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If you are pretty/attractive can you be friends with men?

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Quirrelsotherface · 26/03/2022 20:49

Just that really. Not a boast I am definitely no supermodel but I am pretty. I am married, it's not perfect but we love each other, work well as a team and have decent sex and he's got a big willy so I'm perfectly happy and do not want to shag anyone else.
However I like men, I like talking to them, having a laugh, I have an interest that is male dominated. I would happily chat away to their wives too but here's the thing. I am met with coldness, suspicion and actually just fucking nastiness sometimes from their partners.

What can I do, save from shouting 'I don't want to shag your husband!'?
Can anyone honestly say they have great friendships with men if they are pretty?

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DownstairsMixUp · 30/03/2022 19:08

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Svadhyaya · 30/03/2022 20:01

@DownstairsMixUp that's kind of what I was getting at too.

If I meet another woman and we don't click with eachother or I think she's being off with me, I can't imagine automatically assuming it must be jealousy of my incredible good looks.

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