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Would you buy shoes in this situation?

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ihatethecold · 04/12/2019 07:17

My dd is in her final year of school so the school are having a dressed up Christmas meal to celebrate. This will be in school at lunchtime. The meal is £3.50 and just a cheap turkey meal with crackers.
They have to properly dress up and are not allowed to wear uniform.
Everyone usually wears black trainers to school and they have all been told they can’t wear these for the lunch.
My dd doesn’t have any other shoes apart from trainers.
Not even a pair of boots.

She has looked for shoes with a low heel but isn’t a fan of dainty shoes and would not ever wear them again.
I’m happy to buy her some but she really doesn’t want any and feels it’s a waste of time and money to buy some for one event.

The head of year has told them they can’t have the lunch if they are wearing trainers.

It’s bonkers and a real waste of money and I’m sure some families may feel that it’s an extra expense they don’t have the budget for.

You may say just go buy a cheap flat pair of shoes but as you know teenagers are very self conscious and won’t just wear any old pair. 😬

OP posts:
ihatethecold · 04/12/2019 19:49

woodhill. she has lots of trainers

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Sp1ke3 · 04/12/2019 20:16

Will the school allow Converse? My DD wears platform Converse on a night out.

MargotLovedTom1 · 04/12/2019 20:29

The school is being ridiculous - it's a school lunch, not dinner at the Dorchester. If trainers are acceptable at all other times of the year then why impose this stupid rule now? We've just had staff training regarding 'Poverty Proofing' our school; there might be families for whom this arbitrary request would cause genuine difficulty.

I would consider contacting the school and saying you are not in a position to be able to buy new shoes for this one-time event, whether you actually are or not.

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