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BogRollBOGOF · 14/09/2020 19:34

Watch us wreck the mike, watch us wreck the mike, watch us wreck the mike.
Psych.

Now gather nicely in groups of no more than six...
Unless you're outdoors in Wales...

Oh well, come on in whatever the laws where you are. Plenty of space in this bubble of sanity Wink

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Ibake · 18/09/2020 18:45

An opportune moment to repost this? Especially for any new AD's that have recently joined us.

Fuck you grandkids, we're off to the garden centre

A priceless work of art Grin

The ADs get ready to rumble then have a nice cuppa tea
wanderings · 18/09/2020 19:09

Scaremongering.

I hope.

I wish.

I pray.

RobinHobb · 18/09/2020 19:13

Yes...,
I should edit my post: I have had multiple ITU admissions in the past and have been ventilated before, I owe the NHS a massive debt. The nurses who took care of me were for the most part compassionate and caring and very good.

But for all routine items ranging from repeat prescriptions to childbirth the NHS experience for me has been appalling.

I don't hate the NHS but I see no need to venerate it to the extent it is.

Every week my kids stay in school is a victory so I take it as such; one more week done. Looking back I think they should have run school over the summer as the winter was bound to be grim, but hindsight is 20/20 I guess. They will end up missing effectively a year of school as this will continue on and off till summer now.

Lockdown is delaying the inevitable, buying us time until the vaccine. There is no other purpose for it.

justasking111 · 18/09/2020 19:23

They have had a bit of bad news in Melbourne a new cluster within 5 households which has produced 34 positive cases.

Does make you think that it is the length of time you spend with someone rather than how many people you see that is relevant.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8747825/How-new-coronavirus-cluster-threatening-Melbournes-path-lockdown.html

BogRollBOGOF · 18/09/2020 19:54

I wish all pupils had gone back in June. Resistance to colds was higher. Natural buffer for the holidays before round 2. Punctuated the year more clearly. Roolz might have made more sense by this point. Making families struggle for 6 months, give them as little as a week of normality then snatch it away as the inevitable colds spread is not doing public support any favours.

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BogRollBOGOF · 18/09/2020 19:58

[quote justasking111]They have had a bit of bad news in Melbourne a new cluster within 5 households which has produced 34 positive cases.

Does make you think that it is the length of time you spend with someone rather than how many people you see that is relevant.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8747825/How-new-coronavirus-cluster-threatening-Melbournes-path-lockdown.html[/quote]
Which comes back to the viral load again (not heard so much of that phrase for a while) and ventilation.

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DominaShantotto · 18/09/2020 20:14

The fact that the language has now shifted to keeping schools open if al all possible has totally broken me tonight. They’re going to fucking do it again aren’t they?

School only beginning to assess how much they lost from the last academic year before they’re on about killing this one - I can kiss goodbye to my degree if that happens because it WILL all fall on me.

I’m trying to hide a panic attack from the kids who are refusing to go to sleep

Pennypie · 18/09/2020 20:29

I'm not so sure about this bashing of older people.

I'm in my sixties and am vehemently opposed to this lockdown crap, god only knows what is going on.
But saying grandparents are jollying it up down at the garden centre when kids are suffering is just divide and conquer - are your own parents living it up at the moment? Meanwhile MSM is blaming the "irresponsible" young - more divide and conquer.
My own experience is that "The Fear of The Virus" is spread across all age groups.

I'm mad at the people who are driving this, not at other "little" people like me (irrespective of their view).

RealityExistsInTheHumanMind · 18/09/2020 20:37

@Pennypie

I'm not so sure about this bashing of older people.

I'm in my sixties and am vehemently opposed to this lockdown crap, god only knows what is going on.
But saying grandparents are jollying it up down at the garden centre when kids are suffering is just divide and conquer - are your own parents living it up at the moment? Meanwhile MSM is blaming the "irresponsible" young - more divide and conquer.
My own experience is that "The Fear of The Virus" is spread across all age groups.

I'm mad at the people who are driving this, not at other "little" people like me (irrespective of their view).

It's not bashing older people. Older people are being fucked too.

The older people have no choice in this any more than the children do. It's all about the middle aged men - who are in charge of the country, helped by the fact that lots of people are scared.

On these threads, we aren't blaming. That meme came out when they opened garden centres but kept playgrounds closed. The government are about divide and conquer, we aren't.

I certainly see that meme differently now than when it first came out

Taswama · 18/09/2020 20:37

Thats bad news about Melbourne. I have family there and it sounds horrible.
Yes to viral load being relevant. Hence why not all prevention measures are equal. At work today, a colleague asked if anyone had change for a fiver. Yes, I said, but have you sanitised the note first? She thought I was serious at first! The chances of me catching something of her fiver or her catching it off my coins has to be so miniscule.

RealityExistsInTheHumanMind · 18/09/2020 20:38

Oh and I'm 65 and don't agree with lockdown either

HeIenaDove · 18/09/2020 20:40

DH is 70 and doesnt agree with lockdown either.

RealityExistsInTheHumanMind · 18/09/2020 20:41

I'm meeting with 2 friends next week. 3 of us so well within the magic number.

Thing is my postcode is Barnsley, one friend is Rotherham and the other is Sheffield.

The risk is so damn low as none of us is socialising but it would cause havoc with the figures if we did spread it.

Willow2017 · 18/09/2020 20:57

Let's not forget that the original theme of the picture wasn't grandparents going to the garden centre. It was about blaming kids for causing the deaths of thier gps. Bloody vile.

And i have to admit I love a garden centre and am not a pensioner yet🤣

My aunt used to love them too now she is too scared and uncomfortable out in crowds, due to all the crap she has been fed by the news media, to stay longer than get a coffee. She doesn't do SM so hasnt heard most of the stuff i have and finds it hard to believe. She asks where the heck I get all this info from as its never on mainstream tv (and I suspect she doesn't believe half of it)
It makes me bloody annoyed that such an intelligent woman who up until this year was always out and about at groups, craft meetings, bus trips etc is now scared to go into shops for a good browse or wander around a garden centre chosing plants for her lovely garden. She has lost confidence in herself and her mobility has been really affected by staying in.and shielding for weeks on end. She is 91 and you wouldn't know it to look at her and she didnt feel it either but now she certainly feels it.
I am beyond angry that this time has been stolen from her and has aged her even now the threat is so small she could do all these things again.

SomewhereEast · 18/09/2020 21:09

IF we're mad enough to try another 'proper' lockdown, at least there won't be any rainbow bollocks this time though. Everyone will be equally arsey & semi-mutinous about it and DH & I won't feel so alone Grin.

Struggling a bit tonight. The Irish Gov has abruptly decided to close all indoor dining in the whole of Dublin for at least two weeks, which is going to be brutal on the sector. I keep wondering how many of the long-established indies I love will still be there when I go back whenever the fuck that is

justasking111 · 18/09/2020 21:28

@Ibake

An opportune moment to repost this? Especially for any new AD's that have recently joined us.

Fuck you grandkids, we're off to the garden centre

A priceless work of art Grin

I actually found this very offensive then and now.
TheOrchidKiller · 18/09/2020 21:32

I'm angry & numb this week.

I could post loads. But in a nutshell :

  • haven't seen mum & dad since 4th Jan. Was planning to meet up halfway in a couple of weeks. It's probably not going to happen, is it?
  • have met with a friend twice since March
  • have been all of 12 miles from home this year

So everyone calling for tighter restrictions, when did they last see their mother, share a coffee with a friend, have a holiday (or even a day out)? Because if they've done those things, that's nice, but some of us haven't had even that.

I'm genuinely sorry for anyone getting a shit service (or no service) from the NHS (been on the receiving end myself pre-covid). But is it right that those of us who have kept running front-line services are now going off sick with stress? Not because we are dealing with ITU deaths, but because we are burning out, trying to pick up patients who are too scared to go to hospital or who have lost all their social support. (Not me going off, but it's not nice seeing it happen to other people).

Every day that passes feels like a day of dodging a bullet from track & trace or a phone call from school.

I've dealt with some serious shit in my life so I'll get through this. But fuck me, this is AWFUL.

BogRollBOGOF · 18/09/2020 21:33

Do you think Twat Wanksock was inspired by that picture to come up with "Don't kill Granny"

I still haven't made it to the garden centre. That's where I used to fritter money before DCs took over that role Grin

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Bollss · 18/09/2020 21:37

@justasking111 by the picture or the comments?

It annoyed me because it reflected life at the time. But not in the way I imagine the artist intended. Kids forbidden to go out but older people free to do things they enjoyed. Not because I don't think that older people deserved that, they did and still do, I just believed children deserved something to do too.

There is no one age group more important than the next, here. We all deserve to live our life as we like, take the risks we want to take but there be some form of protection for those who want it (like better benefits for shielders and people who need to self isolate!!)

Ibake · 19/09/2020 00:45

Yep @TrustTheGeneGenie and @justasking111. You're right, it is offensive. We shared it on here ages ago because it was doing the rounds on smunt D posts re children not killing granny (plus utterly wank covid art too!) and was sold as being virtue signalling crap of the highest order. We all took one look and saw it slightly differently as they had just opened garden centres and golf courses but kids weren't allowed to go on playgrounds.

By reposting I did not mean to upset or offend, merely comment comment on the groundhog nature that means we still find ourselves here with the needs of children ignored. Maybe take out the garden centre reference and this time show a bunch of flabby, middle aged twats off to a grouse shoot!

Ibake · 19/09/2020 00:49

*too many 'comments' in previous post (and too many wines to proofread properly!)

PickAChew · 19/09/2020 00:54

[quote HeIenaDove]Oh!

twitter.com/Tobias_Ellwood/status/1307019150775255043?s=20[/quote]
Yeah, shoot the virus until it's deaded!

HeIenaDove · 19/09/2020 01:39

From another thread.

Weedsnseeds1 Sat 19-Sep-20 00:37:58
Would anyone be interested in the perspective from the food industry? Not the catering / hospitality industry (which people seem, on the whole, perfectly happy to see go bankrupt, despite no particular evidence they have increased the infection rate)?
The food manufacturing industry have been hit hard. There are currently around 50 factories / distribution centres with outbreaks. If they get 50/60/70 caees they might shut for a day or two to deep clean.
Otherwise the people with symptoms / positive tests keep going.
People are dying in the food industry. Cranswick in Barnsley had 9 cases, 3 died. 2 Sisters in Anglesey, couple of hundred cases. My job is food safety - independent inspections in factories. I am in one or two factories a week, where it is not unusual to have 20 or 30 staff off with symptoms or confirmed cases.
We have to keep going because, I am reluctantly concluding, £9 an hour Poles, Bulgarians, Lithuanians, Hungarians and the like, don't deserve the protection that certain hallowed professions do.
They can take 2 weeks off to isolate without pay if they are a contact, they can claim SSP, they can die.
There are always replacements from the temping agencies and the home workers, teachers and other revered professions can get their home deliveries, or pop into Tesco, that's the important thing.
Hey 51% of the country voted to kick the lot of them out, so why not thin the numbers out a bit now?
Not to mention warehouse pickers, delivery drivers...
Why are these people dispensable when they are providing the most basic of services to the nation?
If you ordered chicken breasts for your click and collect, but end up with chicken thighs, it's not going to kill you, but demanding to be supplied with whatever you want, whenever you want, while demanding special treatment, protection from the horrors if going to work (not including the genuinely shielding in that) is blinkered in the extreme. That really is killing people.
Apologies for the rant, but the lack of awareness of essential workers outside of tbe NHS and teachers on here is unreal. And the lack of awareness for the debt you owe to low paid immigrant or migrant workers, who have sucked up the risk and turned up day after day, in order to make sure you are fed, is breathtaking.
The feedback I get from sites is that absenteeism has been lower than normal throughout lockdown. They are in work with all the everyday illnesses outside COVID19, when they might previously have taken time off, because they have a work ethic and a sense of social responsibility to as country, that by a narrow majority, doesn't even want them there.
They can't visit their families, even by socially distancing outside an open window.
I'm not Eastern European, or other non-UK by the way. I'm just giving you my perspective on the complete lack of recognition or sympathy for this group.

NothingIsWrong · 19/09/2020 06:39

That has been one of my main rants at the Smunts in my village. Who has to put themselves at risk so you can stay home? They don't get that their husbands nice salary that can be done from home is the exception.

I'm in a position where I can do most of my work from home, but hopefully I've never stopped being grateful for those that keep us running.

"Hard lockdown" "everyone stay at home" well the country doesn't have that luxury and you are fucking deluded if you think that we can just pause for 2 weeks. It doesn't work like that.