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ADs are elite athletes and can run very fast

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BogRollBOGOF · 03/01/2021 16:32

Another thread in the saga filled up (so no forwards link)

I think maybe we're endurance athletes, or maybe multievent like a decathlon Grin

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DrRamsesEmerson · 06/01/2021 11:03

@Seriouslymole

What can we do about it? I'm also so fucked off that the BBC are reporting the lockdown is law when it hasn't even been voted on.

How do we stand up against this? I can't believe that we will still have the children working from home in the summer term - it's horrific.

It is technically law. It's a 'made affirmative' - a statutory instrument that takes effect when made, but will cease to be law if Parliament votes against it.
Seriouslymole · 06/01/2021 11:05

@DrRamsesEmerson - oh OK, thank you for the explanation.

SirSamuelVimes · 06/01/2021 11:06

I will jump off a fucking cliff before I am out clapping 'for heroes' like a fucking performing seal. PISS OFF YOU CUNTS.

Seriouslymole · 06/01/2021 11:06

@thefallthroughtheair

Hi again all Been on these threads since the very first one, with various breaks and namechanges. Won't be posting much I imagine as I've decided that I can't read anything on SM without being sent insane, but just wanted to add weight to the AD numbers. This whole thing is such a fucking disgrace. Wrote to my MP and the PM this morning + finally made a complaint to the BBC about the Duffel interview. Probably all I can manage for one day. Hope you're all coping as well as possible.
This is the only section of SM that doesn't send me completely bonkers.
HunkyPunk · 06/01/2021 11:15

I never thought I'd live to see the day where I was a bag of nerves about driving an hour to help my son with his house move. It is allowed under the rules, but I'm not sure about the roolz. Can't shake off the feeling I'm going to be stopped en route and asked to show my (unspecified) papers! I think it's all starting to get to me.
Eleftheria e Thanatos!

AcornAutumn · 06/01/2021 11:17

Hello all

Sorry to be trivial but just to say....heard from another contact, retired in the countryside, breezily saying "oh lockdown doesn't make any difference to me".

When I worked with her, she would have been horrified at the loss of rights.

It's bizarre. I don't think I will reply. She asks "what is all your news?"

I can't say "I had great success in managing not to top myself last year, but now I drink a lot" to a woman who might be needed to give me a reference later.

BogRollBOGOF · 06/01/2021 11:22

One of my faint flickers of hope is that in the wilds of the rest of the site, there are a lot more people putting out AD type arguments. 6+ months ago it pretty much just was us.

At least the radio does not have that funerial tone that it did for the first few weeks last time.

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se22mother · 06/01/2021 11:22

@LivinLaVidaLoki

I have just got in the office and received an email stating that if I want to be in here (I am currently in 2 days a week), then I cannot be allowed in without taking part in the random testing available. Which is at the other end of town. There is literally just me in here most days, we have allocated desks and I am the only one in my team here the only other people I have seen here are 2 people at the other end of a massive open plan office.

I come into the office for my mental health. My job can be very stressful and very upsetting and it feels like I cant escape it when I am at home all the time, even just those couple of days where I have a drive in and a drive home helps me create a psychological barrier between work and home and helps loads.
I dont really have an issue with testing I suppose but I feel like I have just had enough forced on me this last year.

Am I being ridiculous?

Same here - deserted floor around me but now have to participate in testing if I want to keep the work access I fought for. Being in made a huge difference to my mental well-being
AcornAutumn · 06/01/2021 11:27

So sorry for those being asked to test to be at work

mightbealittlebitmad · 06/01/2021 11:27

Has it officially been confirmed that lockdown will last until the end of March and kids won't be back until summer? How are we supposed to earn a living if we start being allowed back into work but the kids aren't in school? How are they supposed to do any quality learning? We've just done a zoom English lesson, short term it's doable but long term it's not adequate, kids need to be back in the classroom. If this does drag in I'll try get my 5 year old in as a keyworker, I don't work but my homeschooling best isn't good enough, I'm struggling to get myself through lockdown, let alone become a proper teacher.

DrRamsesEmerson · 06/01/2021 11:29

The lockdown regulations last till the end of March, so yes, that's official. No confirmation on children being out of school till September, but I'm afraid it's looking likely.

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 06/01/2021 11:33

@AaahWoof

School finally got back to me - on my mental health grounds (I actually think I'm at the point I'd call it a nervous breakdown now) the Head shamed and bullied me and pressurised me for 10 minutes solid not to take any place at all. Then I tried the keyworker approach as I DO fit the criteria... denied on those grounds outright - against all the guidance.

So the kids get a day here and there - but I've been warned I'm literally murdering NURSES to get that.

This is awful and so unnecessarily cruel. Sorry. The bullying and guilt tripping is unacceptable.

I am very fortunate in that DS' head took a practical approach and essentially just gave me a straight yes (DH is a teacher but I am not a critical worker), as she did with various others.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 06/01/2021 11:46

Just had a text from my GP practice asking for all frontline NHS/Social workers to fill in a form so they can be contacted about vaccines.
I work for trust A but on trust B's site (honorary contract) and now this from the GP. Hopefully somewhere between that lot I'll get one 🤞🏼

Feeling a bit better today (I may have ranted at work yesterday though). Trying to forgive myself for the horrendous amount of CBeebies in this house and drag DD out in the damp and cold for a play in the park.

LadyOfTheImprovisedBath · 06/01/2021 11:51

@DrRamsesEmerson

The lockdown regulations last till the end of March, so yes, that's official. No confirmation on children being out of school till September, but I'm afraid it's looking likely.
Why are we thinking school's will be out till next September?

Aren't all the vunerable people supposed to be vaccinated by Easter?

They'll have lost so much schooling by that point surely they'll have to think about re-doing entire school year but thet means Univeristy intakes would be messed up and there are a lot of jobs in that sector.

I've no idea what they plan to do with A-levels and GCSE in England - I really hope Wales sticks to it's plans or only delays them.

Pleasenomoreglitter · 06/01/2021 11:55

According to bbc rolling news, Boris has just told MPs that schools will be the first things to reopen when they start easing lockdown. Let's hope this time he's not lying!

rosettesforjill · 06/01/2021 12:07

@Pleasenomoreglitter

According to bbc rolling news, Boris has just told MPs that schools will be the first things to reopen when they start easing lockdown. Let's hope this time he's not lying!
I can believe this to be the plan as closing schools has such a massive impact beyond education, for all that some teachers say about school "not being childcare". But I could imagine it would be like before, maybe exam years, reception, head 1 and year 6 to start with
rosettesforjill · 06/01/2021 12:09

*year 1

Bollss · 06/01/2021 12:09

Well DS is at school and i am in the office with other adults. Thankfully our school are very good. I'm so sorry to those of you who are having to keep kids at home / work from home / struggle with childcare and the rest of that shit. That was me last time and it nearly tipped me over the edge (and then i found you lot).

They best get vaccinating people, because i can cope with lockdown as long as its for a bloody purpose (well lockdown except schools shutting, i wouldnt agree with that unless this was killing children).

In the words of George Michael- you gotta have faith, although tbh my faith got up and walked out at some point in late March last year. We'll see. In my head i know this cannot continue for the rest of my life, but god does it feel like that right now!

starfish88 · 06/01/2021 12:21

I really hope children don't miss out on school until September. That seems incredibly damaging to the future of the country. People keep sharing the 'it's not as bad as the war' memes but children's educations were not so badly interrupted in the war. I do think it will be possible for children to catch up but it would take an overhaul of the whole education system. And I've been disgusted to see the 3 hours of cbbc can replace teaching. I had to do pastoral work when I lived in the UK because I trained overseas so I'm not recognized in the UK but apparently the TV can teach just fine. But in all seriousness I'm happy to help with any lower primary stuff if anyone needs any questions answering. Aside from the obvious 'how do I look after my children and WFH'... I don't have an answer there!

Worldgonecrazy · 06/01/2021 12:26

@Pleasenomoreglitter

According to bbc rolling news, Boris has just told MPs that schools will be the first things to reopen when they start easing lockdown. Let's hope this time he's not lying!
As we are often told when recruiting’past behaviours are indicative of future behaviours’

The chances of Johnson not lying are so remote I wouldn’t even entertain that thought. The chances of Johnson lying to get MPs to support him - very high indeed.

DrDiva · 06/01/2021 12:32

Fuck, it’s only lunchtime.

AcornAutumn · 06/01/2021 12:36

@DrDiva

Fuck, it’s only lunchtime.
IKR?!
rosettesforjill · 06/01/2021 12:36

My grandma lived through the war as a child and from the start has said that this is worse.

TheOrchidKiller · 06/01/2021 12:42

The lockdown regulations last till the end of March, so yes, that's official.
Forgive my ignorance of how legislation works, but just because legislation runs for a set period of time, it doesn't mean that all of the restrictions must last for the whole of that time period, does it? I'm saying this because restrictions were slowly eased during the last massive lockdown, including some children returning to schools end of June, non-essential shops opening mid-June. That suggests that we can hope for a gradual easing before the end of March.

No confirmation on children being out of school till September, but I'm afraid it's looking likely.
Just because many children were out of a school building until September last time doesn't mean it will happen for definite again. By the time restrictions were eased last summer it was practically the English summer holidays anyway, & schools hadn't worked out how to implement all those covid-secure guidelines, so there wasn't much option but to keep them off until September.

This time, we'll be heading into spring, we have a vaccine, schools got children back before & are better-prepared this time. There should be far less reason to keep schools shut for 9 months.

It's human nature to speculate about what might happen, so I'm not attacking anyone here. It just feels unhelpful to speculate so far in advance, when something isn't set in stone.

LivinLaVidaLoki · 06/01/2021 12:47

Can I derail the thread a bit?
I have just had a message from DB, he has been for some hospital tests and he has been told that its likely he has COPD, they will know for sure once someone else has taken a look at the tests.

Now, DB was, up until last summer, a heavy smoker has been all his life. He has spent most of his adult life abusing alcohol (I could have a whole thread about that alone), but now is apparently clean (i say apparently as I can never bring myself to believe that this time he is clean. I know that makes me a terrible sister, but......) and he is also hugely overweight.

I do worry about what his prognosis with this will be as I have very few family left, but I am scared to google. So does anyone here have any experience or knowledge of this?