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Screaming when you cut a birthday cake

307 replies

Cammel · 23/01/2022 21:09

I remember me and my friends doing this as kids, but DH doesn't think it's a thing. Was it just my friends or does anyone else remember doing this?

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sanityisamyth · 23/01/2022 21:52

Yes but I never understood it. Haven't taught my DS to do it!

rainbowandglitter · 23/01/2022 21:52

No thank god. What was the purpose of the screaming? Hideous.

SockQueen · 23/01/2022 21:52

Nope, never - Midlands 80s/90s

mynameiscalypso · 23/01/2022 21:52

I don't get why people think it's so awful? Birthday parties are generally pretty noisy and full of people screaming anyway!

NotAnotherPushyMum · 23/01/2022 21:53

I’ve read some bonkers things on mn over the years, but I think this wins. What a bizarre thing to do! Very pleased this isn’t a thing in the NE.

Whichcatthatcat · 23/01/2022 21:54

London/Essex border 1970/1980s. Never heard of this, its very strange.

Wonnle · 23/01/2022 21:54

Only if the knife cuts ya finger as well as the cake

JessyCarr · 23/01/2022 21:55

Yes, that was definitely a thing at my childhood birthday parties (South Africa, 70s). Not really a scream but more a sort of high-pitched “Aah” exclamation. There was some superstition attached to it - if you didn’t scream, your birthday wish supposedly wouldn’t come true or some other bad luck type thing (?). Anyway this particular tradition doesn’t seem to have made its way to the next generation.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 23/01/2022 21:55

No. Grew up in Wales in the 90s although parents both Londonersx

userxx · 23/01/2022 21:55

Errrrm it's a nope from the north west.

HaggisBurger · 23/01/2022 21:56

I am so thankful that there was no tik tok in the 80s and the rest of us who were just cutting our cakes not like freaks weren’t infected with this weird London thing. Christ. I’d think someone had cut themselves.

DiddyHeck · 23/01/2022 21:56

@BurnDownTheDiscoHangTheDJ

For balance, London and Essex in the 80s and 90s... Not a thing here.
Same. I've never even heard of it.
HaggisBurger · 23/01/2022 21:57

Perhaps MNers can institute making owl noises when they cut cakes now tho 😉😂

TheCloudBotherer · 23/01/2022 21:57

No, never heard of it. (Bradford 90s and 2000s).

Is it a proper high-pitched, back of your throat scream or more a sort of "Ahhhh!"/"Aaarrgghhh!" ?
(If that makes any sense at all).

If it's the former, it sounds bloody awful.

mynameiscalypso · 23/01/2022 21:57

@JessyCarr

Yes, that was definitely a thing at my childhood birthday parties (South Africa, 70s). Not really a scream but more a sort of high-pitched “Aah” exclamation. There was some superstition attached to it - if you didn’t scream, your birthday wish supposedly wouldn’t come true or some other bad luck type thing (?). Anyway this particular tradition doesn’t seem to have made its way to the next generation.
Oh I'd forgotten that bit! Yes, if you didn't scream then your wish didn't come true.
ShinyPikachu · 23/01/2022 21:58

I've never heard of this at all. I grew up in the 80s/early 90s in two very different parts of Scotland and it didn't happen in either.

mum11970 · 23/01/2022 21:59

Never heard of it thank god. No one would ever get a cake if they did that in my presence as I can’t tolerate screaming.

FGSWhatNow · 23/01/2022 21:59
Confused
Poppitt58 · 23/01/2022 22:00

My friend from Zimbabwe does this. Was a bit of a shock for all the kids at her daughter’s birthday party!

ShowOfHands · 23/01/2022 22:00

A childhood friend did this. I was so surprised the first time I witnessed it. Proper high-pitched, full on scream.

SiobhanSharpe · 23/01/2022 22:00

We cheered when the birthday boy or girl blew the candles out. That's all. Thank heavens.
London/Essex.

EmmaH2022 · 23/01/2022 22:00

@BasiliskFace

Yes. Scream when knife hits plate. 1980s Essex.
Nope Also raised in Essex in the 80s
AndAllOurYesterdays · 23/01/2022 22:01

80's North London and never seen this

wowsaidtheowl · 23/01/2022 22:02

Yep. Surrey 1980s. Wish in the middle, scream at the bottom!

4pmwinetimebebeh · 23/01/2022 22:02

MN sure teaches you some stuff huh.