@Viviennemary
What I dont think is right is take two bsbies 23 week pregnancy. One wanted one not. Everything possible done to save 23 week but other ond can be aborted. Id like to see the abortion limit brought down to 20 weeks max except in the case of conditions not compatible with life. Its not going to happen in the UK. But at least the USA is waking up.
You honestly, honestly think that a woman gets to 23 weeks, and then just goes "fuck it, I can't be arsed".
It is offensive to all mothers who have had to endure TFMR. Our babies were wanted, desperately loved, prayed for.
My son had a condition that is "compatible with life" but it would have been a short, painful, distressing to him life. He would have had to have multiple operations, at birth and beyond, in order to attempt to fix what my body creates wrongly in his. That's without breathing tubes for life, feeding tubes for life, fighting off infections with his tiny, second centile body. He would have suffered, immeasurably until he succumbed.
Could you put your child through pain and suffering, knowing that that is all they would ever know? Never leaving an incubator? Never leaving a children's hospital?
You honestly think that I wouldn't have given my right arm for him to have been even slightly healthy? For it to have been even just one of the conditions that he had?
How dare you condemn women who have had to endure the worst thing a mother can, condemn and judge them for trying to spare their child.