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Despicable Anti Dementors

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Mascotte · 15/05/2020 20:41

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AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 16/05/2020 11:34

It’s the memes on Facebook about ‘Dogs say they think we’re hard to train, humans can’t even sit and stay’ and ‘You’re only being asked to stay at home, it’s not hard’ that anger me

Me too- comparisons between dogs and humans are always ridiculous and pointless.

For one, Ive never eaten my own vomit or poo, I dont eat from a bowl off the floor or piss on my friends sofa cushions, I also dont sleep on the floor of the kitchen at night! H doesnt need to throw a stick for me to keep me entertained either - but yes, lets just totally compare dogs to humans because they are THE SAME!

thesuninsagittarius · 16/05/2020 11:34

And I don't care if I've just murdered a small village. So there.

Orangeblossom78 · 16/05/2020 11:37

MrsWombat National trust is opening some of it's car parks, just now.

they need to sort out this toilet situation, rather than telling everyone they can travel and swim etc - surely we can wash hands and have sanitiser, and maybe even sort ourselves into toilet queues!

Hope you can catch up with your mum soon

SirSamuelVimesBlackboardMonito · 16/05/2020 11:38

Ive never eaten my own vomit or poo, I dont eat from a bowl off the floor or piss on my friends sofa cushions

Well someone hasn't lived at all! WinkGrin

Orangeblossom78 · 16/05/2020 11:41

Mascotte interesting comment underneath that video-

"We need to know if Scotlands return to school will be anything like it is in France with the social distancing measures. If anything like that happens here I suspect their will be riots. Children are being kept in squares on the ground, one step away from being a caged animal"

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 16/05/2020 11:41

Well someone hasn't lived at all

hahaha! TRUE! maybe next time I'm reeeeallly drunk.....

DominaShantotto · 16/05/2020 11:42

It's not hard if you're like DH - naturally socially awkward (he'd get an ASD diagnosis if he was a kid these days), hooked on games to the point he'd happily stay at home for months, with a work team that work perfectly well via Skype and from home a lot anyway.

He can sit there, shove his headset on and pretend to be on a call (well the team have a call open for "teambuilding chat" all the work day which I think is just an utterly unreasonable demand for spouses to tolerate when people have kids at home) and have his social interaction quite happily. My university has closed down, it's pretty much the end of the teaching term for them anyway so minimal contact, I'm not getting to chat to friends I would do at the school gate, mum's at the other end of the country - I've got no one. And he's sat there raging that there were groups of three in Tesco last night and he can see them locking us down fully again - and he doesn't understand why I would have a problem with that?!

I did a placement in a dementia home earlier this year as part of my course - lovely lovely people in there but heartbreaking when they were confused, distressed and didn't know what was happening. I'd take pneumonia or being hit by the number 57 bus over that any day - and the care home manager agreed with me to be fair - that dementia is a particularly cruel cruel way to decline.

Orangeblossom78 · 16/05/2020 11:42

Dogs are going to sniff out those of us with the virus now apparently

thesnoopdragon · 16/05/2020 11:42

I see that the government have backtracked on their "no quarantine for people arriving from France" announcement.

Whatever your opinion about this (and I have a vested interest as I live in France) it just re-inforces the fact that they are just saying whatever comes into their head at the time and that none of us should clutter up our headspace with pulling apart every word and wringing our hands because....well hey.......tomorrow is another day and all the "rules" will change again.....and again.

I went round to see my friend for a cup of tea yesterday and we are going to visit my MIL(93) this week. Life is slowly returning to normal here and nobody thinks we will all stay locked up for all eternity.

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 16/05/2020 11:43

Dogs are going to sniff out those of us with the virus now apparently

I saw that! they can smell cancer and other illnesses so why not- dogs really are so awesome

Orangeblossom78 · 16/05/2020 11:44

I thought the France thing was because EU said it wasn't fair and should be the same for all EU countries but could be wrong there. (the backtrack)

Drivingdownthe101 · 16/05/2020 11:45

He can sit there, shove his headset on and pretend to be on a call (well the team have a call open for "teambuilding chat" all the work day which I think is just an utterly unreasonable demand for spouses to tolerate when people have kids at home) and have his social interaction quite happily

Yep this describes my DH too! He doesn’t understand that while he can ‘check out’ of family life to chat to his colleagues (they even spend Friday afternoon on zoom drinks) and disappear to the office whenever he wants due to needing to ‘take a call’ (which has started to give me the rage Grin) my only bloody interaction is 3 kids under 7. All bloody day. Every day.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 16/05/2020 11:46

Ive never eaten my own vomit or poo, I dont eat from a bowl off the floor or piss on my friends sofa cushions

You've not met my mate Lisa then*
*Not her real name..and not my mate any more...took me ages to get those sofa cushions clean. Grin

OutwardBound2016 · 16/05/2020 11:48

I was chatting to a man at the garden centre this morning, he looked late 70’s ish, he was ecstatic that he is playing golf with his best friend tomorrow, he said being at home has been stressful and difficult. I do think the (silent) majority are happy to get back to normality slowly with sensible precautions, it is absolutely not black and white and I think the majority fall into the grey.

ragged · 16/05/2020 11:48

The dogs would be useful screening at airports, actually. I can see the sense to that -- if it worked.

Leighhalfpennysthigh · 16/05/2020 11:49

You just don't care about killing off people or our NHS Angels!

Oh yes, I am that arsehole murderer WinkGrinGrinGrin

Nihiloxica · 16/05/2020 11:56

If you express a dissenting view, you "don't care if older people/HCPs/kids die"

There's this.

But there's also a strong "if you don't agree you are stupid".

That's where it reminds me of Brexit. I was (still am, in as much as it matters) totally opposed to Brexit. But I detest the know-it-all superiority complex of a lot of the Remainer discourse online. There is a huge element of snobbery involved, calling working class men gammons etc.

I was a total PITA teenager with very strong opinions and a firm conviction that people who disagreed with me were stupid. Luckily I had a Dad who enjoyed my strong convictions enough to help me see that it is extremely foolish to presume stupidity or malign motives of your opponents in an argument.

People with a strong belief in their own intelligence and objectivity are taking up very clear positions on this, which is an odd thing to do in a situation where so much is uncertain and unknown.

A few months ago they were expert in multilateral negotiations and now they know everything about epidemiology.

It was fascinating to watch that thread yesterday about the R number in London and the number who came on to pour scorn on a mainstream news story they hadn't heard yet.

These are the types of people my timelines are full of, because my friends are mostly lefty intellectuals. It's kind of mortifying to watch this play out and the rush to certainty.

It's like their first impulse has been to shore up their own sense of still being right about everything.

BogRollBOGOF · 16/05/2020 11:58

The great thing about how quickly this conversation moves on is I don't get much time left to hang out with the Dementory threads Grin

DominaShantotto · 16/05/2020 12:01

Me and DH are now not speaking because I pulled him up on his complete lack of empathy toward those finding this situation difficult. He can sulk on the sofa - I've got my conservatory with internet, game console, sky telly which he tried to commandeer at the start of all of this claiming he needed the private space to "work from home" - so he could shut the door and opt out of all of the family stuff basically.

Not a thought for the university exams and assignments I was still having to turn around - just "I'm all right - everyone else just isn't dealing with it all right"

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 16/05/2020 12:01

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RunningNinja79 · 16/05/2020 12:03

Im grey. Would like more restrictions to be lifted and would like schools to definitely open in June without all the unions shouting that everyone is going to die. All I want to happen is be able to meet more than 1 other person. Dont understand why we can't meet a small number of people outside. Right now I can meet person A. They go home where they live with person B. Person B goes to meet person C etc etc. Why can't I meet person A, B and C?

Not bothered about many other things even though I would love to sit in a beer garden right now (well not now, but this afternoon)

This whole black and white thing annoys me.
Me: I'd like more restrictions to be lifted
Dementor: We're not ready to go back to normal, it will be a long time before we go back to how it was
Me: I only want a couple of things to be lifted
Dementor: People will die if we lift lockdown now

Pertella · 16/05/2020 12:04

Children are being kept in squares on the ground, one step away from being a caged animal

Hmm... as opposed to all the children being kept within the same 4 walls for weeks on end, almost exactly like caged animals

ThatLibraryMiss · 16/05/2020 12:07

One of the things I cant believe lately is one of the members of staff at DS school constantly on social media about how schools shouldn't open til it's safe. Hes really quite vocal on local chat groups. It doesn't sit right with me at all.

I said in a previous thread that the school I worked at was very clear that our social media should be locked down tight, we shouldn't add pupils or parents as friends unless they actually were friends who could be trusted not to run their mouths, and any staff member who posted something about the school that didn't toe the school line would be having a chat with the Head at the earliest opportunity. If you worked for a bakery and kept posting that baked goods shouldn't be in supermarkets because they're the devil's work you'd be asked to consider your position, so why does this prize think he's different?

I have a lot of sympathy for teachers but they're not coming out of this well. And as for the flowers on any thread that suggests it might be a good idea to get children back to school - that's just shutting down debate, like screaming TERF at someone who asks about women's safety.

Pertella · 16/05/2020 12:07

It was fascinating to watch that thread yesterday about the R number in London and the number who came on to pour scorn on a mainstream news story they hadn't heard yet

I was on a different thread about the news that 2/3rd of care homes hadnt had any covid. The OP only said they hadnt expected that.

A few posts in they were being accused of being on crack and how it wasnt good news at all Hmm

Mascotte · 16/05/2020 12:07

I don't comment on the Scottish Government feeds as I'm too scared 😂😂

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