Michael Buble and his wife. Shocking video.

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m.youtube.com/watch?v=S3taYAeR3sQ

Having watched some of their other videos, I’m concerned for her.

I knew it!! He's such a creep, how he is so popular is beyond me. I knew it would come out eventually, it always does.

*It then jumped to this clip

youtu.be/DVS3_XrBWwc

So I think they just have that silly kind of relationship*

Quick, call the police, she slapped him! She must be a husband abuser.

He just looks like a ball of seething rage.

Being late is annoying and I'd be pissed off having to make excuses for someone too. But I would be talking to my husband about it, not criticising him in front of the world on YouTube through gritted teeth.

Exactly, it’s the way he does it so easily on camera

Yup. Been there.

Alarm bells are a-clanging.

I don't see it.

I've watched and rewatched multiple times.

I'm a survivor of DV and I still don't see it.

Ooooh not so nice is he?!

Woah, he’s stressed! He’s jealous that she takes attention from him. Horrible.

To me that’s gone beyond ‘silly’ - she shouldn’t have slapped him either, playful or not. I wouldn’t ‘slap’ my DP in front of my children - or in front of the world on youtube.

Are the people that have clocked it victims of dm and therefore see what’s really happening

Not a direct victim but I am the child of DV and I wonder if I have an innate spideysense for this stuff as a result.

And yet... look at the comments below! Most still positive. Their fans love them.... shows how normalised it is...

Wow that is shocking. I'd never heard anything bad about Buble before. Watching both those videos shows him in a horrible light. The fact he can't see how he's coming across there is a red flag in itself - it implies he thinks his behaviour is fine and that audience would be on his side?

Note how she keeps looking to him and smiling and keeping things nice and breezy while he doesn't respond to her cues and openly slags her off to his camera person and the audience. That is a woman trying to keep a man's mood from spiralling. Horrifying.

@Kelsoooo You physically can't see him elbow her sharply and look at her furiously and her mutter 'oh my god I'm sorry'? Then his face change back and him grab her roughly in for a hug, like he remembers they're on camera? You really can't see that?

I'm honestly really surprised that people can't even see what is causing people concern. I can understand thinking it's out of context or maybe just a one-odd, but to not even see the behaviour? This has really blown my mind! But I guess it explains a lot why people get away with stuff for years and years when other people are seemingly unable to see behaviour right in front of them

So why is it ok to slap him-both as bad as each other

Oh God, her FACE.
I definitely know that expression. I bet she's panicking inside about what he's going to say to her later when the camera is off.

Wow, I know some are trying to pass the time but to watch a 20 minute video and jump to conclusions just makes me laugh.

Mumsnet is full of this, like no one has their real lives to focus on...

I'm shocked people think this is OK.

Oh give over. Yeah he's irritated in the second clip, but if she is constantly late for everything, it's annoying as fuck.

This is blown way out of proportion, and as a DV survivor and someone who recognises abusive behaviours, this is not it. Couples are not perfect all the time.

I can see how certain gestures can be triggering and I was in an abusive relationship but I think people are overreacting to these videos. Couples get angry with each other. It doesn’t mean they are in an abusive relationship just because they don’t want their arguments to be seen by the world. I’m no Michael Bublé fan but he’s not done anything wrong. I’d be pissed off if my partner was constantly late and I had the embarrassment of having to keep making excuses for them.

For some reason I don't have volume on the videos but the first video is disturbing. That was a proper elbow, then the look on his face and how she immediately complied. Never seen him like this before.

I have been in an abusive relationship and I don’t really see much wrong with this. But maybe my own boundaries are off...!

I think some people are being wilfully blind. Others might be a little more naive than others or maybe they really don’t have the experience to recognise these things. Some people’s brains are also better than others’ at picking up on minute details. I can definitely recognise anger, aggression and pent up rage. Even before this video I had seen it buried under his act for television, on multiple occasions. The mask slips once in a while.

I’ve never been in an abusive relationship and I honestly went into this with an open mind. I’m neither a fan nor someone who particularly knows anything about him.

The way her face fell when she said I’m so sorry....I felt instantly uneasy. Then he swerves quickly and pulls her in but it’s too late.

I don’t like it. I can’t say anything more than that but it made me feel uneasy and uncomfortable.

I have never been in an abusive relationship, but I must say that I was uncomfortable with that shove. As someone said , it is a reflex action and it’s obvious that he has done this before as she doesn’t look surprised.

They seem to have a weird relationship, but if they're both happy with it...
The simmering-with-rage shtick seems to be his sense of humour, I've seen him swearing at young fans in concert, seemingly in anger, then laugh it off. Perhaps he enjoys the power of unsettling people. He's not someone I'd want to spend time around.