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“She looked at him gone out” - what region uses this phrase?

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Lunificent · 07/01/2022 20:43

My friend says it all the time but I’ve never heard anyone else say it here. I just realised her parents are from Northampton. Would it be from there?

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Latte40 · 07/01/2022 21:00

Midlands saying, means
'She looked at me as if I were a blithering idiot. I was shocked and surprised as I thought I was making total sense'

I said 'take the dog for a walk'
She just looked at me gone out! (Gonn aaat!)

LuckyMeISeeGhosts · 07/01/2022 21:02

Born and raised in West Midlands, and all my family said it.

It essentially means to gawp at someone in shock. So, if someone was to make a really weird and outlandish remark, you'd look at them 'gone out'.

mrsfollowill · 07/01/2022 21:02

It's a 'Northern' thing- I'm Yorkshire for donkeys years but was born Lancashire and I've been using/hearing it my entire life - and it def means 'looked at him/her in surprise/bewildered/mildly annoyed'

EdithGrantham · 07/01/2022 21:04

I love finding out about regional phrases, I'm from the Midlands and also knew this one. One I found out wasn't universal was pack-up for packed lunch. Also is it mardy (for grumpy) that is regional to the Midlands?

NoWordForFluffy · 07/01/2022 21:05

@Lunificent

My friend says it all the time but I’ve never heard anyone else say it here. I just realised her parents are from Northampton. Would it be from there?
Yes, I'm from Northants and I'd use that expression.
indignatio · 07/01/2022 21:06

Staffs saying too. Just asked DH, turns out I haven't used it in this hearing for the last 30 years, so he looked at me gone out

SilverGlassHare · 07/01/2022 21:06

It’s familiar to me as an ex-Mancunian/Lancastrian.

GirlInACountrySong · 07/01/2022 21:07

ahhh my mum (south yorks) used to say this all the time!

had forgotten, just jogged my memory

4intheCorner · 07/01/2022 21:08

I'm from Derbyshire. I'd definitely say it's a Midlands phrase.

ZealAndArdour · 07/01/2022 21:09

Nottinghamshire, very common every day phrase here.

It means to look at someone as if they’re mad/strange or with shock.

MatildaJayne · 07/01/2022 21:09

Oo, thanks OP, a new phrase. Never heard of it, from Bristol. Bet you don’t say ‘cheers drive!’ Grin

MrsTophamHat · 07/01/2022 21:09

Never heard of it in Cumbria

mrsfollowill · 07/01/2022 21:09

Oh 'pack up' and 'mardy' here too! although an alternative to pack up is 'snap'! as in 'Whats tha got for snap today' Grin I think it goes back to when most of the men worked in mining and took their snap tin down the pit for lunch.

Warmhandscoldheart · 07/01/2022 21:10

Common in Norfolk too

Bathbubbleseverywhere · 07/01/2022 21:11

Omg, I’m Manchester way and have never heard of this 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sewannoying · 07/01/2022 21:12

I’m very proud that I have taught my midlander DH to say ‘stop scrawming’ to DD when she’s messing about on the floor. Mardy is also another good Yorkshire word.

SquigglePigs · 07/01/2022 21:12

Common phrase growing up in Cambridgeshire.

WarmForDecember · 07/01/2022 21:14

Never heard that before! Every day's a school day

GirlInACountrySong · 07/01/2022 21:17

ive just worked some shifts with a team of men from Nottingham.....it was all "me duck" and "ducky"....took me back to childhood as i are up in Notts

GirlInACountrySong · 07/01/2022 21:17

*grew up!

ShrinkingViolet9 · 07/01/2022 21:18

Midlands.

ElleGettingBetter · 07/01/2022 21:18

I’m in Nottingham and hear it/say it all the time!

KenAdams · 07/01/2022 21:19

We say it in Leicestershire

wlv12 · 07/01/2022 21:19

Derbyshire/Burton

LynetteScavo · 07/01/2022 21:19

It's definitely a well used phrase in the Midlands