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One word / phrase for decades of your life

31 replies

SleepingStandingUp · 19/01/2022 18:55

My 20s were filled with disaster.
Poor Mh, poor budgeting, piss poor taste in men, etc. I would never want to relive my early 20s. The word would be MISTAKES

All my kids and 99% of the children in my life were born during my 30s. I got married. I changed a lot. The word would be BIRTH

and now I'm 40. A relative died on my 40th birthday and I've realised that that's set the tone. I will lose a considerable number of people I love in the next decade. DParents are currently 66 and 62, MIL is 68. Aunts all lated 60s and 70s. I do work where I have made lots of friends who are around or older than my parents. I feel like this decades word will be DEATH. It feels so stark looking ahead and knowing this.

So what word or phrase would summarise each decade of your adulthood?

OP posts:
UsernameInTheTown · 19/01/2022 20:01

"What the hell was I thinking?"

Shapiro · 19/01/2022 20:04

20s - spectacular.
30s - amazing.
40s - exciting.
50s - fulfilling.

ImSureISaidNo · 19/01/2022 20:14

20s - lonely adventure leading to love
30s - make it all happen decade

Not yet in 40s but expect- tail chasing
50s - menopausal mayhem
60s - soul searching preparing for the second childhood
70s - make it all happen #2 before I can't....
80s+ who knows!

lilikiki · 19/01/2022 20:16

Teens - awkward
20s - fun
30s - enlightening

I’m sitll 30s and I have no idea if I like the enlightening process ahahaha

colouringindoors · 19/01/2022 20:17

20s lonely
30s demanding
40s horrific

WakeUpLockie · 19/01/2022 20:23

Teens - directionless
20s - non-stop
30s - discovering and achieving

I’m 32 but hope my 30s will lead to me figuring out some sort of career!

immersivereader · 19/01/2022 20:29

20 - misguided
30 - children

Nearly in the next decade... let's hope it's spectacular

SouthernFashionista · 19/01/2022 20:36

Teens - freedom
Twenties - travel
Thirties - fulfilment
Forties - cancer

PartyOnKale · 19/01/2022 20:38

30s : the oxytocin decade

NinetyNineRedBalloonsGoBy · 19/01/2022 20:44

20s: energy and freedoms
30s: heavy responsibilities
40s: time for ME now

I'm 44 so unrealistically. hoping that the next ones will be:

50s: travel with DH and no kids
60s: money and luxury
70s: enjoying being a matriarch!
80s: selective deafness

MazzleDazzle · 19/01/2022 20:46

Depends on whether I’m in a glass half empty mood…

Teens: HEARTBROKEN
Twenties: WRECKED
Thirties: GIN
Forties: FRUMPY

Or glass half full…

Teens: PROMISING
Twenties: FUN
Thirties: NURTURING
Forties: GRATEFUL

moonfacebaby · 19/01/2022 20:49

20s fun
30s family
40s shite

Just turned 50 so hoping this one is going to be less challenging than my 40s

PermanentTemporary · 19/01/2022 20:49

0-10: greenness
11-21: intensity
21- 31: learning
31- 40: surprises
41- 48: bones
49 - present: openness

ShinyPikachu · 19/01/2022 21:33

0-10: fun
11-19: grief
20-29: abused
30-39: freedom
40 (now): TBD

jesusmaryjosephandtheweedonkey · 19/01/2022 21:38

20's motherhood
30,s Relaxed
40's adventures

Savingpeoplehuntingthings · 19/01/2022 21:54

Teens - angst
20's - mistakes
30's - me
40's - contentment
I'll be 50 soon

Fetchthevet · 19/01/2022 22:05

Teens - miserable
20s - ambitious
30s - hard work
40s - fulfilling
50s - can't wait to find out

hivemindneeded · 19/01/2022 22:07

0-10 - Words
10-20 - Determination
20-30 - Adventure
30-40 - Marriage
40-50 - Children
50-60 - Discovery

Karenetta · 19/01/2022 22:23

1-10 bewildered
Teens - searching
20s - WILD
30s - episodic
40s - illuminating

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/01/2022 22:25

20s - studying
30s - cycling
40s - babies and children

Warmhandscoldheart · 19/01/2022 22:31

20's - Unrealistic expectations
30's - Discovery
40's - Anticipation
50's - Loss

BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 19/01/2022 22:31

Childhood- happiness
Teens- messed up
20's- life changing (in both wonderful & horrible ways)

I'm 33, so far 30's are settled, I hope that theme continues.

Ivalueloyaltyaboveallelse · 19/01/2022 22:38

Teens fun
20s discovery
30s hard work

TooManyPJs · 19/01/2022 23:56

@Shapiro

20s - spectacular. 30s - amazing. 40s - exciting. 50s - fulfilling.
Can I have your life please?
TooManyPJs · 19/01/2022 23:59

20s rollercoaster/directionless
30s more rollercoastering/slightly more direction
40s chronic illness and complete change of direction

Hoping I'll see some improvement in my 50s