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What thread outcomes that never got posted are you curious about?

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Addicted2LuvIsland · 12/05/2022 18:20

Which thread were you invested in where perhaps the OP stopped posting or the thread died and you never got to know the outcome?

For me there are two:

The one where the lady got her heart broken by a Jewish guy who just suddenly dumped her.

A more recent one where a girl was "exclusive" with guy she hadn't heard from in 3 weeks and she went out and bought him birthday presents anyway. He then posted pics on Instagram of his bday celebrations which she wasn't invited to. She messaged him and I would love to know if he replied and what happened.

You go....

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ChestOfFields · 13/05/2022 18:27

I wonder sometimes about the neighbours who had driveways next to each other and the new neighbour 'accidentally' knocked down the middle bit and rebuilt it to match their (ott) other side, but it belonged to the op!

Also, I often think about Seoldair and her nasty MIL!

Shanksponyorbust · 13/05/2022 18:56

There was one from a good few years ago. The OP had a pregnant friend who’s American boyfriend was leaning heavily on her going over to the states to have the baby. The OP (and MNrs) were worried if she had her baby in the states the boyfriend and his mother would block the girlfriend taking the baby back to the U.K. and she’d be left in the situation that she had to leave the US but couldn’t take her baby.

faw2009 · 13/05/2022 20:08

There was one where the husband was extremely stingy and would fine the wife if she spent too much on groceries and stuff. I think she had bought some chicken and the husband was very displeased. Very controlling. I don't know what happened to them though.

AlternativePerspective · 13/05/2022 20:59

“Btw, just because a thread is deleted, does not automatically mean it was a troll. It's quite rare to have actual trolls on here.” oh get real. it really isn’t that rare.

We’ve had over the years:

a troll who made up that she had had a premature baby, she was outed when someone found that she’d liftedthe picture off the internet.

A poster who claimed to have lost premature twins, turns out she was posting this story all over the internet, including on baby loss forums, and her pictures too had been lifted from the internet.

Oliver’s army where a child was said to have cancer, OP was posting from the back of the ambulance,

A poster who was fleeing domestic violence in Japan, posters actually started a collection for her and arranged for somewhere for her to stay etc. It was discovered that she was a troll when her story about obtaining a visa didn’t add up, and when a poster contacted a member of her family.

Anyone who thinks that trolls are rare is incredibly naive.

There is a statistic that around 90% of deaths announced on Internet forums are fake. Poster creates a persona, invents a story, and then kills it off, I actually know someone who has done this on multiple occasions.

Many trolls are the same person who creates multiple personas across the internet.

I’m guessing those posters who so adamantly defend trolls and claim that they’re rare have probably had a bit of a creative writing streak themselves.

TalkingCat · 13/05/2022 21:02

Oliver’s army where a child was said to have cancer, OP was posting from the back of the ambulance

And? How does posting from the back of an ambulance - as many people do, prove he/she was a troll?

I’m guessing those posters who so adamantly defend trolls and claim that they’re rare have probably had a bit of a creative writing streak themselves.

Nope, I'm just not naive and sheltered and believe in Mumsnet infallibility as those who claim troll for absolutely no reason with no proof, are.

AlternativePerspective · 13/05/2022 21:13

You seriously believe that a poster who is panicked that her child is ill, to the point that he’s in an ambulance is going to sit in the back of an ambulance, join mumsnet for the first time and start posting? Really?

If I recall rightly her pictures too had been lifted from the internet.

There is a difference between a poster who might post a thread which seems unbelievable, and one which makes up a story, is posting about it in realtime (we’ve had posters posting that they’re lying on the bathroom floor in pools of blood for instance.)

motherofchihuahuas · 13/05/2022 21:39

Cattenberg · 12/05/2022 21:19

If she’s the woman who was filling a storage unit, I think she was called Coats Protection League.

I’d love to know if all her careful planning paid off. I do hope so.

I remember that one. I hope she's well.

motherofchihuahuas · 13/05/2022 21:44

HazelBite · 12/05/2022 23:32

The one with the puddles on the Neighbours patio which were the posters fault as water had "flowed" from her lower lying garden uphill to her neighbours.

I think that was a troll in the end

longtompot · 13/05/2022 22:33

It can go the other way though. A few years ago there was someone who was in labour, prematurely I believe with twins, who was accused of being a troll and banned. Expect, she wasn't a troll, her experience was real and she really needed the advice. It was on an episode of one Born Every Minute. I only caught the end of the posts about this, but it was very sad.

gregdaviesiswonderful · 13/05/2022 22:43

@SuffolkBargeWoman Twittlebee was absolutely not a troll..... around the time of the woods thread she found out she was unexpectedly pregnant....her lovely son Roy was born premature and sadly passed away after a few days....The fabulous Wooly Hugs team made a beautiful blanket in his honour and she was kind enough to send a photo of herself and their new DC enjoying it and remembering Roy..... That's the only reason her thread was not resolved.....sometimes real life throws a curveball and updating MN takes a back seat

ZarquonsSandals · 14/05/2022 09:08

The woman made to eat paper.
The woman married to an abusive man -apparently he was in the police and would assure her nobody would believe her.
Missing ironing board.
Patio doors/listed building.

I think there was an update on the green eyed gardener, which was a happy outcome.
I thought the massage oil neighbour was strange - it all escalated far too quickly.

I miss the crazy posts about Sharon, wasps, Erasure and t-rexing in the supermarket.

SuffolkBargeWoman · 14/05/2022 09:19

@gregdaviesiswonderful I'm really sorry ! I think I was mixing Twittlebee up with another Woods thread 😳.

The others were trolls though!

AcrossthePond55 · 14/05/2022 14:49

ChestOfFields · 13/05/2022 18:27

I wonder sometimes about the neighbours who had driveways next to each other and the new neighbour 'accidentally' knocked down the middle bit and rebuilt it to match their (ott) other side, but it belonged to the op!

Also, I often think about Seoldair and her nasty MIL!

I think of Seoladair, too! IIRC she changed names and posted just a bit more then went off the radar. It's hard when we get no 'resolution', but people have to deal with things in the way they can. And sometimes that means just leaving things 'hanging'. They owe us nothing, really.

On other 'subjects';
There was also a poster a few years ago, I can't remember her name. She was in the US, had DCs and a very ill husband, and was drinking far too much. She wanted to stop so badly but just couldn't maintain her strength. We had lived/spent time in the same areas (not at the same time) and shared some reminiscences about those places. We'd even PM'd once or twice. Then she suddenly stopped posting. I still think about her off and on.

And I thought I remembered that the NZ poster who wanted desperately to go home and the 'neighbours stealing woods' poster were both advised by solicitors to stop posting as things were 'getting legal'.

Addicted2LuvIsland · 17/05/2022 00:00

MaggieFS · 12/05/2022 22:50

Possibly one of the ones you mean was whereby their worked overlapped so the OP had reason to call her DH but he never answered although called back very swiftly?

Yes I know the letter one. I would love to know the outcome of that

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Addicted2LuvIsland · 17/05/2022 00:09

Addicted2LuvIsland · 17/05/2022 00:00

Yes I know the letter one. I would love to know the outcome of that

That quoted wrong for some reason. The letter one the the one where the husband received a letter in a NHS envelope seemingly had delivered. The letter inside said something ominous like "if you need help getting away from abuse" call this number. I'd love to know if they got to the bottom of it.

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