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Would you attend a peaceful protest if a convicted paedophile moved into your street?

807 replies

thefourgp · 11/11/2020 21:04

I’ve never attended anything similar before and I’m in two minds about going. He was convicted (I’ve read the newspaper articles which show his photo) and has been released after serving half his sentence. I don’t know if he owns the property but he’s moved in with his wife who stood by him. There’s a peaceful protest being arranged. Would you go?

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Sirzy · 11/11/2020 21:06

No, I would be very cautious To keep DS well away but I wouldn’t get into any vigilante situations

Chamberlai · 11/11/2020 21:06

Of course not.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 11/11/2020 21:08

No.

At least you know where he lives and that he is being kept an eye on.

They have to live somewhere.

It will not be a peaceful protest either.

Kanaloa · 11/11/2020 21:08

No, but I don’t think I’d feel happy about it. I’d keep my DC away from him and tell them some age appropriate explanation to stay away.

AcornAutumn · 11/11/2020 21:10

No, sadly he’s got to live somewhere. As long as everyone knows, that’s the main thing.

Have you seen that episode of Desperate Housewives? He could just move away and find victims in a place where his identity is not known.

throwaway10000 · 11/11/2020 21:10

I mean, if he legally owns the property what are you expecting the protest to achieve? What legal standing do you have to force him to move?

Don’t get me wrong, I obviously dislike child abusers. But I think your options are limited to distributing his photo amongst your neighbours and coaching your children to call you whenever they feel unsafe etc. He’s most likely under probation conditions that prevent him from interacting with children so any breaches can be reported to the police.

Thespottytortoise · 11/11/2020 21:10

No. They have to live somewhere.

OverThinkingUnderDoing · 11/11/2020 21:10

Of course not. I don’t believe that paedophiles are ever reformed but I also don’t believe mob justice or ritual humiliation are beneficial for anyone.

If I had kids I would definitely warn them to stay away though.

iamtheoneandonlyyy · 11/11/2020 21:10

Be more worried about the ones you don't know.

lockupyourcinammon · 11/11/2020 21:10

No don’t be ridiculous

KitKatastrophe · 11/11/2020 21:12

My first thought was the same as others "he has to live somewhere". If you know who he is and where he lives, you can ensure to keep your kids away from him, but what is the alternative? Have a separate town where all the sex offenders live?

NotTheToothFairy22 · 11/11/2020 21:13

Whaaaaaaat? Nobody here would go to a protest if a paedo moved into their street?

I would. And it wouldn't have to be peaceful either. They can fuck off somewhere else.

BananaPop2020 · 11/11/2020 21:13

No, this is an utterly stupid idea. What are you hoping to achieve?

BananaPop2020 · 11/11/2020 21:14

@NotTheToothFairy22 you do realise you may already be in that situation, yet blissfully unaware?

Mysterian · 11/11/2020 21:15

No. Rather know where they are.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 11/11/2020 21:16

They have to live somewhere.

How about in prison.!Angry.
Would you like one living on the same street as your child.

Yes I would protest.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 11/11/2020 21:17

Good Lord it Seems you can’t say a bad word about Paedos on here.

EasilyDepleted · 11/11/2020 21:17

No, one lives locally to me (I know because it was on local FB). He is doing long term voluntary work with other adults and hopefully this is keeping him busy and out of trouble. I see him around most days and know him slightly via the voluntary work, I pass the time of day with him but that's all. I'd rather he stayed here where people know about him and can keep an eye on him - being driven out would do no good at all.

NotTheToothFairy22 · 11/11/2020 21:17

@BananaPop2020 of course! But it's one thing to be unaware and another to know they're there and say/do nothing.

Audreyseyebrows · 11/11/2020 21:18

No. He’s one person that you know of. Think of others attending or watching the protest that you don’t know about.

Audreyseyebrows · 11/11/2020 21:18

What will it achieve?

thefourgp · 11/11/2020 21:18

I’m not the one organising it and I don’t know if they own the property. He raped a five year old and the woman who lives next door to him regularly looks after her young grandchild and no longer feels comfortable having the grandchild in the garden.

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PersonaNonGarter · 11/11/2020 21:19

No - what on Earth good would come of that.

BananaPop2020 · 11/11/2020 21:19

@NotTheToothFairy22 why would you need to say or do ANY? Police and Probation will be on it.

wellthatsunusual · 11/11/2020 21:19

No I wouldn't. But I wouldn't be giving him a warm welcome either.

But at least you know who he is so you can avoid him.