To be fair Harry has been in Canada until a few days ago. Pretty normal in business to ask for costings with any proposal and the RF is a business.
Exactly.
What H&M want is a significant break in royal tradition.
It's not in the slightest bit unreasonable to request more detail on how they expect this to work on a practical level.
No-one seems to have come back to say "no" as a complete sentence rather they wanted to open a dialogue and work through the issues to avoid exactly the sort of backlash this announcement has created.
I don't think many people have an issue with them making a decision to become private individuals who have full autonomy over their work, image and finances. Most people including myself would say they fully understand and wish them well.
But that's not what they are expecting. They want to retain all the privileges that HRH status provides whilst turning their back on the royal institution and their contribution towards it, whilst simultaneously milking the international platform it provides for their personal gain.
I'm not surprised HM wants this sorted "in days". Allowing this debacle to drag on is damaging to everyone.
However that can't be good for H&M because the only possible resolutions that can be agreed in a short timescale are those that fall well below their list of demands.
My best guess is that we will see them give up their HRH status, "free" security will provided only when in the UK (they will have to pay for it themselves when living in the US) and there will be a time limit put on how long they will get money from the Duchy of Cornwall.
In return they keep Frogmore, titles of Duke/Duchess, can live where they want in the US (self funded), mange their own press and earn a living with some pretty strict caveats on how they can/can't monetise their relationship with the royal family.