DC1 birthday is mid November so I never do much before then.
I have a few gifts that I'd seen for DC but that's it. Oh and also their Xmas PJs
I would usually start making my lists about now but the whole family has been decimated by the awful virus doing the rounds and I can barely function.
Kids have several things going on at school (some us parents can attend - decorating classroom on early Dec, xmas play in Mid Dec). Other things are just for the kids. Y2 has an Xmas class trip to the zoo and younger DC is going to a pantomime.
I'll also book us in to Santa's grotto locally.
We have a few festive play dates planned too.
Both DP and I have massive families so we only do birthday gifts (and then its kids only!! I have 15 nieces and nephews
) so that eliminates a lot of stress and expense. I do a token chocolatey gift for them all.
We save our pound coins and silver coins all year, I count that up and bank it around 1st December and that is our Xmas tree / food / drink fund. Plus we have about £100 in Nectar points (I usually spend those on fizz and nice bits for in-laws and my folks, like a kind of hamper for their Xmas "gift that isnt a gift")
My DC birthdays fall either side of Xmas so we don't go mad for gifts.
We already have our stockings / xmas decs / wreaths / xmas sacks / room decorations / xmas jumpers & outfits.
I have loads of cards left over from previous years and have bagged them up (so this year I'll reuse 2016/17 cards I didn't get through then). Kids will make some cards for their grandparents nearer the time.