeans I'd say 14-16 and 12 stone+.

Cognacsoft · 04/08/2022 10:25

Rot · 04/08/2022 10:18

I reckon you're a size 16 and weigh 13 stone. I'm constantly surprised at how people underestimate weight. 10 stone is waif-like.

I'm 5'4" and weigh 8st exactly.
I'm a size 10.
I'm not waif like.
I am however older and have 2 adult dc.
A young person will usually be a lot firmer even if heavier and especially if not had dc.

Rot · 04/08/2022 10:26

OK, 10 stone would be waif-like for me! My lightest adult weight was 10 stone 7 and I looked gaunt. I'm 5 foot 7...

fudfootedfannybangle · 04/08/2022 10:26

I know where you’re coming from OP. When I was 13 stone I was a size 10 at only 5’4”. Apparently I’ve got the lean muscle mass of a pro athlete.

under the Bella emburg suit I’m currently sporting.

I read of other people my weight immobile and I’m wheelchairs.

Bigwetdog · 04/08/2022 10:29

Size 12/14 and 13 stone?

Rot · 04/08/2022 10:30

Come on OP, put us out of our misery.

You look great, btw, but if you weigh 10 or even 11 stone I'll eat my own head.

MarshaBradyo · 04/08/2022 10:30

Given the range of responses I’m intrigued now op what you do weigh etc