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I am getting married tomorrow

144 replies

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 13:48

Coming up for a year ago now DP began to get sick, as the weeks went on he turned yellow and, after a mammoth battle with the NHS in covid times, he was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer. A PET scan in August showed no spread but by the time they finally got round to operating on him in late October they found the cancer had spread to his liver, limiting his already limited chances of survival (the 5 year survival rate for his cancer without spread is 7%). In November we were told he had six months to live yet somehow he is doing OK, the tumours are spreading but he is well in himself for now.

Tomorrow we marry. We are blessed that he is well enough to enjoy it, the icing on the cake would be sunshine. When we were buying our outfits we went for shorts for our fosterling (and had to make an emergency dash to the shops yesterday for some trousers for him). Cross your fingers for some sun for us please?

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MrsWildermac · 21/05/2021 13:49

Have the post amazing day!Flowers

IamEarthymama · 21/05/2021 13:50

I will light a candle to ask for sunshine for you.
You will have a lovely day, whatever the weather.

Love and Blessings to you all xx

foodtoorder · 21/05/2021 13:51

Congratulations for your marriage. I hope it's an amazing day for you all, just as it should be!

HollowTalk · 21/05/2021 13:51

Congratulations! It sounds as though you're both having such a tough time. I hope the sun shines on you both tomorrow and that you have a lovely day. Flowers

bellsbuss · 21/05/2021 13:51

Have a wonderful day and I hope the sun shines for you xxx

Evidencebased · 21/05/2021 13:52

I hope with all my heart your day is lovely , whatever the weather. Will be thinking of you.Flowers Cake

DownWhichOfLate · 21/05/2021 13:53

I’ve been following your threads. Have a wonderful day! Did you choose a first dance song? Find a dress? Got your cake? How exciting!

DPotter · 21/05/2021 13:57

Wishing you sunshine and joy for tomorrow and the strength to face whatever fate throws at you. Flowers

InTheNightWeWillWish · 21/05/2021 13:57

I’ll go dig the big coat out and throw the suntan lotion in the bin! After not using my handbag for 14 months, I’ve discovered my sunglasses are broken, so that should help too.

I hope you have a lovely day and get the icing on the cake.

TheSimpleThings17 · 21/05/2021 14:00

Wishing you the most wonderful day, that the sun shines on you and it’s a day to treasure x

AtoZed · 21/05/2021 14:00

Hope you have a lovely sunshiney day.

Rainbowqueeen · 21/05/2021 14:02

Wishing you the happiest of wedding days.

All my fingers and toes crossed for sun

bloodywhitecat · 21/05/2021 14:04

@DownWhichOfLate

I’ve been following your threads. Have a wonderful day! Did you choose a first dance song? Find a dress? Got your cake? How exciting!
Dress sorted (thank goodness for Phase Eight and a HoF sale). Music? A work in progress but I am walking into Christina Perri - A Thousand Years. Cake? I must get it out of the freezer before my son-in-law arrives to pick me up this afternoon, thank you!

Thank you everyone. I am so nervous, but so excited.

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IsThePopeCatholic · 21/05/2021 14:07

Congratulations! Have a lovely day - whatever the weather. Flowers

LlamaofDrama · 21/05/2021 14:09

Wishing you a fantastic and happy day. I'll cross my fingers for the weather but hopefully you won't even notice!

ItsCokeFFS · 21/05/2021 14:11

Have a lovely, lovely day Flowers

HamAndCheeseToastie5032 · 21/05/2021 14:11

Hope you have a wonderful day Flowers

NeedWineNow · 21/05/2021 14:14

Wishing you both all the very best for a wonderful dayFlowers

mommybear1 · 21/05/2021 14:20

I have also been following your threads wishing you a wonderful sunny day tomorrow I shall encourage toddler DS to do a little sunshine ☀️ dance for you 💐

Gertie75 · 21/05/2021 14:30

Congratulations for tomorrow, I think it's forecast to be much better than today.
Make sure you take time to pause, look around and take it all in, it passes in such a blur.

Retrievemysanity · 21/05/2021 14:33

Have a wonderful day and sun or no sun, you’ll have some amazing memories to look back on Flowers

MoreAloneTime · 21/05/2021 14:34

I hope you get lucky with the weather

BashfulClam · 21/05/2021 14:35

I hope you have a magical day and the days you do have together however limited are full of love, happiness and sunshine. Hold each other tight!

Defiantly41 · 21/05/2021 14:35

I've been following your story from your first posts. Wishing you sunshine all the way xx

1988Username · 21/05/2021 14:36

Happy wedding day for tomorrow