Firstly I’d speak to an excellent financial advisor to maximise interest/earnings from it
Set money aside for dds future - but not tell her! I fear it would actually stress her out!
Get private healthcare to hopefully finally properly treat my ocd and agoraphobia.
Donations to favourite charities
Help out friends and family I know are in need
Buy a beautiful but not huge house in the town I grew up in, which is VERY expensive to buy in now. It’s on the coast too which suits me perfectly. Would need to be a bungalow as I’m disabled so would need to be “future proof” for me as it’s a degenerative condition. But I WOULD love having my own pool with a beach entry. This would also be the perfect house to leave dd as she’s also disabled, different conditions similar needs housing wise.
Kit out an office in said house to help me fulfil my dreams of actually getting at least one of my books finished and published
Get a decent but not too flash car (open to suggestions!)
Buy a boat to chill out on, nothing too fancy, something I could handle myself or with a one person “crew”
Enjoy taking regular holidays to the places I’ve always wanted to visit and visiting various friends and family who live overseas
Love the idea of recreating the scene from pretty woman op that WOULD be fun!