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Screaming when you cut a birthday cake

307 replies

Cammel · 23/01/2022 21:09

I remember me and my friends doing this as kids, but DH doesn't think it's a thing. Was it just my friends or does anyone else remember doing this?

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OhFuckBloodyHell · 23/01/2022 21:20

@OhFuckBloodyHell

No. Definitely not something I've ever encountered, I grew up in 80s/90s.

Those who do remember it, was screaming a normal thing to show excitement / whatever? Any hint of a scream from me or DB and we got a resounding 'Trago! That is enough! Calm down!' which may have something to do with it!

Twat, I've just half outed my name change there! GrinHmm
WheelieBinPrincess · 23/01/2022 21:21

Yeah, I learnt this from a family I nannied for!

London. it was my 53 year old boss’s birthday and she just let out a high pitched screech when she cut her cake.

I was like WTAF?!

ClumpingBambooIsALie · 23/01/2022 21:21

That sounds horrendous. Very glad traditions where I grew up were more along the lines of "everybody gets a potted meat sandwich and a cup of squash".

Flamingo49 · 23/01/2022 21:21

This is amazing. I'm also a 1980s London kid but never heard of it. Can it be pinned down even further- what part of London were people doing this in?!

ADialgaAteMyDog · 23/01/2022 21:22

Yes 1980s Bristol. Not every time though and didn't last long!

WheelieBinPrincess · 23/01/2022 21:22

This was Hampstead 😂

tearinghairout · 23/01/2022 21:22

No. I grew up in London and never heard of this, thankfully.

GiantSpider · 23/01/2022 21:23

Yes I did this! Wish in the middle, scream at the bottom. I grew up in London.

toomuchlaundry · 23/01/2022 21:24

No

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 23/01/2022 21:24

No.

🎂

HeadNorth · 23/01/2022 21:24

Sadly yes, I hate it but my evil sister still insists on doing it. 70s/80s childhood in Scotland

Pawsin · 23/01/2022 21:24

Yep! I grew up an hour outside London. Was a thing in cutting any celebratory cake, birthday & wedding. Although, we never all full on screamed it was more of a hushed/fake scream 'ahhh' to commemorate the tradition if that makes sense! Grin

Chishnfips · 23/01/2022 21:25

Why tho?

mynameiscalypso · 23/01/2022 21:27

Yes! Is this not a thing?! Everyone I know did it (also 80s/90s London). My mum still makes us do it to this day! It's only for the first slice when the knife hits the plate/base and like PP said, it's a sort of fake 'aaah' scream.

Vampirethriller · 23/01/2022 21:28

As in a high pitched screech type scream?

APurpleSquirrel · 23/01/2022 21:28

Nope - I grew up in the 80s/90s & have never heard of this (Hants).

RaskolnikovsGarret · 23/01/2022 21:29

It’s not often I am completely taken aback by something, but I am now. What kind of scream is it? Does it happen after the happy birthday song? Do other people react to the scream or just carry on as normal? I am intrigued.

I can’t imagine anyone doing this, child or adult. I live in London now, and thankfully it’s not a thing any more!

PriamFarrl · 23/01/2022 21:29

Not with me. 70s/80s West Country.

IHateWasps · 23/01/2022 21:29

I've never heard of it. What an odd thing to do.

2tired2bewitty · 23/01/2022 21:30

DH’s family does this, I’ve just asked where it originated from and he said Neighbours Grin

MinglingFlamingo · 23/01/2022 21:30

This was never a thing at parties I went to.

Youvegotafriendinme · 23/01/2022 21:30

Grew up in the early/mid 90s, south east London and never heard of this. Seems such an odd thing to do

2tired2bewitty · 23/01/2022 21:31

(As in the tv show) dh and siblings all born late 70’s early 80’s

Snowiscold · 23/01/2022 21:31

Yes, very normal for my DC and birthday parties they went to - born 1990s London. It’s not a scream of excitement. It’s part of the cake-cutting tradition. I didn’t do it as a child.

iklboo · 23/01/2022 21:31

No, never heard of it, seen it or done it myself. Thank feck.