Would you be offended if your dh wasn’t sure he wanted you there at a medical appointment

[Lardlizard]

Not said no just that he would think about it

It’s a back appointment so nothing too personal

Sounds like if things were reversed he couldn't imagine going on his own and can't see why you would be any different. Hold the front page - we have spent years doing things for ourselves/for the DC so just tend to get on with it. Everything in my house is I do it or we do it but never DH does it alone!