@HmmSureJan
My only concern is who decides? That's always been my concern and I suspect it's the main concern of many onlookers who are uncomfortable with the self appointed social justice marshals directing these operations and unilaterally deciding which statues and monuments should be toppled or defaced. And then when you do express these concerns, if you're not articulate enough you're automatically dismissed as racist and hectored into explaining why you're uncomfortable with crowds of people rampaging around, committing criminal damage etc. There are definitely some statues that need to go but I think the discomfort with these actions is often more to do with wondering just how far this behaviour will be allowed to go and why the mob gets to decide.
I agree, especially about the lawlessness and vandalization. It's totally wrong. That's why I wrote: "...removed properly" in my post. This should be properly done - I have no idea how exactly. Mob justice (though I can sometimes understand why some people feel the need to take that route) isn't the way to go and only leaves room for arseholes to do what they want anyway, not necessarily caring about the real issue at hand.
On the other hand, there are some whose only reason for opposing anything to do with the statues is simply to oppose anything. They're not exactly thinking about the right way to remove them or if some should be removed at all. I suspect these are the sort of people some 'pro-removers' have in mind when (wrongly) dismissing anyone who is against it.
I suspect it's a case of each side seeing the worst in the other and not being able to have a peaceful conversation about it. No one from either side would give the other a chance, certainly not the extremists from either side. You then have some stuck in the middle with no answers, no going forward or backward.