Withdrawal method day before ovulation

[Rainbowhairdontcare]

I know we were not being super smart... I have a 10 week old and had my period about 12 days ago. It was my first period.y DH has been extremely horny (which I don't mind) . He was definitely able to pull out on time but obviously I'm slightly worried. I have the appointment for my coil in two weeks. DH thinks I'm jealous at being super paranoid. It took us 9 months to conceive our DS.

Not sure what the query is but there is obviously a chance you could be pregnant. Only a test can tell you otherwise.

If pregnancy would be disastrous, then there was s still time to take MAP

Not all men produce sperm in their pre-cum, but some do. So assume you are at risk.

When was this? You should take the MAP if you're within the timeframe and, if you are, ASAP.

Then get yourself some pregnancy tests for when you're due on, or expect to buy them if you're late coming on.

Go and get the MAP if you’re within 72 hours. Unless you want another child.

Of course you could be pregnant. Or you might not be.

Jealous?
You could definitely be pregnant. Go and get the MAP.

I think 'jealous at' is a typo for 'just'.

Withdrawal method around ovulation time is otherwise known as TTC.
Insist that he wears a condom.
Why does he think you're jealous? Jealous of what? Or was it a typo?
Has he pressured you into having unprotected sex in the past?

You did the thing you have to do to make a baby so don't be surprised if it works. Was jealous a typo?

So you were ttc then?

Would definitely get the MAP in those circumstances.. It took us around a year (and probably near enough 100 times ) to conceive DC1, about 20 minutes to conceive DC2...

Why didn't he just wear a condom?

Yes, jealous is a typo for just. I wouldn't be a disaster, but not advisable with a fresh c section.

I have a friend who had to go through several round of IVF for their dc1. They were certain they were infertile.

Dc2 was conceived naturally within a year of dc1's birth. That was a bit of a shock for them both.

Use contraception if you don't want to get pregnant.

Your DH sounds like a bit of a selfish pig, tbh.

Use contraception if you don't want to get pregnant.

^^

He's been stupidly horny, again not complaining but it can be exhausting

Well he can sort himself out.
You're not just a hole for his pleasure.

He's a twat. So he's horny is he? Who the fuck cares!? Don't want a baby, don't have unprotected sex.

Why wasn't he using a condom?

He's been stupidly horny, again not complaining but it can be exhausting

So make him use a condom FFS

Why do women insist on indulging men with the whole 'oh I'm so horny I couldnt help myself' myth bullshit?

It takes seconds to put a condom on ffs

We used withdrawal method on day 13 of my cycle and got pregnant. I even said at the time this is risky! Didn't matter as we wanted a third child at some point but just proves withdrawal method isn't safe x

You don't to have sec if you're tired, you know. He'll have to sort himself out.

What does horny have to do with it?
You've literally just had your abdomen sliced open to birth his baby and he's risking you getting pregnant again because he's too horny to wear a condom! Really??