DH just invited friend in for a cuppa ...

[BigSandyBalls2015]

... he came to collect something and I presumed they would just hand it over on the doorstep but no, I’m upstairs and I hear DH “come in, you haven’t got anything contagious have you” chuckle chuckle 🤦‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Yeah, not ideal OP , but brace yourself for the influx of people telling you how ridiculous and unreasonable it is that you even noticed 🙄

That would piss me off too OP. What did you say to him?

Fantastic. And some stupid people wonder why it's still spreading so much.

What a complete and utter dickhead. Did the friend come in? If so, ditto.

If you're not happy about it then go and say. Not sure what you want anyone here to do about it.

Oh good, here we again, with some folks getting hysterical at the thought of it. It’s like mjmsnet bingo

Just waiting for someone to accuse him of being a murderder.

Fuck me. How are you people going to cope when restrictions are eventually lifted? Never go out or meet people ever again? The virus and countless others will still be out there.

I'd be more worried about the potential fine than catching anything to be honest . Unless this guy is sputtering bodily fluids everywhere and your husband is sitting on his lap then there's very little to worry about. Presuming you won't be drinking out of his tea cup before washing it.
And of course , he actually has to have the virus in the first place .

Meh

It's the easiest "rule" of this lockdown to follow and they can't even manage that? Fools.

My DH gave a lift to someone on Friday who was in desperate need.
I freaked as DH is vulnerable but it was the right thing to do. Doesn't stop me worrying for the next two weeks.

Cue, murderer, selfish and all the other bollocks that's been doing the rounds for the last 7 months.

I'm sure someone will be incandescent with rage in a minute.

It's your house as well and I would have gone downstairs and told the friend he could come back for a cuppa once restrictions had been lifted. I wouldn't care how embarrassed or annoyed DH would be.

Someone has been fined today for "popping in for a cup of tea."

I would have kicked him out and had a stern word with your hubby.

www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/man-fined-police-visiting-friends-1924340

I would have done the same. How close were they going to get. Wipe the surfaces when he leaves and wash the cup. No big deal.

Sorry that link didn't work. I'll try another.

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Oh weird

I was reading the op and thought it was going to be the op didn't realise he was there and came down in her nightie or something!

Forgot about Corona entirely there for s minute. Was a nice minute

Forgot about Corona entirely there for s minute. Was a nice minute

Get yourself back to that place ASAP!!

Are you in a T3 area OP?

Stay home and any going out should be for essentials. I’d have not let him collect in the first place unless urgent and definitely would have ensured no invites inside were offered. The rules aren’t hard to follow.

@Paperdolly are tiers still relevant? We are T1 but surely we all in lockdown now?

Just being nosey I guess RosieLemonade

I'd have to go and tell him to leave.
The friend may be glad of your intervention and may have felt he couldn't say no to your DH.