My Mam

[Vicbarbarkley]

Hello,

I think my mam used to post here under the name of Toooldtobearsed.

She had cancer and was strufgling with booking a holiday?
I just wanted to let you know she died yesterday.

I cant believe I am saying that. She was the most amazing woman.

Hers was not a peaceful death, I am distraught for her, and trying to do what I can, so if you 'knew' her, she has gone.

[NoSauce]

I recognise your mums MN name. I am very sorry to hear your sad news. Take care of yourself

[SecretWitch]

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mother. 💐

[changeofname0987]

I didn't know her but I'm so sorry for your loss @Vicbarbarkley sending lots of love

[picklesdragonisawelshdragon]

I'm so sorry for your loss. You can come here if you need to vent, rage, or just have a handhold.

[MrsMozartMkII]

I am so sorry.

May she rest in peace.

[Commonwasher]

My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry, I know what it’s like to loose a Mum to such a merciless disease.

Prayers for you OP, and a truckload of sympathy. xx

[SoupDragon]

I recognise her name.

So sorry for your loss

[HerRoyalFattyness]

I recognise the name. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[FuzzyAtmosphere]

I’m so sorry.

[SparklingLime]

I’m so sorry @Vicbarbarkley, and particularly that it wasn’t peaceful. It’s such a hard time for you

[Vicbarbarkley]

She only cane back off holiday last Sunday, and had plans going as far ahead as next Christmas!
She knew her time was limited, but was so full of life. Until she came home from holiday, then it was obvious she was not going to make her family gathering.

She fostered dozens of teenagers. She adopted (and fostered animals).

She was amazing.

[rainbowruthie]

Sending kindest thoughts

[Bloodybridget]

I recognise your mum's username. I am so sorry. Wishing you strength and comfort at this sad time.

[Vicbarbarkley]

I just cannot believe she will never be here again.

There is a goat keeps coming and bleating at me. I am sure she knows. Mam rescued her a couple of years ago and Maisie followed her everywhere.

Shit.

[Vicbarbarkley]

Maisie is a goat 😄

[Awwlookatmybabyspider]

Oh Vic, I’m so sorry. She’s at peace now, though.I think her username does ring a bell.
Maisie will definitely know. Did she rescue her as little kid.

[MotherForkinShirtBalls]

I also recognise your mum's MN name. I'm very sorry for your loss.

[Vicbarbarkley]

Maisie had her own kid when mam rescued her, Maisie and Marnie were gpher fopirst goats. She never actually wanted them.... they were just dumped over the fence into a field full of foster donkeys. She ended up with donkeys, goats, chickens, rabbits (!) and two llamas.

We went down to see to them this morning, but they definitely know something is wrong.

[lucysmam]

I recognise your mam's nn too. And think I remember the thread you're referring to.

I'm so very sorry for your loss

It does sound like Maisie knows.

Make sure you take care of both of you.

[Vicbarbarkley]

Sorry - Maisie and Marnie were her first goats ( she has 6 now)!

Dont know if it is me or this keyboard!

Probably me......🙄

[MillicentMartha]

I remember your mum’s username. It sounds like she’ll be sorely missed.

[Crunchymum]

Bless you @Vicbarbarkley

Your mam sounds like an amazing woman and I'm sure she has left a wonderful legacy (you for a start!!)

I can't imagine how you must feel. Keep strong

[shinynewapple2020]

I also remember your mam's name and a couple of her threads.

I'm really sorry to hear this. for you and your family .

[CormoranStrike]

Your mam sounds great.

Sorry for your terrible loss.

[FadedRed]

I remember your Mum’s username, (I rather envied it actually) and the tale of the goats.
So sorry for your loss