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Middle class identifiers 2022

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Pullandpush · 14/06/2022 08:06

I read a similar thread a few years ago & the main middle class markers were hummus, organic food, private education, boden, ski trips etc, farrow & ball..
Are these unchanged for 2022 or have the identifiers shifted?
Since the pandemic I've seen a rise in the "hipster" style MC especially the men, maybe the working from home has allowed them to relax into the unshaven, casual look which wasn't there a few years ago...
Private education seems to be on the wane but that may be due to the cost of living..
Any other main MC identifiers I missed?

OP posts:
Octomore · 14/06/2022 17:57

HelenHywater · 14/06/2022 17:53

Private education is an indicator of money, not class.

But money is strongly correlated with social class. If you surveyed 1000 private school parents, what percentage do you think would be working class? It's not going to be a high percentage, is it?

Even in MC families where the parents don't earn masses, they are more likely to have a grandparent who is wealthy enough to chip in for school fees.

CompoundV · 14/06/2022 17:57

Kris02 · 14/06/2022 17:45

I suppose, if I’m honest, I subconsciously divide people into ‘middle class’ (for want of a better word) and ‘lower class’. But it has nothing to do with money. I know two people who are very rich, live in big detached houses and send their kids to private schools. However, I think of them as ‘lower class’ because they are both vulgar and ignorant. I also know someone who is in debt, rents from the housing association and lives in a sh*t neighbourhood, but I consider her ‘middle class’ because of her beautiful manners and love of reading.

For me, the big dividers are taste, manners, education, reading habits and ability to hold a civilised conversation. You can give a vulgar, ignorant oaf twenty million pounds, but he’ll still be a vulgar, ignorant oaf.

Middle class signifiers: visits art galleries, reads great literature (Nabokov, Virginia Woolf, Jane Austen, Dickens...whatever), loves beautiful things (cathedrals, antiques, the countryside), has refined manners, can hold a civilised conversation (i.e doesn’t boast or show off, listens to what you say, doesn’t talk over you, smiles, maintains eye contact, etc), never thinks about class.

Lower class signifiers: charmless, flashy, vulgar, loud, brash, pushy, pretentious, petty, unrefined, graceless, overbearing, obsessed with celebrity gossip, reads The Sun, watches Love Island, incapable of holding a conversation, never read a serious book, judges everyone by money and status.

I also think there is a definite sway towards all MC people being decent, well-educated, sensible types - inadvertently or maybe otherwise, suggesting that WC people aren't and where does that leave WC people and their ambitions? No wonder they feel a lack of opportunity when they face this kind of discrimination.

sunglassesonthetable · 14/06/2022 18:00

@Walkaround

Socio -economic markers. Market segmentation. Branding for different people. What people want to buy.

FearlessFreddie · 14/06/2022 18:00

I also think there is a definite sway towards all MC people being decent, well-educated, sensible types - inadvertently or maybe otherwise, suggesting that WC people aren't and where does that leave WC people and their ambitions?

Have often wondered why, in the musical Matilda, Matilda has a MC accent and her parents WC accents.

JenniferAlisonPhilipaSue · 14/06/2022 18:01

I think it can vary depending on where you live too. Middle Class Scotland is different from Middle Class England.

Octomore · 14/06/2022 18:01

There was nothing inadvertent about Kris02's snobbery!

If you want to call someone vulgar, call them vulgar.

Using "lower class"/"working class" as a synonym for "crap" is no better than using the word "gay" as a synonym for "crap".

BoomVan · 14/06/2022 18:02

Play rooms and ensuites for me. If you've got space for things like that with young children then you've done pretty well on the property ladder on a young age so probably had family help with the deposit.

Parents berating their primary aged children for not keeping the their personal ensuites tidy has had me 😂😚

CompoundV · 14/06/2022 18:02

Xenia · 14/06/2022 17:46

People can talk about it if they want to do so. It is a complex issue and not just about money but other things too. I and my siblings only ever went to fee paying schools age 4 - 18 and my children and their cousins (and so far my grandchildren) but if any of my children choose a state school that is fine with me too as they are their own people and can do as they choose.

We ski because my parents kindly sent me on a ski holiday in my teens and I loved it so took my children when 3, 5 and 7 for their first (and my first since my teens) and have usually gone since other than covid. I like it because I like the mountains and snow rather than for any class reasons and most of my holidays I am trying to avoid other people entirely as I like my own company rather than seeking out other middle class people.

Walkaround raises an interesting issue about changing class. I would say my mother changed class - she went to grammar school (state grammar) in the 1940s, became a teacher, married a student doctor, bought ah ouse (almost unheard of buying a house in her family )as they p ut off children for 10 years and both worked full time to buy one. My father was also from a fairly modest house but did have a bit more social status as a child in a minor way locally. so I do think you can change class bit by bit. It probably takes a generation or two.

Interesting my student son got cornered in a jacuzzi at the gym today by an 82 year old man who talked at him for age about how he dragged himself up from nothing, no univesity, became an accountant etc and he was so proud of being a millionaire and his grand chidlren and their achievements at private school he went on and on about it in a showing off way most people don't do. My son was pleasant and chatted back but it is not really the done thing to go on about your millions so much even if you are 82. May be that was a class difference as the man made money but probably had not changed class whereas his children and certainly grandchildren will have done.

Very amused you posted about the accountant talking about his money - @Xenia you talk about your money and how much of it you have all the time.😂

SarahSissions · 14/06/2022 18:02

Matching furniture.

OssomMummy1 · 14/06/2022 18:03

Children in Private Grammar School
Business class travel
remote controlled house
49 inch flat screen telly
Landrovers
chihuahua
LV bag
but the mentality of a council estate tenant .
… FFS….have you not heard, “money doesn’t buy class”.
COWS 🐮

CompoundV · 14/06/2022 18:05

Octomore · 14/06/2022 18:01

There was nothing inadvertent about Kris02's snobbery!

If you want to call someone vulgar, call them vulgar.

Using "lower class"/"working class" as a synonym for "crap" is no better than using the word "gay" as a synonym for "crap".

I agree but Kris02 is not alone in her judgments.

Octomore · 14/06/2022 18:05

Very amused you posted about the accountant talking about his money - @Xenia you talk about your money and how much of it you have all the time. 😂

So true! 😂😂

Obviously it's different when our betters do it. Of course they're not being vulgar, perish the thought!

Chaoslatte · 14/06/2022 18:05

FearlessFreddie · 14/06/2022 18:00

I also think there is a definite sway towards all MC people being decent, well-educated, sensible types - inadvertently or maybe otherwise, suggesting that WC people aren't and where does that leave WC people and their ambitions?

Have often wondered why, in the musical Matilda, Matilda has a MC accent and her parents WC accents.

Oh, I assumed it was because they watched so much tv so she picked up a BBC English type accent. Like how American kids nowadays are getting it from watching Peppa Pig!

Octomore · 14/06/2022 18:07

OssomMummy1 · 14/06/2022 18:03

Children in Private Grammar School
Business class travel
remote controlled house
49 inch flat screen telly
Landrovers
chihuahua
LV bag
but the mentality of a council estate tenant .
… FFS….have you not heard, “money doesn’t buy class”.
COWS 🐮

So tell me, what exactly is "the mentality of a council house tenant"?

WombatChocolate · 14/06/2022 18:07

BunnyCat makes a good point. The middle class is very broad. In income terms for those working (and not all middle class people will be working) it probably encompasses those in jobs such as teachers and nurses who might be earning in the mid 30k, up to those earning £500k+. And yes, there are far more at the lower end. There are heaps of families with uni educated parents in public sector mid level jobs, or those running small businesses who generate a family income of between 50 and 80k.

Most of these are or become home owners and will have come from a range of backgrounds, but won’t be paying for orivate education and will face large mortgage payments. The families paying for private education at £20k + per child and who have second homes are a far smaller number. Some of them have made money and are nouveau riche, if you want to call it that. Lots of them are from traditional middle class families who were also privately educated and have access to more of the social capital that is referred to on this thread.

Many and the majority of the middle classes on the more typical levels of income, probably don’t have pianos (no room for one thing) or huge amounts of social capital. They are interested in education and look at the different schools and certainly bear it in mind when moving house, but most do t have significant choices. They like their kids to get some extra curricular exposure, but it’s likely to be Sunday football and maybe Scouts and swimming lessons, rather than £30 per hour 1-2-1 private music lessons and clubs which cost £500 per term. These families like their homes to look nice and might spend of renovations or pssoivly an extension at a ouch, but with big mortgages, childcare costs and just life, most are probably living in standard 3 bed or 4 bed houses. They probably buy their cars on lease agreements and don’t have substantial savings, but probably have got a buffer in case of emergency. They will have a holiday and see it as important and will be willing to save for a nice family time in the summer either abroad or UK. They can go out with friends for a birthday meal or similar and don’t have to watch every penny at the supermarket and can buy some booze every week, but most aren’t shopping at Waitrose or can totally ignore their weekly costs or not give any thoughts to them. This is probably what most middle class people look like. They’ve got some items of the so called middle class clothes in their wardrobe, but don’t fully kit themselves out in it, because it’s just a bit expensive and actually have some supermarket clothes too. They’re keen to be seen as respectable and comfortably off and are aware of who probably has more than them and who has less. Life is fairly comfortable, but requires a bit of planning and thought. They can’t take stuff for granted - their children will probably do okay at school, but whether that will be really well or just okay is hard to know. This is what most families with oerhaos £45-£75k look like these days.

AnnaMagnani · 14/06/2022 18:07

DH and I have just gone to Waitrose to buy Charlie Bighams, him wearing White Stuff, me wearing Thought.

We nearly had a meltdown as they had moved the espresso powder shelf - yes we have a mokka pot.

However we are spoiling our MC credentials by being shoes off indoors, blame my Scandinavian heritage

sunglassesonthetable · 14/06/2022 18:09

We nearly had a meltdown as they had moved the espresso powder shelf

😁

ChairPose9to5 · 14/06/2022 18:09

I have another example, I know this woman (vaguely) she's on my face book. She is a painter, and she does create art. And it is ok. But she always has buyers. She was shipping off some of her work to its new home in London and was posting about it on face book. Good for her, but if I told you how ordinary this stuff is you'd think I was jealous. I'm not. I know that people are buying a piece of HER. She has this impossibly perfect life. Good looking DC, surf boards on top of the car. Husband has one of the old fashioned professions though He's good looking and has various well known barristers and journalists in his circle of friends.

My friend and I were laughing a while ago about the housewives of high earning husbands who set themselves up in business selling jewellery. There are always a few. The jewellery's always shit too. God help me, do not try to flog us your squiggles on a hook

Octomore · 14/06/2022 18:09

Chaoslatte · 14/06/2022 18:05

Oh, I assumed it was because they watched so much tv so she picked up a BBC English type accent. Like how American kids nowadays are getting it from watching Peppa Pig!

It's because WC accents = thick, vulgar and MC accents = nice, polite, educated.

Lazy stereotyping.

DirtyteaCup · 14/06/2022 18:10

Nutellaonall · 14/06/2022 08:26

Pizza ovens instead of BBQs. And a fire pit for after.

Disagree. Nothing in the garden, no hot tub, no pizza over, certainly no fire pit.

Walkaround · 14/06/2022 18:10

sunglassesonthetable · 14/06/2022 18:00

@Walkaround

Socio -economic markers. Market segmentation. Branding for different people. What people want to buy.

Would you say, @sunglassesonthetable , that the purpose of marketing is to try and fool people that they can join a particular class and lifestyle by purchasing particular products? Or are you trying to advertise that certain social classes should not buy particular products, because they are not of the right social class?
And if neither of these, then what does social class really have to do with it?

RedToothBrush · 14/06/2022 18:11

There isn't three classes in the UK anymore. There are seven.

If anything these are more pronounced now than they were back in 2013 when this started being publicised as a thing:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-22007058

Elite - the most privileged group in the UK, distinct from the other six classes through its wealth. This group has the highest levels of all three capitals
Most over represented occupations in this class: CEO / IT and telecomms directors / Marketing and sales directors, Barristers and Judges / Dental practictioners / Advertising and public relations directors.

Established middle class - the second wealthiest, scoring highly on all three capitals. The largest and most gregarious group, scoring second highest for cultural capital
Most over represented occupations in this class: Electrical enginners, Occupational therapists, midwives, environmental professionals, police offers, quality assurance and regulatory professionals, town planning officials, special needs teaching professionals

Technical middle class - a small, distinctive new class group which is prosperous but scores low for social and cultural capital. Distinguished by its social isolation and cultural apathy
Most over represented occupations in this class: medical radiographers, aircraft pilots, pharmacists, higher education teachers, natural and social science professionals, physical scientists, senior professionals in education establishments, business, research and admin positions

New affluent workers - a young class group which is socially and culturally active, with middling levels of economic capital
Most over represented occupations in this class: electricians and electrical fitters, postal workers, retail cashiers and checkout operatives, plumbers and heating and ventilation engineers, sales and retail assistants, housing officers, kitchen and catering assistants, quality assurance technicians

Traditional working class - scores low on all forms of capital, but is not completely deprived. Its members have reasonably high house values, explained by this group having the oldest average age at 66
Most over represented occupations in this class: medical secretaries, legal secretaries, electrical and electronic technicians, care workers, cleaners, van drivers, electricians, residential, day and domicillary care

Emergent service workers - a new, young, urban group which is relatively poor but has high social and cultural capital
Most over represented occupations in this class: bar staff, chefs, nursing auxiliaries and assistants, assemblers and routine operatives, care workers, elementary storage occupations, customer service operations, musicians

Precariat, or precarious proletariat - the poorest, most deprived class, scoring low for social and cultural capital
Most over represented occupations in this class: cleaners, van drivers, care workers, carpenters and joiners, caretakers, leisure and travel service occupations, shopkeepers and proprietors, retail cashiers.

Trafficjamlog · 14/06/2022 18:12

Middle class brings security and confidence and it comes down to having some money and a confidence you can buy yourself support on things that matter to you

. It’s a Confidence that if it all goes tits up you won’t end up without a roof over your head or having to forgo feeding your family because someone in your family or circle will ensure that happens

. If you’re unemployed you’ll be able to tap into your contacts to help you out and possibly give you a job . If you want to see a doctor you can pay to see who you want to avoid waiting lists and you’ll have private health care anyway unless you’re an NHS consultant when you might not have it on principle but you can only have those principles as your consultant mates see you and your family for free in their private clinics and then bump you up their NHS lists even though they shouldn’t but nobody ever questions this.

if your child has SEN or MH problems or one of you is ill your contacts and circle know the best specialists. The best divorce lawyers. The best accountants etc and you all do each other favours. Clearly they’re not all the best but it’s a competition to always know the “best”

You understand the education system and have high aspirations for your children and can throw money at most things to ensure they have the support they need when they want it be that tutors. Speech therapists, houses in catchment of good schools,

it’s buying in services to make your life easier, cleaner, window cleaner, gardener, odd job person.

your kids don’t worry about university debt because they are completely confident to they can repay the loans as they’re just as confident they’ll have a high paying job and if they don’t then an inheritance will pay it off. Their parents don’t pay the fees and make them take the loans to “teach them the value of money” but it’s not really doing anything of the sort

you spend a lot of time discussing the newest restaurants (always low key little gems) the villages in Italy / France / mallorca / Ibiza to rent for the summer. And bemoan that you fancy a hotel holiday but not a ghastly all inclusive unless it’s IKOS or Sani where your teens join you after they’ve been interailing but in Airbnb or private en-suite rooms in spotless hostels if they’re slumming it despite mum and dad ensuring the Monzo or Revolut card is charged in “case of an emergency”. Your kids might have done a trip to magaluf or similar for a parent free holiday but for no more than 4 nights because anymore is too much and they don’t want to miss out on the family holiday to above IKOS or luxury Villa.

sunglassesonthetable · 14/06/2022 18:20

Would you say, @sunglassesonthetable , that the purpose of marketing is to try and fool people that they can join a particular class and lifestyle by purchasing particular products? Not really. But you do sell 'a lifestyle'Or are you trying to advertise that certain social classes should not buy particular products, because they are not of the right social class? No. But some individual associations are not good. eg Prince Andrew has been dropped all round. ^
And if neither of these, then what does social class really have to do with it?^
As per theOP. Like it or not there are indicators. Which makes targeting easier for brands easier. The same way the internet throws ads up at you depending on what you take an interest in.

sunglassesonthetable · 14/06/2022 18:20

@Walkaround

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