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ADs are elite athletes and can run very fast

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BogRollBOGOF · 03/01/2021 16:32

Another thread in the saga filled up (so no forwards link)

I think maybe we're endurance athletes, or maybe multievent like a decathlon Grin

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GarlandaChynoweth · 08/01/2021 08:31

@110APiccadilly yes, agree. There are a few families at school who deregistered because they wanted to keep home schooling. People need to stay aware that while it might suit their family situation and DC, there are others of us where the school closures are a nightmare due to the need to work, our own temperaments and that of the DC. There seems to be a view amongst the Ds that we just hate our DC and can't be bothered to look after them. The situation is much more complex than that.

Seriouslymole · 08/01/2021 08:33

@GarlandaChynoweth - someone IRL made the comment about parents not wanting their children at home. I was fairly restrained in my response but did say that wanting them in an educational environment is totally different to not wanting them at home.

110APiccadilly · 08/01/2021 08:38

The thing I find utterly tone deaf is variations on, "It's parents' responsibility to look after their children." Legally that's presumably correct, but it hardly makes you a neglectful parent if you assume that the free provision of education, taking place outside the home, which we've had in this country for 150 years (with some variations on what ages were eligible) was likely to continue!

BogRollBOGOF · 08/01/2021 08:39

Back in April we saw the bats flitting around at twighlight on the path at the edge of the woods. I tended to do a late walk with the DCs, sometimes as the main walk or as an extra because it was easier when no one else goes out then anyway. One of the little things that I did like then was how clear the views were and the night sky was brilliant. We did a few star gazing sessions.

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Weedsnseeds1 · 08/01/2021 08:45

I might go and watch the starling murmerations at the weekend, there are some huge ones locally and a starling hotline that will tell you where they were roosting the previous day (assuming that's still up and running).

GarlandaChynoweth · 08/01/2021 08:47

@Seriouslymole I'd love my DC to be at home if they were happy and I didn't have to work. DS1 at least is certainly not happy, and I have to work. Plus we can't go anywhere apart from the same old walks we've been doing since March. I love a walk, but we're over it now.

WouldBeGood · 08/01/2021 08:47

Hello! Just popping in as I ventured into the dark side and see Ann Frank and WW2 are making a comeback. Groundhog Day...

WouldBeGood · 08/01/2021 08:49

I’m hoping the next deadly virus will thrive in the Great Outdoors, and fade to nothing in busy cafes, restaurants, shops, gigs and bars. Then I’ll be the smug one preaching how it’s not that bad!

Worldgonecrazy · 08/01/2021 09:08

I’ve lost patience over there. Same smug hits spouting same shit.

SirSamuelVimes · 08/01/2021 09:18

Just bitten on one of the "don't let rule breakers have NHS access" threads. You know what, yes. Fine. Give me my life and my kids lives back and I promise that if I get Covid the NHS can ignore me. I will take that deal all day long.

ISaySteadyOn · 08/01/2021 09:47

Me too.

Seriouslymole · 08/01/2021 09:51

@SirSamuelVimes

Just bitten on one of the "don't let rule breakers have NHS access" threads. You know what, yes. Fine. Give me my life and my kids lives back and I promise that if I get Covid the NHS can ignore me. I will take that deal all day long.
Yep me too.
dingit · 08/01/2021 10:11

@WouldBeGood

Hello! Just popping in as I ventured into the dark side and see Ann Frank and WW2 are making a comeback. Groundhog Day...
DJ has just done his weekly team quiz on Groundhog Day. We were googling all sorts of useful facts for it. The date is 2nd Feb so coming up! This is not a random date either it is the mid point between the solstices.
DrRamsesEmerson · 08/01/2021 10:20

@SirSamuelVimes

Just bitten on one of the "don't let rule breakers have NHS access" threads. You know what, yes. Fine. Give me my life and my kids lives back and I promise that if I get Covid the NHS can ignore me. I will take that deal all day long.
Me too, count me in! (Especially since I'm fairly sure I had it in February and thought at the time that it was a cold with a bad cough).
NastyBlouse · 08/01/2021 10:21

@SirSamuelVimes

Just bitten on one of the "don't let rule breakers have NHS access" threads. You know what, yes. Fine. Give me my life and my kids lives back and I promise that if I get Covid the NHS can ignore me. I will take that deal all day long.
And me. Feel a bit silly now, I think it was a froth job.
NastyBlouse · 08/01/2021 10:23

Ahhh Weeds I used to love watching the starling swarms when I was a kid. It's truly beautiful to watch, a real wonder of nature in action.

rosettesforjill · 08/01/2021 10:26

We've just had a woodpecker in our garden! One benefit of working from home - I only normally have pigeons and concrete (and the odd seagull) from my office window.

TabbyStar · 08/01/2021 10:29

We had a woodpecker in our old garden, and foxes under the shed, and bats. I miss them. We were on the edge of a city. In a town now but we have less wildlife, though sometimes goldfinches and long tailed tits. A few starlings too but no murmurations afaik.

LadyOfTheImprovisedBath · 08/01/2021 10:34

know at least one friend who seems to embrace school closure and lockdowns as 'an adventure'

It's less an adventure when the kids are in exam years.

We woke up to the news they'll likely be off till half term in Wales and they've cancelled the internal GCSE exams school bit of GCSE assesments due to start after half term.

So back to no idea how they're assesing plus one of DD1 subjects has a performance bit that needs to be assesed and it's been delayed repeatedly as year group was off or teacher was self isolating it's getting really close to that deadline now.

The kids themselves are doing okay at home - they're older, more used to distance learning and school is now really trying to teach them rather than half assed attempt in first lockdown but it's not as good as them being in school for any of us.

LadyOfTheImprovisedBath · 08/01/2021 10:37

We used to have loads of birds in our last garden - this one is more sparse and smaller though we try and encourage them so the cats can watch from the catio.

Though to our surprise hedgehogs go down the public footpath and our drive and wall and by small gap at side of the house and do occasionally make it into our garden.

Tmpnamechange · 08/01/2021 10:57

Ok temp name change so that I can post in more detail than I otherwise might

*There are clearly some people who it suits to have their children at home, and who are having a great time. (I know of some home-education-curious families who took the opportunity to try it out with no pressure in the March lockdown and who have since deregistered as they found it worked well.) None of that takes away from the fact that many, many people are not equipped/ prepared/ resourced/ temperamentally suited to it.

If I were in government, and I wanted to save money in the future, I'd be looking seriously at the idea of a permanent online school for those who want it though. Would have to think about how things like labs would work, but there are clearly parents who'd prefer it, and it would be a lot cheaper. (Might also help to improve the currently very patchy provision for children unable to attend school due to illness.)*

We home educate and it's a bloody nightmare doing it without face to face support of the network we've built up. The majority used to be out of the house. Classes and workshops, visits to museums to tie in with what we were studying etc.
My kids are older. We did all the creative stuff when they were younger. The baking, the nature walks, the kitchen science etc. It was great.

What we have here is nothing like what any of my children are used to and it's taking its toll. Before the schools closed, one of my children asked to go, because they've missed knowing they'll see friends nearly every day. If our community can't get back on its feet as quickly as schools, due to ongoing restrictions, that will be happening.

We're very lucky with where we live but for science experiments were had some fab resources locally so that we didn't have to worry about having all the right kit. We've just got my eldest through GCSE science and they probably got more lab time than school peers did. Of course now, just like everyone else, the best we can do it watch them on YouTube and trying to tell my kids that it doesn't matter if they're not impressed, just get on with remembering it is not holding much water.

I'm very wary of the impact that long term govt online offerings could have. There was a play a few years ago by a company to try to get less flexibility brought in for home educators and of course they just happened to run an online offering that people could be compelled to sign up for. We're probably quite a large market, but quite cash poor in general and tend to be careful with what we sign up to, but worth tapping into if extra govt funding could be hived off, along with a narrowed market of just a few companies that have been licensed to meet any new demands that could be brought in.
Of course as an optional service for children who aren't thriving in school and don't or aren't able to home educate, I would absolutely welcome an online school. There are probably many reluctant circumstantial home educators who are doing a fabulous job but would flock to it.

AcornAutumn · 08/01/2021 11:04

Re kids home schooling

I hate to say it but yes, there are certain big companies who would make a fortune out of this. If it's in demand, I have nothing to say, but I am baffled that teachers don't seem to have any idea their jobs might be vanishing.

I cba to look but didn't the New York mayor endorse two years of online school before having to retract his remarks - which have probably been wiped from the internet?

AaahWoof · 08/01/2021 11:06

I've now managed to get my more fragile kid another day in school. Apparently having a mother mid-nervous breakdown isn't sufficiently vulnerable. My uni marks are going down the shitter, our police force have gone fucking bonkers and I would take any denial of a ventilator going, I would pledge to have my phone number blocked by 999, I would renounce my registration at the GP practice and to be honest, right now I would sell my bloody soul to MAKE THIS SHIT STOP.

I'm beyond broken. We have uni lectures being recorded from people's bathrooms to get away from their kids now.

Dowser · 08/01/2021 11:10

Tempnamchange
My dd has home educated from the word go, as you so rightly point out there are far less resources around also with restrictions on travelling, parents aren’t going to feel less safe trying to hold a sd meet up somewhere in the freezing cold..

I’m trying not to feel depressed today...but I am.
I wonder how many people if they don’t have to , are bothering to make it out of the bedclothes on mornings like this

Dowser · 08/01/2021 11:11

Are going to feel less safe i mean