You in three words

[katee90]

I can't sleep (well my teething baby won't let me sleep).

I thought I'd ask anyone reading to describe themselves in three words.

If you could change any of them would you?

I need to have a think about mine. Though it maybe take my sleep deprived brain some time

Warm
Enthusiastic
Lucky 🍀

Today: Fat; Tired; Sad.

Ask me usually: Fit; Energetic; Happy

Had a couple of tough weeks combined with overeating.

Passionate
Lucky
Unfulfilled

Unrecognisable
Down
Unfulfilled

Fat
Free of an abusive exh
Optimistic

On
A
Mission

Everything else has flown out the window, I have shit to do! (but currently waiting, hence MNing, foot-tapping and drinking coffee!)

Tired
Bohemianish
Bored

Friendly
Innovative
Distracted

Happy
Reliable
Kind

Bereaved
Exhausted
Hurting

oh Frazzlerock

Taken for granted.

Cold
Blunt
Unimpressed

@Frazzlerock- I’m so sorry. Do you have rl support?

Frazzlerock support. It’s tough.
Those words will shift a
Little when they are ready.

@Lordfrontpaw and @Shockers I do, but there's nothing anyone can do.
We lost my 4th baby 2 weeks ago (another MMC) and DP refuses to try again, ever. So I think this might be my outlook now. Thank you for reaching out though.I never expected anyone to notice really.

I like to think one day (fuck knows when) I'll have at least one positive word to describe myself.

Frazzle i am really sorry.

Loving
Realist
Strong

I’ve learnt to love who I am over the past few years, and see myself through my husband and children’s eyes.

Frazzlerock you’ll get there, grieve and be kind to yourself. Your DP may feel like this now but not forever.

@Watermelontea I’ve learnt to love who I am over the past few years, and see myself through my husband and children’s eyes.

I'd love to feel this way.
DP won't change his mind. We are both in our 40's now so this is it. But I appreciate your optimism. I'll find a way to be happy again somehow once all this isn't so raw and painful.

I don't want to make this thread about me so I will disappear now. I hope no one else is suffering. If they are....

Frazzle - do come back if you want to. I'm sure no one feels you're making the thread about yourself.

Fat, sardonic, opiated.

Tired
Optimistic
Frustrated

extreme flight risk

@Frazzlerock- you will, although that must seem a very long way off from where you are now. In the meantime, look after yourself. I wish I could send you real .

Lazy
Anxious
Fat