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Despicable Anti Dementors

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Mascotte · 15/05/2020 20:41

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MinnieMountain · 17/05/2020 09:04

@DominaShantotto I'll be in the same position on Wednesday. I've asked our HT about staffing levels under section 11.2 of this document: www.gov.uk/government/publications/covid-19-school-closures/guidance-for-schools-about-temporarily-closing#staffing-levels-and-deployment.
Beyond that, I'm hoping that the other governors step up.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 17/05/2020 09:04

Probably every single time, Orange!
I am reading Journal of the Plague Year and currently on a bit where he is talking about people saying other people are spreading the plague deliberately or selfishly, and Defoe is saying actually it's not true as you are infectious before you know you have the plague so people are not doing it on purpose.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 17/05/2020 09:07

Morning fellow mass murders.

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:08

Just read this comment on Quora site which made me a little cross.

"What about the children?" (my thoughts)

"We’ve been under stay-at-home orders here in Chicago since March 14. I’m a teacher, so I’ve been teaching from home, which is actually a lot easier and less time-consuming for me. We’d been expecting it for weeks, but it was made official last Friday: school buildings are to remained closed for the rest of the school year. So I have about six more weeks of easy-for-me e-teaching, then summer break. Altogether, this adds up to a little over five full months away from my coworkers.

This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and I don’t plan to waste it. I will never have this much free time again until I retire. So far, I’ve been aided by cold weather here in Chicago, which just encourages me to stay inside even more. I’m getting so many things done! Home improvements, relationship improvements, and even health improvements. I’m eating better, working out a lot more, and spending a lot of quality time with everyone in my family.

I sympathize with everyone who has been negatively affected by this pandemic. Still, a part of me will quietly feel sad that first day I have to leave the house to go back to work in August. My goal is for my coworkers to notice that I used the time off well."

littlewhitesheep · 17/05/2020 09:09

Can I join this thread? You all seem to be the only sane people left. I've just had to hide a Facebook acquaintance who posted that he doesn't have kids, but that if he did, he'd rather send them into the rainforest for a week without a mosquito net than back to school right now. The combination of this and my mother's passive-aggressive dementoring asking me whether I'm 'sure' I want to send my DS back to nursery when it opens has just about finished me off.

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:26

Welcome Little sheep

on Denmark schools

Since under-12s returned to their classrooms on April 15, there have no reports of cases of Covid-19 linked to transmission at schools. Denmark’s R0 number — the number of people one person with Covid-19 transmits their illness to — has fallen back in recent days from 0.9 to 0.7. From tomorrow children aged 12 to 16 will go back too.

Denmark’s experience is being closely watched. Most countries in Europe have begun gradually reopening their schools, although approaches have been different.

www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/news/danish-schools-focus-on-fun-and-fresh-air-gv7g6303t

Sounds good

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:27

Think we just have to try and ignore them Little sheep and make up our own minds not easy is it

RumbaswithPumbaas · 17/05/2020 09:28

The hypothetical kids in the hypothetical jungle..... almost as bad as the people who say.... well if you didn’t want your children to suffer psychological consequences from the national attempt to manage a global pandemic, you shouldn’t have had kids in the first place, too many people in the world anyway etc Hmm

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:28

Interesting Countess I remember reading about plague and having little 'posies' of flowers

Springersrock · 17/05/2020 09:29

you should be ashamed - talking about people recovering just makes people want to break lockdown

I keep seeing this everywhere too. Anytime someone posts something positive they get jumped on for encouraging people to break lockdown. It’s mad.

Dementoring has calmed down a bit for the last few weeks round here but has gone mad again the last few days.

My daughter is meeting a friend at our yard this morning for a socially distanced hack to the beach. They’re going to have a good ride on the beach and then hack back. She’ll have a blast

Her mental health was completely fucked, she couldn’t leave her room without a full blown panic attack at one point, but seems to have been improving the last few days and I’m all for it but I am a bit worried she’s going to get dementored and it will set her right back

She also meeting her boyfriend in the park behind our house this afternoon for a socially distanced cup of tea (he’s bringing a flask). I’m over the moon that she feels she can manage it, but again, the nosy bastards are back out in force again and teens are public enemy number 1 right now

Dontforgetyourbrolly · 17/05/2020 09:30

How can these people not understand it's very likely covid was circulating since the start of the year and most of the population have been in contact with it , with little or no symptoms?
We did not catch it because:
We did not need politicians to show us how to practice basic hygiene and
We were not compelled to cosy up to sick people ????

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 17/05/2020 09:32

I had the best day in ages Ystd, met my best friend for a walk and we even had a take away coffee.

Bliss.

Obviously it's unfortunate that I've killed off thousands of people but meh 🤷‍♀️

Wish the public loos would open though, that does rather limit any time outdoors.

SockYarn · 17/05/2020 09:34

Morning mass murderers, poster on last thread here with a wee name change (do it twice a year at christmas and my birthday!)

Commented on a lovely dementor thread last night about everyone shopping their neighbours. It really has opened my eyes to how awful some people are and how desperate they are to snitch on everyone. Even for things they're allowed to do like having workmen in.

Still trying to come to terms with the fact Scottish schools are a lost cause and my three will have to wait to August to resume their education. Particularly concerned for the one who has just entered S4 as she is not as academically able as her older sibling and needs the support and encouragement from the teachers. I also have one moving from P7 to S1 but I think he'll be fine, having two older siblings at the same school and he's a confident wee soul anyway.

Anyway. It's raining in Glasgow today which is perfect dementor weather as people will be less likely to want to go out and kill their granny by buying an ice cream or popping to Tesco.

Pertella · 17/05/2020 09:36

Thankfully that awful scaremongering thread about the poor baby who died of Kawasaki has now been deleted, but the dementors were loving it.

DominaShantotto · 17/05/2020 09:39

I don’t think our other ones will @MinnieMountain none of them have kids in the year group set to be screwed and all decisions really come from head, chair and head’s buddy. I got some wording of a letter changed to be less confrontational and that was about it

Shodan · 17/05/2020 09:40

Good morning everybody.

Very tired and heavy headed here today due to a 3 and a half hour row with ds1 about DP giving me a hug the other day.

Apparently I'm risking his and his brother's lives, my mental health isn't important and he'll move out if I don't toe the line like everybody else.

It seems I've raised a Dementor. God knows how I managed to do that.

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:40

Just been reading this my Lord Sumption, very interesting. MN told me off in the past for cut and pasting things behind a paywall but if you want to read it they allow you to read 3 articles a week for free.

I do agree with much of what he is saying.

www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/comment/set-us-free-from-lockdown-ministers-and-stop-covering-your-backs-kvwrnk9ww

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:41

That is mad about the positive stories. Confused and worrying

justasking111 · 17/05/2020 09:43

Spent some time last night snoozing groups on Facebook one group put up such a dementor headline I reported it yesterday. Last night they were foaming at the mouth that it had been removed. OH friend has lost the plot put up a nasty post about Eton not being opened till September posh digs. When OH pointed out that it was an international boarding school comparable to a hotel so not suitable for opening he was angry. Why can't folks see some places will take longer to get going again.

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:46

Aww this is nice-on school going back in London..

Marie Corbett is planning a graduation ceremony — with leaving certificates, pens and yearbooks stuffed with photos — for the 10 and 11-year-olds she hopes will be returning to primary school in just two weeks’ time.

It would be a rite of passage for pupils in their final year at Harris primary in Peckham, south London, so they could say goodbye to the school they grew up in before starting secondary school in September.

Children at Harris will be kept in “bubbles” of 15 pupils who will do everything together, keeping away from other children to avoid infection. All lessons for each group will be held in the same classroom with the same teacher, who will supervise them in the playground too. They will be able to socialise normally, Corbett said. “Yes, games of football will be possible.”

(not the 'no PE' nonsense then)

Corbett, who has kept her school open to 20 vulnerable children over lockdown, says they have adapted quickly. “They came up with the idea of an air hug — you make the shape of a hug with your arms but just hug air and don’t touch anyone,” she says. “When they line up we sing the two-metre song and get them to stick their arms out.”

She is keen to reopen because she can see what lockdown is doing to pupils, especially those in flats with no gardens. One little boy had not been out of his flat in five weeks when his mum, who was very anxious about the virus, eventually decided he could come into class a few days ago. “He was really quiet and withdrawn for a while. Now he is jumping around like a normal seven-year-old.

“Another boy lives in a house that is divided into bedsits with shared bathrooms. He was upset by the arguments the adults were having and the shouting that was going on.

“If we do not go back now then we will have the long summer holidays and by September there could be effects on our children that are very hard to reverse.”

and at another school, this time private..

At Breaside prep school in Bromley, Kent, head teacher Karen Nicholson is also keen to reopen. She has emailed families and expects 120 out of an eligible 180 will want to send their children back. She said: “We will be sending videos to parents showing teachers in masks and saying ‘this is me’ so children don’t get upset seeing the teachers in masks, though we are not planning to wear them routinely.”

Pharmacy owner Yash Amin, whose two children, Mahi, 11, and Rafi, 8, have been at Breaside throughout the lockdown says he backs the phased reopening dates. “My daughter wants to say goodbye to her friends, and we must think about the mental health of the children as well. You get more out of one day at school than a week of learning isolated at home. I have no concerns.”

Nicholson’s deputy, Amy Wicks, said her son, Theo, 4, a pupil at Breaside, was exhibiting behaviour problems. “He is sad, he is cross, he is not sleeping. I don’t feel worried about opening the school to more of our children. I feel very calm. I am pleased we are bringing some normality back.”

MinnieMountain · 17/05/2020 09:46

That's a shame @DominaShantotto. We have the HT of the local private school who talks a lot of sense. I can see why you want to give up. No wonder so many schools struggle to get governors.

DH has pointed out that London's low R rate suggests some level of heard immunity there.

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:47

Hope this is balancing for some people!

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 09:48

We are also still doing Year books and Hoodies for our Year 6 leavers as well.

MrsWombat · 17/05/2020 09:49

Good morning. This looney lefty has started reading The Sunday Telegraph for a bit of sanity. Love the Press Reader app free via my local library. I can take a look at all the headlines and pick and choose what I want to read. Grin

MrsWombat · 17/05/2020 09:52

I've seen some great photos from one of my local schools where the keyworker kids have been playing Beat The Goalie during P.E. time.

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