I just feel their statistics (numbers of Russians dead/Russian weaponry destroyed/generals killed vs numbers of Ukrainian military killed, children killed, civilians killed) and some of their accounts of events are not accurate
I know. You go walk around Mariupol and inspect every building for unburied bodies. You can dig under the rubble with your bare hands amongst potentially unexploded devices or unstable walls and ceilings. Whilst under fire.
The idea that you can have a nice neat head count for civilians is beyond naive. There is an estimate of 5000 being used today for Mariupol from the Ukrainians. What more do you want? A plot of where they are all buried?
After the Bosnia war, bodies were being dug up for years. They are still trying to identify many now. Some remain unfound.
There are dead missing from WWI and WWII who are occasionally found. My step-grandmother was still looking for her father over 50 years after the war. He died on the Eastern Front. She never found him before she died. I wonder if he will ever be found - technically though not a blood relation we are next of kin.
Totally unrealistic expectations.
To the point that this comment has actually quite annoyed me tbh.