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chamenamed · 23/08/2020 02:49

I recently drew out some money to pay for a service.

Somehow this money has now gone missing and I need a quick way to make 750

Any ideas? Or any cam girls on here with experience?

OP posts:
JovialNickname · 24/08/2020 14:59

I really think there are some appalling responses on this thread. The poster who wrote "lost money=gambled/drunk on the first page should be ashamed of themselves. Can you really not conceive of the fact that it might be possible to have some unforseen loss of money that could tip you over the edge, and force you to do something you would never conceive of normally (cam work)! And for those of you saying get some morals - well it's easy to be moral when you're financially secure. Morals only really come into question when you can't feed your kids, or can't otherwise manage.

Of course the OP may not be genuine - I don't know that she is and neither does anyone else. Obviously, don't send her or anyone else money. But the sneering, gloating, "I'm alright Jack" attitude on this thread is really deeply unpleasant.

JovialNickname · 24/08/2020 15:06

I assume the reason why the OP is not expressing an emotional response to some of the replies on this thread is because she has stated she is autistic. Just because she may not fully understand the nuances of the nasty replies, and the evident sarcasm, does not make it ok.

chamenamed · 24/08/2020 15:22

Thank you to the kind posters.

I'm not sure what I'd get out of making this up.

Those questioning my emotions.
A) I cannot express through text due to my autism.
B) I haven't seen it for one month. I hoped I could find it but I've had a month for it to settle in. Now I've accepted it.

No, I don't want to do cam work/ phone sex whatever but I will do anything to make sure I keep a roof over my child's head.

I've posted about ironing on Gumtree. I have a steam iron so it's quicker for me to do. I'm also going to list my old Dyson and some of dc's old clothes.

Cam girl?
OP posts:
chamenamed · 24/08/2020 15:26

@user1471565182

So you're shielding but have had your mother, random workmen, your mother around, and you are being charged for the wiring in your landlord's property?
I was shielding. Still mostly am. I have seen my mum the weekend just gone for the first time since Feb. I had the electrician round to change the wires as there was a huge leak and it was dangerous. I had a second work man to fix the lights, arranged by my landlord. And dc's dad came round once.
OP posts:
Elieza · 24/08/2020 15:30

OP please report the lost money to the police. If someone has found it you could get it back. I always report finding a tenner upwards. Nobody ever reports losing it though, so I get it back from the police. I would most definitely report finding £750 and if I had you would be able to get it back. There are few honest people around but they do exist!

I understand that you have autism. Do you have any support from anyone like a social worker or anyone who could help you go to the police regarding this money?

It’s too much money to just forget about. I think it’s likely been stolen and you are a vulnerable single parent and need help if things like this are happening in your life. Especially if this kind of thing has happened before. Tell the police everything.

Inappropriatefemale · 24/08/2020 16:43

@PeachGinMummy

If £750 went missing from most people's houses their first reaction would NOT be Oops lost that cash. Oh well, cam girl it is then.

😂😂😂😂

So true and funny as fuck!!!!GrinGrinGrin
LovingLola · 24/08/2020 17:33

Op - would your mum be able to help you look for the envelope with the money in it? Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes can work wonders.

FlissMumsnet · 24/08/2020 20:27

We've had a number of reports from people concerned about this thread so, as we usually do at times like this we're putting our heads round the door with some important reminders.

Right now we can't see any evidence to indicate that the OP isn't above board – if we did, we'd remove the thread straight away. But the truth is that, sadly, we at MNHQ can't know with 100% certainty that any poster is genuine, no matter who they are or how long they have been here. As frustrating as it is, we're not able to vouch for anyone here.

So we always ask users to remember that not everyone on the internet is who they say they are – and remind folk not to give more to another poster, either financially (in cash or gifts) or emotionally (in time or care and support) than they'd be prepared to lose if things went wrong. Though, we strongly advise against parting with any cash or giving away your personal details.

Sorry to hijack your thread briefly there, OP – we really hope you get it all sorted soon.

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