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Dreading the weekend, I just want DH to come home

96 replies

bloodywhitecat · 11/03/2022 18:58

But won't be. He can't. I would give anything to have him bounce through the door, declaring "It's the freaking weekend baby!" just one more time. Going off to fetch the Friday night takeaway just one more time. Sitting here, with him next to me. But it is never going to happen. He died 12 days ago, here, peacefully at home. He finally looked like him again instead of being disfigured by the stroke and the pain of his cancer. I know he's at peace now but I miss him so much. This is my first weekend on my own, last week I took the babies (we foster) to my DD's for the weekend but this week I am staying here. Tomorrow I need to find something to wear to say our final goodbyes and I am dreading it.

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BuntyCollocks · 11/03/2022 19:01

I am so sorry for your loss.

Dentistqn · 11/03/2022 19:03

Oh that’s heartbreaking, OP Flowers

katmarie · 11/03/2022 19:06

I can't imagine how much pain you are in. It sounds like you love him dearly. I'm so sorry :(

dragonDan · 11/03/2022 19:06

I'm so very sorry x

A596881B · 11/03/2022 19:06

I’m so sorry OP

ABitOfAShitShow · 11/03/2022 19:07

I’m so sorry, OP. Flowers

moonbedazzled · 11/03/2022 19:08

I am really very sorry. In all your posts your love for him was so clear to see and he sounded like such a wonderful man. x

ka147 · 11/03/2022 19:10
Thanks
Arewethebadguys · 11/03/2022 19:10

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your husband was fortunate to have met someone who loved him like you do Flowers

Giveronyoursausage · 11/03/2022 19:11

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've followed your threads and I was wondering how you were doing as I haven't seen you around for a while. Take care and RIP Mr whitecat x

endofthelinefinally · 11/03/2022 19:12

I am so, so sorry for your loss. Flowers

M0rT · 11/03/2022 19:12

I am so so sorry for your loss. Your love for him has shone through all of your posts and he sounds like a wonderful man.
I wish I had words of wisdom or a way to help you bear your pain.

LetsGoCrazyPurpleBanana · 11/03/2022 19:14

Sending a big virtual hug. You've been in my thoughts xx💐

Bekind19 · 11/03/2022 19:16

So sorry for your loss op 💐

OneFootintheRave · 11/03/2022 19:17

I'm so sorry. It must be shock and pain in these early days. Be kind to yourself. I dread something like this in the future. ❤️

AnyFucker · 11/03/2022 19:21

I have followed your story and shed a few tears for you this evening. I am so sorry.

MyMoneyIsAllSpent · 11/03/2022 19:23

That's so heartbreaking. I'm sorry for your loss.

Dragongirl10 · 11/03/2022 19:25

So very sorry op he sounds fab...

Bournetilly · 11/03/2022 19:29

I’m so sorry for your loss

PenguindreamsofDraco · 11/03/2022 19:29

Another one who'd been wondering how you were all doing. Peace to him and Flowers for you.

Holothane · 11/03/2022 19:30

💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

xxreeldancerxx · 11/03/2022 19:30

So very sorry for your loss x

forlornlorna · 11/03/2022 19:31

I send you my love op x

picklemewalnuts · 11/03/2022 19:32

I'm sorry, Whitecat! There will be more times like this, more firsts, when it hits you about the face like a cold wet kipper. In time, you will be better used to it, it will be less shocking. There will still be firsts, but they'll be sad rather than devastating. ThanksThanks

Tomeeornottomee · 11/03/2022 19:33

I’m so sorry for your loss 💐💐💐💐💐