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Are there any words you feel really awkward/self conscious saying?!

223 replies

ABlindAssassin · 01/07/2022 20:41

For me it's 'gig'. I can't say it out loud without wanting to cringe/wince/apologise. It makes me feel really fraudulent!

Am I the only one? Does anyone else have words they just can't use?

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CandidaAlbicans2 · 02/07/2022 08:54

Schedule. Is it shed-yool or sked-yool?
I can never remember which pronounciation is the English and which is the American so always trip myself up with it.

Cool. I said it the other day and instantly cringed at myself 😳

SirChenjins · 02/07/2022 09:10

Heal - it seems to be one of those words which has been taken over by wanky wokery and I just can’t say it anymore, it’s too cringey.

Indiaorigin · 02/07/2022 09:25

Nuclear

Chorizo
after coming on MN nice

WoodpeckerInTheTree · 02/07/2022 09:35

ComfyChairPose · 02/07/2022 07:19

The post about where to put the emphasis in the word mandatory, I say COMMunal (changing rooms/area) but I've noticed (all!?) other people say CommUNal.
I can't cope with that, whether it's right or wrong.

Yes!!!
What IS the correct pronunciation?

sacklunch · 02/07/2022 09:40

I agree on gig. I also don't like the slang words and phrases that seem to be adopted en masse overnight. I don't just adopt words and phrases easily. Although I do enjoy "chillax".

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 02/07/2022 09:40

I’ve now realised that it’s not just phenomenal I can’t say, I can barely pronounce anything!

@WoodpeckerInTheTree @ComfyChairPose It’s definitely commUNal! I think.

Inkanta · 02/07/2022 09:58

Agree with Heal or healing

Also LOL

Inkanta · 02/07/2022 10:01

I heard myself say "I'm chillin" this week and had a cringe. It's not me

Spiceupyourlife43 · 02/07/2022 10:04

LisaSimpson77 · 01/07/2022 22:38

Mine is lesbian, which is weird because I am one, I'm completely happy and out to everybody and will say I'm gay with no issue. I can only assume it's a deep rooted connection to the time when it was a guilty secret 🤷🏿‍♀️
Strange though.

I can relate to this @LisaSimpson77
Thought it was just me 😂

LisaSimpson77 · 02/07/2022 10:11

@Spiceupyourlife43 I think maybe it's quite common because it has such strong, mixed feelings attached?
I'm glad to know I'm not alone though because I do find it a bit embarrassing 😆

WelshMoth · 02/07/2022 10:21

"Guys"

"Moist"

Loads more now because of this thread Grin

DuesToTheDirt · 02/07/2022 10:24

ABlindAssassin · 01/07/2022 20:41

For me it's 'gig'. I can't say it out loud without wanting to cringe/wince/apologise. It makes me feel really fraudulent!

Am I the only one? Does anyone else have words they just can't use?

Agree on 'gig'. In fact, I have no usable word for this event. 'Concert' suggests violins or something. What else could I say?

PotteringPondering · 02/07/2022 10:36

Spiceupyourlife43 · 02/07/2022 10:04

I can relate to this @LisaSimpson77
Thought it was just me 😂

So interesting! I wonder if it's a kind of empathy thing, where you anticipate how the other person will react to the word. So it's less your own considered feeling about the word, or your identity, and more projection of an anticipated reaction (based on stereotypes, media, history etc).

I worked in C of E churches for many years. I never described myself as a priest, because I felt it would carry associations: naive, otherworldly, puritanical, repressed, judgemental, even abusive. The word priest still makes me squirm.

SwedishEdith · 02/07/2022 11:50

Funny reading the ones you don't have an issue with at all though. Croissant is just kwass son to me. I don't try and sound French, just kwass son in my own accent.

And latte is just latt ay because I'm northern but I'd never order one as hate milky coffee

WelshMoth · 02/07/2022 11:56

Juice.

WelshMoth · 02/07/2022 11:57

Can't say it.

Orgasmagorical · 02/07/2022 12:00

countrylifer · 01/07/2022 21:04

When post twats people introduce their friends and say "oh yeah these are my friend - this is Johnny, Tom and this is Ball Sack". And you never find out their real name so can never address or refer to them directly

"Ball Sack" 😂😂😂

Ameanstreakamilewide · 02/07/2022 13:30

'Explore' makes me dry heave. 🤢

A man I worked with and was trying (and failing dismally) to chat me up said - and I hesitate to even type it here - that he wanted to give me 'a sensual massage' so he could 'explore my body'.

Have you ever heard of anything so revolting?? 🤮

Ameanstreakamilewide · 02/07/2022 13:30

Self care is another one...I just cannot say it.

ZaZathecat · 02/07/2022 13:48

I feel silly using people's nicknames, like e.g Danny who everyone calls Danno or Rebecca getting called Bex.
I'm ok if the person originally introduced themselves with the nickname, but I can't pick it up later. Weird!

IfItQuacksLikeADuck3 · 02/07/2022 13:54

Ameanstreakamilewide · 02/07/2022 13:30

'Explore' makes me dry heave. 🤢

A man I worked with and was trying (and failing dismally) to chat me up said - and I hesitate to even type it here - that he wanted to give me 'a sensual massage' so he could 'explore my body'.

Have you ever heard of anything so revolting?? 🤮

😂😂😂 not suprised you hate that word

SmellyWellyWoo · 02/07/2022 14:12

Specific. I really struggle to pronounce it for correctly and it's a word I use a lot at work!

Also skeleton- I always want to say "skelinton!" 😩🤦🏻‍♀️

burnoutbabe · 02/07/2022 14:14

Fiancé

As in my fiancé, it seems like begging people to say "ohh when is the wedding, tell me all about it"

SouthernFashionista · 02/07/2022 14:16

‘Cadence’ - seems to have popped up out of nowhere in the business world and it is utterly irritating.

Homewardbound2022 · 02/07/2022 16:55

Absolutely.
When a simple Yes will do.