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Dementors can dement but we'll keep it positive here

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hobnobsaremyfavourite · 02/05/2020 10:59

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Waxonwaxoff0 · 03/05/2020 07:17

Morning all!

I'm so looking forward to later. I'm ordering desserts from our local dessert shop that reopened last week.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 08:47

The radio just said it is mental health awareness week next week.

About people thinking it is in there air just floating around...that is mentioned in this video clip about the mental health problems caused in Italy by the lockdown.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-europe-52400085/coronavirus-lockdown-s-heavy-toll-on-italy-s-mental-health

How much do these dementors know they might be contributing to the sort of thing? And all the 'being ashamed to be British' well at least we can go outside without getting fined I suppose.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 08:50

On my Next-door site people are selling and collecting all sorts of things, very entrepreneurial really. No dementing seems to be going on about that. Thankfully.

iamapixie · 03/05/2020 08:53

Whenever anybody goes on about 'it's only a few weeks' it shows a complete lack of understanding of anything other than short-termism. I just want to scream 'it' s not just the other deaths, illness and misery now, it's the effect on our futures'. I also really really want to be rude. But mustnt sink to that level!

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 08:55

Such things as:

charity plant sale from our gate

local church saying they did a 'socially distanced' street party for one of our older residents who celebrated his 90th this week.

Planning projects with kids at an allotment and needing stuff for it

lots of ones about local businesses delivering and doing take-out as well.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 08:56

I know iamapixie, it is frustrating. Maybe after the 3 months money stops the realisation will kick in perhaps.

Twerking9to5 · 03/05/2020 09:07

Oh so glad to have found this thread. I’ll be reading regularly to keep myself sane.

Pps unthread have already mentioned the nextdoor site - one of our local, vocal dementors recently counted the number of ppl he saw on his run across 4 different parks in our town in order to report back. Several people pointed out that he himself was out covering quite the distance...Grin

mummypie17 · 03/05/2020 09:15

I like this thread! I know a few people IRL who have become the lockdown police. I can't even say I'm struggling to them as they will say things like 'better than losing your life'.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:16

Dh just got back from a run, someone had shouted at him, he;d shouted back...oh dear, not good...anyway yes it is causing problems where they find it hard to distance e.g. on cycle tracks I think...

The local ministry seem to be sticking up for people around here I notice

"Rev. Stuart Campbell said he saw a police officer on a bike lecturing and moving on people who were sitting on benches, or the grass, with nobody within "50 yards" of them in Victoria Park this weekend (April 4-5).

Rev. Campbell claimed this included one upset 80-year-old man with a walking stick.

He said the rules laid out by the government do not mandate anyone found outdoors to be in constant motion and said it was not right to "obsessively harangue" people like this"

"Contrary to what the officer was telling people, the emergency legislation does NOT mandate that anyone found outdoors must be in
constant motion.

"Any form of exercise encompasses rest breaks, of the sort the elderly gentleman visibly needed."

Rev. Campbell added: "Fresh air and sunshine (which provides vital Vitamin D after the winter) are both effective ways of boosting the immune system, and so long as people are staying 2m apart from each other it is idiotically counter-productive to hound law-abiding citizens out of the park - which is, remember, legally open.

"This lockdown is going to be in place for some time to come, and we're all going to have to try to stay sane.

"If we obsessively harangue people who've sat down for a little while - safely distant from others - to enjoy the sunshine and reduce the anxiety and tension of being cooped up all day, it will make everything worse, not better.

"I really hope someone takes the officer aside and tells him to wind his neck in and deploy some common sense and humanity.

"Because otherwise we're all going to end up so stressed and fractious that the consequences will be grim."

www.somersetlive.co.uk/news/somerset-news/coronavirus-lockdown-police-bath-park-4028599

I noticed the police had buggered off a bit

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:17

and it was the local church arranged the party for the 9- year old above.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:18

90! sorry

DominaShantotto · 03/05/2020 09:19

With the mental health thing - one of the loudest dementors has read an article saying some people's mental health has improved with lockdown and a reduction in the social demands required (a few parents of children with autism I know have reported similar) and is therefore shouting down everyone on every mental health thread going that they cannot possibly be suffering as people's mental health is improving with lockdown.

The mental health intolerance on here is horrific - I spent the first couple of weeks of lockdown having horrendous panic attacks and my anxiety is still sky high to the point I'm not sleeping and I'm just on edge constantly - but it can't possibly be that way as people have decided it must not be so! I only started stopping suffering as badly when I channelled my inner rebel and started confronting the dementor bullshit.

BrightYellowDaffodil · 03/05/2020 09:20

Rev Campbell is my new hero, bloody good on him Grin

Drivingdownthe101 · 03/05/2020 09:21

Yes I know which one you mean DominaShantotto. Apparently any mental health problems caused by the lockdown are only temporary so they don’t matter.

OutwardBound2016 · 03/05/2020 09:25

The constant school threads are getting ridiculous, if you do not want to send your child back to school in June/September/March just don’t!. There seems to be a bunch of posters who are just going from thread to thread shouting down anyone that suggests that children going back to school is going to happen before 2022 is basically murder.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:25

I get what they mean about less stress from demands such as meetings, school events etc, have a MH diagnosis myself for years before this, however to be honest people struggling prior to this would often avoid all that stuff anyway. I know I did. DH would go to the parents evening for example.

It is the way other things such as swimming and freedom to walk around etc, all stuff which is on my care plan for self management, has not gone, the PIP I get for it covered the pool and gym classes, all gone, it does make such a big difference to people.

Drivingdownthe101 · 03/05/2020 09:26

Agreed OutwardBound2016. I’m boring myself with going on the threads and saying ‘if you don’t want your children to go back to school, deregister them and home school then, as has always been your right’. I need to just not open the threads!

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:30

Well, if they don't send the kids in maybe it will mean more room for the others. I worry about the anxiety for the children of all this, they do pick up on it don't they. If the parents are going on about it I mean. Hopefully they don't but who knows.

DominaShantotto · 03/05/2020 09:34

You don't want your kids in then - don't send them in - more distancing space for those who ARE in! I'll be skipping and throwing mine back into school by then!

Sparklingbrook · 03/05/2020 09:36

I haven’t got school age children but if I did they would be going back at the first opportunity.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:40

Let's leave them to the schools drama, plenty of it isn't there. I know what you mean.

In the news today-

The UK government should not introduce an "arbitrary age limit" when lifting lockdown measures, the chairman of the British Medical Association (BMA) has said.

He said that when easing lockdown, the government "should be assuring all of us that it is... safer for people to be going outdoors".

Staying indoors for prolonged periods can lead to other problems, he said, potentially affecting people's mental and physical health.

“You can’t just look in isolation at the Covid situation," he added.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:41

Apparently they are working on a 'new message'. Wonder what that will be. As opposed to the staying in staying safe one etc

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:42

It's OK you can come out now?

DominaShantotto · 03/05/2020 09:42

Apparently they are working on a 'new message'. Wonder what that will be. As opposed to the staying in staying safe one etc

SPEND MONEY... BUY SHIT... SAVE THE ECONOMY... from 2 metres away.

Orangeblossom78 · 03/05/2020 09:47
Grin

BBC news dementor-ing again today, shaming some people breaking the lockdown and going on about people looking at them etc.

Of course no thoughts as to how they could have managed these situations 'safely'- just general shaming...

"underground network of hairdressers who have been working from home" made me laugh. FFS

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-52501417

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