Percentages - you and your OH

[Statisticz]

For those of you who live with a partner, what would you say is the overall percentage split of all chores/childcare/life admin?

Please also state if you are male or female.

I’d say for me (F) 60% and OH (M) 40%

Im a single parent so defo do life admin. Just dont know what it is. Is it paying bills? I have direct debits- do most peoplendo something different?

Me (F) -40, DH (M) -60

I generally work longer hours than he does though, so our leisure time is pretty even.

Chores pretty evenly split. Life admin - my husband probably does a bit more. Childcare - I do more at the moment because I’m on mat leave but I’m about to go back to work and he’s going on paternity so he’ll do more of it then.

(I’m female he’s male)

Ultimately I think the key is that people end up with a similar amount of leisure time after all core tasks are done (if someone wants to create extra work for themselves that's a different issue... )

When I was working long hours and DH was a SAHP, me (female) 25%, DH (male) 75%. Now there's no childcare, we both work less than full time, and it's around 50% each. Or 45%, each, because our resident adult offspring often blitzes the kitchen.

We're unusual in that we work and live together.

I do 70% of home, DH probably does 70% of the business. So it works out equally in the long run.

It doesn't matter who does what as long as there is no resentment from either partner.

F=65%
M=35%

Paid employment: 70% me (F) / 30% him (M)
Childcare: not really relevant as our youngest is nearly 16. I guess I still do 90% of child related tasks such as uni prep, homework help, school admin. When the dcs were small he did 70% of the childcare
Chores 50% me / 50% him. He does all the traditional male jobs of house diy/car maintenance/gardening. He also does half the laundry, most of the cooking and some cleaning
Life admin: 100% me He would be lost if I died suddenly