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LivinLaVidaLoki · 27/12/2020 15:01

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Furries · 01/01/2021 04:48

@Reedwarbler

I have just put in a complaint to the BBC about their 'blood on their hands' report. I think it's really bad, and I seriously doubt that person is an actual doctor. The more people that complain the better. Scaremongering of the highest order.
Really? You “seriously doubt” that he’s a doctor? Even the most basic Google search shows you his “line of work”

I remember him being interviewed way back when. He was emphatic about SD and how much it would help. Can’t imagine, this far down the line, with so many “oh, it doesn’t apply to me” how fucking frustrated he feels.

Did he phrase it incorrectly? Yes, he did. Were his sentiments wrong? No, I don’t think they were.

He was, in the middle of dealing with a shitload of pressure, trying to appeal to people that have ZERO respect for basic guidelines. He was not singling out those who are exempt from masks/have a support bubble. He was trying to appeal to those who have absolutely ZERO regard for anything “cos it’s all shit and I’m fed up now so I’ll mix with x amount of households over x amount of days whenever I want”.

I really flipping get it - so many people shat on with lockdowns, handling of it by govt - though damned if you do/don’t and would another party have done better?

I am definitely not someone “salivating “ over tougher restrictions. I bloody want things to turn back to something even vaguely resembling “normal”. But I can also see how stats would be if there were no restrictions in place. I don’t want that for our NHS - at the moment, I don’t care about the argument of “what’s lead us here”, I want to hope that they can scrape on through this and then the proper argument can start.

The less people mix, the lower the risk of transmission. Therefore, the more beds can be freed up for totally un-Covid related reasons. If there were no restrictions, what would it look like now?

As an aside, I’ve seen explanations for this thread along the lines of “”it’s a safe space for people to air their views without getting flamed”. There are a number of people on here where, I might not “agree” with them, but their posts are measured and thought our, yet there are others who only who post fairly batshit stuff. TBF - no one responds to them, but they also post on loads of other threads. Some of you are happy to go on other threads to show your point of view, but you never pull anyone up on this thread for anything.

I saw some truly dementory shit on numerous posts way back when. Hence why I kept an eye on this thread. But am now disappointed that it seems to have - in some cases, not all - turned into smug/laugh at/they don’t know better clique.

BogOff2020 · 01/01/2021 05:26

Happy new year everyone.

Really going to have to think about getting the extra weight off that all this shit has caused me to gain. That's going to have to be my NY resolution Grin.

Timmytimeout · 01/01/2021 06:57

Happy new year! I think one of resolutions is going to have to be stepping away from Mumsnet and Facebook, although in torn because I see or talk to no one else - DH is absorbed in a game on his phone all the time, so this could leave me feeling disconnected and lonely, but at the moment I feel Mumsnet is stressing me out quite a bit.

I've also convinced dh we need a no screens game night every week, and then possibly one night a week where we watch a stand up comedy show (I need a laugh!) And one film night a week. We've got into a pattern of just existing and every day feels the same, it's exhausting.

BogOff2020 · 01/01/2021 07:02

I know what you mean about MN. I need to try and step away as most of time it doesn't seem to reflect RL views but at other times it can be useful. But I do find I now waste lots of time on here when I used to read books to relax.

ISaySteadyOn · 01/01/2021 08:47

Happy New Year, you lovely bunch. Let's hope this one is an improvement.

Iheartmysmart · 01/01/2021 09:08

Just been out with the dog. The lake is frozen over in some places which I can’t remember seeing in 30 years of living here so it must be cold. It’s also snowing a bit so a very pretty start to 2021.

I had mint Baileys for the first time last night. Not too sure about it although it might just have curdled with the earlier wine. Yuck.

BogRollBOGOF · 01/01/2021 09:29

Baileys is best mixed with Philladelphia and served as a cheese cake Grin

DominaShantotto · 01/01/2021 09:32

Morning all - welcome to 2021 and the same shit but rebranded.

ProfessorRadcliffeEmerson · 01/01/2021 09:38

Happy New Year, everyone- I hesitated before typing that, but I do believe it will get better slowly, however badly it’s starting. Thank you all for helping me to stay sane - or at least less mad - through all this. Though I too am going to try to spend less time on MN this year. I always give it up during Lent, and this year that meant I missed the demented frothing at the start of Lockdown 1, which is unequivocally a Good Thing.

Bailey’s is foul, I’ve never understood the enthusiasm for it.

It’s very cold here- London- but no snow, just grey sky.

Bollss · 01/01/2021 09:40

Checking in. Can't bring myself to say it. Doesn't feel right. Feel quite miserable about it!

BogOff2020 · 01/01/2021 09:46

@DominaShantotto

Morning all - welcome to 2021 and the same shit but rebranded.
That did make me smile Grin
Lostinacloud · 01/01/2021 10:09

So true about needing a potential break from Mumsnet. I first opened up in Active conversations and you’ll certainly not find any joy or positivity there this morning! The couple of D threads I read out of morbid curiosity before heading here for a bit of sanity seemed to be even more full of venom than normal.
I’m the same as you though @Timmytimeout, Mumsnet has become a bit of a place where I have sought out other conversation at times. I need to have a rethink about how we structure our weeks and days too.

Meanwhile Happy New Year to all. Although I know this all carries on for a few more months yet, I am trying to maintain some positivity that it might be a lot better in a few months and so there is something to look forward to.

110APiccadilly · 01/01/2021 10:11

Morning all. My new year is actually better in one way already - DD has decided the Moses basket is not an instrument of torture after all so I got a couple of good chunks of 2 to 3 hours' sleep last night while she was asleep in there. (Just hope it wasn't a one off!)

I hope this is a good omen for the year.

Bollss · 01/01/2021 10:12

Oh yeah the pro lockdowners are being very aggressive this morning. I've noticed that, I don't think I've seen anyone who questions restrictions being aggressive or attacking others but the 'stay the fuck at home' gang have been absolutely vile throughout. And they have the cheek to say that we are devoid of empathy. Hmm.

Weedsnseeds1 · 01/01/2021 10:14

Happy New Year.
Just read the "whinging about the London fireworks" thread.
Yes, it's bread and circuses, but I was happy to see 10 minutes of distraction from the doom and gloom.
Someone in our village dressed as Father Christmas, put lights on their pony and trap and drove through the streets playing Slade on Christmas eve. Made my day Smile. Some of the posters on that thread would have thrown rocks at them I think.

QuantumCheese · 01/01/2021 10:16

Well I’m going to say it. Happy New Year to you all. Things can surely only get better now , that’s what I’m hanging on to.

BogOff2020 I used to read books all the time but I too waste too much time on here and Facebook and I am going to try and cut back.

BogOff2020 · 01/01/2021 10:31

Oh shit was hoping for a negative test result for DH but it's positive so house arrest self isolation is now a definite for another 8 or 9 days (still trying to work out when the day starts/finishes).

Thank god I am always on the ball for booking Tesco deliveries so I won't run out of wine WineGrin

Iheartmysmart · 01/01/2021 10:51

Oh no @BogOff2020! I hope your DH isn’t feeling too poorly and makes a speedy recovery. Keep up with the medicinal wine.

Just ventured onto the thread where the OP doesn’t know anyone who has had Covid, purely out of interest because I only know very few. The amount of spiteful comments is unbelievable. It’s almost as though you can’t say anything unless you have a negative tale to tell.

Bollss · 01/01/2021 10:52

Hope your dh is alright @BogRollBOGOF! Hopefully your house arrest is over quickly!

BogRollBOGOF · 01/01/2021 11:10

I dread to think how much time I waste on here. I joined when mindnumbingly bored at 38wks pg with DS2 and my old forum was slowly dying. It was a godsend for nightfeeds. I am finding more days when I have less appetite to do much other than check up on this thread and the most innocuous of titles and quieter uncontentious zones like exercise. I'm certainly on fb far less and even things like the running groups have gone quiet. No races to train for. Harder to buy kit. No parkruns, but also because at the start of all this, the Ds made it so contentious about more than the most perfunctory of exercise, the admins had to bring in a rule stating a cap on distance/ time ran to avoid the rows! It's not had quite the same vibe since.

The trouble is I seek out virtual company/ conversation in my head when I'm feeling bored/ aimless/ procrastinating... that's a huge amount of my time these days! I normally did have chunks of time like that anyway in between rounds of busyness.

I find it quite fascinating how a change of circumstance (which tends to be for the worse) seems to unleash all the dementoring. Even on fb with people who are usually quite sane and measured still seem to have a mad week of mindlessly forwarding shit about roolz/ masks/ HDU/ blah blah blah. I'm trying to ride it out and see if it settles again like it usually does.

I feel a bit sad that my headspace just can't engage with the New Year stuff. Not in a putdown way. Just it's crap timing with the noose being tightened again this week and it doesn't feel like a fresh start yet. It will come. I just need to plod on until the spring and new life really begins.

BogRollBOGOF · 01/01/2021 11:15

@TrustTheGeneGenie

Hope your dh is alright *@BogRollBOGOF*! Hopefully your house arrest is over quickly!
Not me, it's @Bogoff2020. I'm getting confuzzled but it don't take much Grin Quite often I'll see a comment to something that's pretty much what I'd have said and wonder if I said it. I'm the kind of person who spends a lot of time standing in the wrong room wondering why I'm there Grin

Get well soon Mr Bogoff2020. Don't share the love Wink

SirSamuelVimes · 01/01/2021 11:17

Hello all. Happy new year, hopefully we will get some sanity back soon.

I'm also going to try to be on here a bit less for a while. I got some new books for Christmas, I've got DIY to do and a relationship with DH that needs some nurturing. Going to steal the idea up thread about structuring the weekday evenings - games night, film night, no screens night etc., and try to rely on this thread a bit less.

You've all been godsends this year, thank you for helping me feel less alone. Love you fellow murderers. Illegitimi non carborundum.

BogOff2020 · 01/01/2021 11:19

Oh gosh BogRoll, when I picked this new MN name hadn't realised how close it was to yours. I was looking for something close to fuckoff2020 which was a bit more ummm polite Wink

TooManyPlatesInMotion · 01/01/2021 11:31

Hey. I am going to say it... Happy New Year. Because I have to believe that things will improve in some respects in 2021. It feels like a horrible start, for sure.

I am making myself a survival list for Jan - things to keep me going, like trying new recipes from the cookbook I got for Xmas, doing more running as part of a virtual challenge, a list of films I have always wanted to see etc. One day at a time at the moment.

SewVeryLazy · 01/01/2021 12:07

I only recently started lurking on here but just read (some of) the thread about the gap between vaccines being increased and I wanted to scream. So thought I'd pop up here and say hello and thank you for a calm and positive place that I can fritter away some time over a cuppa when the kids are (rarely) entertained by something else.
Here to hoping for an actual new year soon, where we can see the people that keep us sane without breaking the law!