Would you live seperately if you could

[erikbloodaxe]

If you are married or have been together a long time and had the choice to live apart but continue the relationship , finances all good etc would you?

Its unusual I agree. I'm just curious if anyone else has considered it.

No, I love being around him though I do dispair at his mess. I quite like the occasional night in the guest room though!

It took me a long time to get used to being on my own post-divorce but now I love it. I spend weekends at my DPs and love getting home on a Sunday evening, putting shit on the telly and having a glass of wine and a fag on the sofa. I need my down time.

Not at all. I enjoy DH's company and genuinely love being around him.
I also physically can't sleep on rare occasions when we have to spend the night apart.

Definitely not. He takes up too much room in the bed, he elbows me in the head countless times during the night, and he snores, but I love the fact that when I wake up in the middle of the night he’s there beside me.

Although the odd night in the bed on my own is an absolute treat though 😀

Yes, failing that my own room. I love being on my own and I enjoy the company of others then I choose.

Yes. It would be my dream situation.

Just thought of a huge benefit to this. When MIL stays it wouldn't be in my house!