I will never forgive this government for what they've done to my kids. (And I hold a grudge - I never voted for Ed Balls on Strictly because of some shit he did when in charge of Education)
DD1, who I suspect might be on the autism spectrum but masks well and is very high functioning if she is - could not deal with me in the role of teacher at all - she functions well in school, if school is school and home is home (she can cope with homework because that's a fairly rigid expectation). It just destroyed our relationship - she would lash out - kick the shit outta me and her sister (because of course me as mum was the enforcer of it all) and refuse to do even the short bursts of online stuff school had insisted on. We struggled on for weeks until I emailed school just to warn them she was becoming violent so they were aware in case it continued to be an issue if they ever got back. I had the head on the phone within 10 minutes to say bring her in and we'll fit her in when we can just to give you some distance - and then when they expanded provision slightly offering us a place just because she was a child struggling.
She's done OK - she's developed a massive interest in science and the human body and picking holes in statistics and guidance and working out what's wrong with silly news headlines about deaths continuing to rise ("well they can't come back when they're dead unless they're zombies mummy") and she's missing her friends and there's far too much gone online with her social life too young - but she's coped OK.
DD2 - still no eye appointment to work out what she can actually SEE anymore - she's struggling to read school books, academically has regressed a lot, speech is still very dysfunctional compared to what it was... and mentally she's not the child she once was - she's somewhat better since she got back into school but she's gone from a child with SN just about holding her own academically with peers - to a child with SN near the bottom of the class - because of the lost time and I don't think she'll make that lost ground up.
School have done what they can - I've had a lot of dialogue with the current class teacher and the future class teacher as she transitions across schools - but that's mainly been because the new class teacher currently teaches the other child and because I've pushed and chased to make sure the progress we HAVE made hasn't been lost. I don't know how much speech fluency she'll get back though. She really has lost a lot of her future as a result of the fucking mishandling of this situation and I'm angry about it.
I was actually pro lockdown to start with - I felt we needed the short sharp measure to buy time to get the NHS into a mode where it could deal with it - and then control the flow of cases... like we were initially sold it as. I was not pro-this hell, especially as knowledge about the virus has increased, lessons have been learnt and the NHS has coped.