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“She looked at him gone out” - what region uses this phrase?

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Lunificent · 07/01/2022 20:43

My friend says it all the time but I’ve never heard anyone else say it here. I just realised her parents are from Northampton. Would it be from there?

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heidihigh · 07/01/2022 21:31

We say this - staffs/Cheshire border

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2022 21:32

Derbyshire - I said it to a Londoner once and he looked at me gone out.

YouWereGr8InLittleMenstruators · 07/01/2022 21:33

How does it fit into a narrative though? Can someone give me an example of that?
Something like:
The view from Scafell was breathtaking. Yet when Bob muttered, "Damn, I've left the flask and sandwiches in the boot...", Sue looked at him gone out?
I don't get when you'd say it.

KirkstallAbbess · 07/01/2022 21:33

I've lived all over the north west and it's really common.

Spring Bank Holiday is the name for what used to be Whitsun I think.

MeredithGreyishblue · 07/01/2022 21:33

I've lived in the NW all my life and NEVER heard that! And my gran trots out all the strange & old fashioned gems at 90!

KirkstallAbbess · 07/01/2022 21:34

@RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie

Derbyshire - I said it to a Londoner once and he looked at me gone out.

😂 great example

CeleriacOfTheNight · 07/01/2022 21:34

W Yorks, 'gone out' is a common saying round these particular parts (no, assure you we're not mishearing it Grin )

Our first summer hols would be Wakes week/ Wakes fortnight.

Pemba · 07/01/2022 21:35

From Leicestershire. Yes, I'm familiar with the phrase meaning 'to look at someone/something in surprise/amazement'.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2022 21:35

@YouWereGr8InLittleMenstruators

How does it fit into a narrative though? Can someone give me an example of that? Something like: The view from Scafell was breathtaking. Yet when Bob muttered, "Damn, I've left the flask and sandwiches in the boot...", Sue looked at him gone out? I don't get when you'd say it.
Your example doesn't work.

You'd say it when somebody is looking at you as if you've gone totally bonkers.

I told Bob I was thinking of getting my left tit tattooed with Morrissey's face, and he looked at me gone out.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2022 21:36

Thanks @KirkstallAbbess Grin

Saltisford · 07/01/2022 21:37

I was brought up in Coventry and definitely use and have heard the phrase. My husband, from around Evesham knew what it meant but doesn’t use it and says it’s not used there!

HipHopBanzai · 07/01/2022 21:40

I'm in the NW and haven't ever heard anybody say this. Wouldn't have had a clue what it meant!

prsphne · 07/01/2022 21:40

Husband is from West Yorkshire and frequently uses it.

EmmaH2022 · 07/01/2022 21:40

@RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie

Derbyshire - I said it to a Londoner once and he looked at me gone out.
😂 Thanks for explaining

When I broke my ankle, a northern friend asked "have you got a pot on it". I was baffled.

TheCreamCaker · 07/01/2022 21:41

It's said in Nottinghamshire (although I don't say it myself)
We do say "Ey up" though

titchy · 07/01/2022 21:42

Weird Im a Mancunian and never heard it! Deffo whit week though. And blithering.

Lunificent · 07/01/2022 21:44

We’ve been researching and come across why people all each other mi duck. It’s got nothing to do with ducks, it means my duke.
That will explain why in some areas men say it to one another.

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HipHopBanzai · 07/01/2022 21:44

Would always describe a cast as a pot (NW). One of friends is from the SW. Used it in conversation with her before Christmas and she was equally baffled. I hadn't realised it wasn't universal!

mrsfollowill · 07/01/2022 21:45

YouWereGr8InLittleMenstruators

How does it fit into a narrative though? Can someone give me an example of that?
Something like:
The view from Scafell was breathtaking. Yet when Bob muttered, "Damn, I've left the flask and sandwiches in the boot...", Sue looked at him gone out?
I don't get when you'd say it.

See I would deffo look 'gone out' at this point - I was looking forward to sandwiches and tea once we had got to the peak! so I'd be WTF Bob you had one job! Maybe I should have been 'incandescent and shaking with rage' Grin

ChicCroissant · 07/01/2022 21:46

I've never heard this phrase despite living in the North West for the majority of my life and latterly in the South West. Like all the best regional phrases, it makes no sense at all but those who recognise it know instantly what it means Grin

RonniePickering · 07/01/2022 21:46

@titchy

Weird Im a Mancunian and never heard it! Deffo whit week though. And blithering.
Me too.
FindingMeno · 07/01/2022 21:47

Yorkshire.
Looked at her like she'd gone bonkers.

SunshineOnKeith · 07/01/2022 21:48

@Lunificent

When my friend says it, she means they looked at them weirded out (astounded judgementally). She also calls the Summer half term holiday ‘Springbank”. Is that an East Midlands thing?
Spring bank holiday is universal isn't it??? Def in yorkshire
Lunificent · 07/01/2022 21:51

@SunshineOnKeith - she doesn’t say Spring Bank Holiday. She says “Springbank” all one word as if it’s the way everyone says it.

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Soundofshuna · 07/01/2022 21:55

Lincolnshire definitely and I can only hear it in a strong Lincolnshire accent now. While being in a Mars and having hot aches..