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ADs picnic in the park with Twinkle the Tortoise

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ISaySteadyOn · 22/02/2021 19:07

Thought it was my turn to start a thread.

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BogRollBOGOF · 25/02/2021 21:26

@CaptainWentworth

Hi all- bit of lurker on these threads but enjoy reading the craic!

Just wanted to post to those who are struggling with GP appointments- my lovely DH is a GP and is completely exhausted and overworked at the moment, even more so than usual. They are a doctor down one day a week at the moment because they have to contribute someone to the central vaccine clinics, and as a result the on call rota is such that he is on call for part of every day, which means he has to do all the telephone consultations in addition to doing a full morning or afternoon of appointments. He usually sees/ calls about 40 people a day even without an on call and he is really struggling to keep on top of everything.

Plus the COVID safety measures mean he has to wipe down surfaces in his room after every patient he sees, wear a new plastic pinny (which he hates!) and gloves every time and wear a mask every time he leaves his room or a colleague or patient comes in to speak to him. So that all takes up extra time.

And on top of all that he is managing patients with complex conditions in the community, when they should be being seen by hospital doctors, because the hospital service has obviously reduced due to the pandemic- he has to have half an hour argument with a consultant or whoever every time he tries to refer someone at the moment, which takes up a lot of time considering he’s only allocated 10 minutes for each patient contact. Plus all the multiple phone calls when he tries to call a patient back because they don’t/ can’t answer the phone the first time.

I do understand what it’s like trying to get appointments- I’ve been there too - but GPS do mostly work very hard, want the best for their patients and are as frustrated as everyone else by the current conditions.

That's interesting to hear. It's frustrating when there is just a wall of innacessibility and no explanation, and as ever, some service providers do the best they can in a tough situation and others take the easier opportunity. DM has found her surgery difficult to deal with for about 15 years and the on-site pharmacy told her that there was no one on site at her GP and it's a large practice.

I'm fortunate that my family are light users of ours. They barely know who DH and I are (other than my maternity/ postnatal phase and the occasional smear test). DS2 has inhalers for seasonal use. And there tends to be about a year/ 18m between the DCs having an issue. Only once have I struggled to get any contact and that was for the nasty virus that DS1 had in Dec 19, but fortunately he rallied before I could get in touch. Last Monday before Christmas is never great timing. Poor kid had post-viral fatigue after and really wasn't himself for a few weeks and it took a few months until we got to lockdown before he really reached fullpower. I do wonder about that infection...

SirSamuelVimes · 25/02/2021 21:30

@LivinLaVidaLoki

I'm glad you're getting somewhere now *@Evenstar*

I did something similar to your friend at the start of the pandemic. DSs best friend couldn't attend school as it was keyworker only. His mum is now one of my closest friends. For some reason the breakfast and after school club wouldn't refund her the term she had already paid for. She had to close her business and was worried about money. We pay ours using childcare vouchers so I contacted the wraparound care and made a payment for her DS on the understanding they would refund her and tell her it was an admin error (due to not having to book holiday clubs I had a high balance) To this day she's no idea I did it.
It wasn't much (couple hundred) but she was so happy.

Loki that is such a wonderfully kind hearted thing to do. You bloody brilliant woman.

I love these threads. They are a great reminder of the good that is in the world.

BogRollBOGOF · 25/02/2021 21:30

I think I've been conned into babysitting...
My friend has a significant date shortly after one of the dates on the lockdown release schedule and she's been struggling to find anyone not desperate to hit the town.
I had a realisation that this is an evening with children who are not my children... in a house that is not my house. This is a winner to me Grin

Curlygirl06 · 25/02/2021 21:40

@DWPmisery1972

Hello lovely ADs. I’m still in shock and can’t quite believe what has happened to me today.

A friend found out about my sick pay situation and today an envelope came through my letter box with a considerable amount of cash in it and the most beautiful and kind letter. It’s been two hours and I’m still crying. I don’t deserve this. I rang him and was in hysterics and he told me ‘friends are like garden fences, sometimes you just need one to lean on’ and I just... I don’t really know what to say. I never asked anyone for any money or anything (the MN ‘grabby’ trope- I just soldier on and hope for the best mostly 😂) but I just can’t believe it. I just don’t even know how to thank him. He is so kind. I had forgotten what it was like to feel emotions other than isolation and misery for a bit there.

I hope everyone is doing ok; how is our mascot? Any pic updates?

@DWPmisery1972 our little mascot has been put to bed but I'll get a picture for you specially when I get her up tomorrow morning.

In the past I've lent (given) friends of mine money when they've been struggling ( told them it was a loan and refused to have it back when they tried) as I've been there. Once I remember crying down the phone to my friend as I only had £3 left and there was 2 things I HAD to buy but could only afford one of them. Bless her, she turned up with a tenner, plus some chocolate for me and wouldn't take it back.
As I'm older now and insurance policies and pensions are kicking in, plus no kids at home etc I'm better off now than I've ever been. (Not rolling in it, otherwise I'd give up work!) but I remember what it's like to scrape along from week to week. One day you might be able to help someone struggling and you'll remember with fondness the kind person who helped you when you needed it. Chin up kiddo, things will get better.

justasking111 · 25/02/2021 22:13

Wow just seen the Queen on a zoom call with the NHS recommending the vaccine

DWPmisery1972 · 25/02/2021 22:27

Thank you so much @Curlygirl06! I would love a pic, thanks so sweet of you. Thank you for your kind words, I’m honestly still so shocked and grateful and haven’t taken it in- I’ve sort of always kept things to myself and tried to get on with things (haven’t spoken to parents in years apart from my mum on and off, she’s quite flakey and doesn’t like me much) and I feel like I don’t deserve it or something. He has saved my skin and I’m so grateful, and like you say I hope one day I can pass it on to someone else when I’m out of divorce/shit job/situation mode. I am so grateful for my friends, they are so supportive and I just vlahhh don’t have words! I’m babbling. They are just so loving.

@justasking111 was it you who had the friend with the daughter with the ED? How is she getting on? I hope she’s ok Flowers

@LivinLaVidaLoki that is so lovely. ADs you are an amazing group of women, I’m feeling hopeful and remembering the sweetness of other people for the first time in so long, it’s incredible. I’ve just been alone and trying to get along on my own for so long, I didn’t even tell the other half about it because I feel embarrassed or like a failure about it all.

Hope everyone else has had a lovely evening, I went and bought groceries and not having to worry about paying for it I nearly cried at the bloody check out. Silly mare I am. Lots of love everyone. Flowers

MrsEWeatherwax · 25/02/2021 22:30

Was that on the tv? They don’t seem to need to encourage anyone from the north east, people are queuing for hours.
This thread is lovely Flowers to everyone. You are all such lovely strong people.

DWPmisery1972 · 25/02/2021 22:31

@CaptainWentworth please tell your DH thank you from an internet stranger that I appreciate what he does, I have needed my GP(s) for non covid related things recently and I am grateful that they are there for me- so thank you mr captain SmileFlowers

justasking111 · 25/02/2021 22:35

@DWPmisery1972 what's ED??

DWPmisery1972 · 25/02/2021 22:35

@Evenstar hope you’re ok, thinking of you Flowers

DWPmisery1972 · 25/02/2021 22:35

@justasking111 sorry, eating disorder

DWPmisery1972 · 25/02/2021 22:36

I may have the wrong poster in mind, if so I’m sorry Blush

justasking111 · 25/02/2021 22:42

Ah no not me.

My GP spent two months phone consultation trying to help, then said I needed referral. Now Welsh government have always been antsy about private insurance, but since covid she said they were allowed to contact consultant in the private sector, without me having to find a consultant who then had to write requesting my details which was a pain if you needed it quickly. The NHS has been using the private sector on the down low for a few years the hypocrites

justasking111 · 25/02/2021 22:48

This is what the Queen said. I was a bit gobsmacked, reminded me of my granny who was a nurse

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9301373/Queen-intervenes-vaccine-rollout-encourage-Britons-jabbed.html

DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 00:16

Oh sorry @justasking111! Mind like a sieve me, if a poster knows what I’m talking about then Flowers for your friends DD x

ISaySteadyOn · 26/02/2021 06:15

Good morning, everyone. Birds are singing and we found DS' nightlight so he slept. Which meant we did too.

I'm not sure our GP even knows I exist anymore. I know they are overworked so I really do treat as much as possible at home.

So, if any of you garden, what are you growing this year? I am doing all sorts of edibles because last year, the children are them.

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110APiccadilly · 26/02/2021 07:19

I've had one terrible GP and a number of brilliant ones, unfortunately it tends to be the terrible ones that stick with you! Not sure I've actually met my current one - I moved about 2 years ago and haven't needed a GP since (apart from my post natal check which they did over the phone). I did meet a GP from the practice for DD's 6 week check, who was lovely, so I'm hoping he's DD's named GP.

bakingcupcakes · 26/02/2021 07:55

@MrsDeaconClaybourne I watched the blitz programme a couple of days ago and thought it was fascinating. I didn't realise the keep calm and carry on poster wasn't actually used. I was thinking after about what programmes/history lessons will be taught about the pandemic. I don't think they could use my diary...too much swearing! Grin

@DWPmisery1972 That's so kind of your friend. There's nothing wrong with accepting help now and again.

I'm glad you managed to see someone @Evenstar It's so difficult at the moment. My friend told me I should contact a gp. I think I'm possibly perimenopausal but she says I'm too young. The symptoms don't really bother me and I doubt there's anything anyone could do anyway but the prospect of trying to talk to someone when the system is so over-stretched puts me off. I'm more of the ignore it until it goes away brigade.

I was with a customer who was mask exempt for ages this week. I enjoyed it. It was like the old days. Interacting with someone where you can see their whole face and smile was very novel. What a shit world we live in.

I had other things to say based on stuff I've read over the last 4 pages and now I can't remember what they are. Very frustrating!

bakingcupcakes · 26/02/2021 07:56

It's probably for the best I can't remember my other points - that was a very long post without them! Grin

DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 08:06

Morning @bakingcupcakes! Brew I do that too, I’m rubbish at keeping up and worry I’ll miss someone Blush

@ISaySteadyOn I can hear the birds too! Very relaxing actually. I don’t garden but a friend of mine does and she has invited my children over gasp Shock to come and dig up some veg/show them how to plant. Sorry covid police!!!

@110APiccadilly yeah it’s always a bit hit and miss I find but when you find the nice ones it’s very reassuring

Curlygirl06 · 26/02/2021 08:13

Morning all!
@DWPmisery1972 here you go. Having her weekly weigh- in.

ADs picnic in the park with Twinkle the Tortoise
ADs picnic in the park with Twinkle the Tortoise
ISaySteadyOn · 26/02/2021 08:28

She is so sweet! Question: can tortoises and cats get on?

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MrsDeaconClaybourne · 26/02/2021 08:32

Weirdly I knew about the keep calm poster as DH visited the shop that found it and bought me one with the story on the back. It was perhaps a year before the slogan went mad and was on everything.

I keep thinking I've imagined this so will have to watch again but I'm sure they said all the filming during the war was in colour but they made the decision to change it to B&W in about 1949nto make it seem longer in the past?!

DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 09:11

Aaaahhhhh thank you @Curlygirl06!!! What a little sweetie! Her shell is so beautiful 💓