I’m reading on hear that statistically children who are removed from their parents have worse outcomes, blaming the removal for this. Couldn’t it just be the fact that the first years of their lives have affected them so badly that most of them will never catch up to their peers?
Yes some of it is down to early life experiences, however removing a child from their birth parents is a significant trauma for them - they leave everything familiar and are placed with strangers. Those strangers are paid to have the children placed with them and often have more than one child/sibling group placed at various points, so more home disruption every time a child comes or goes. At any time that placement might break down which is yet more uncertainty for the child.
They have no sense of permanence even if they’re on a permanence order - I know one child placed in a permanent placement aged 9, they’re now aged 13 on their fourth “permanent” placement - each time the foster carers have said they can’t cope with him.
The reality is that for kids aged over 5/6 no one want to adopt them, such are the challenges with older children, and they bounce round the care system. Residential homes aren’t much better with staff on a rota who come and go.
I had a young person attending LAC review meetings while studying for her exams, the level of anxiety for her meant she simply couldn’t concentrate because that meeting could realistically change her placement- again.
In many cases foster carers are just a bit better than the homes the children come from, understanding of early trauma and the ongoing impact on behaviour and mental health are pretty woeful, the concepts of therapeutic parenting and positive behaviour management are poorly understood and if it gets too hard the foster carer can simply move them in, so a commitment to staying with the child no matter what isn’t there. Not in all cases, but in many.
My daughter has been deeply harmed by her experience of removal and foster care, before we look at her experiences in her birth family. Removal isn’t a good option for children, it’s the least worst, and certainly not the answer in most cases.