Hi I'm new to 'Dating Apps' & have come across a man who I have been talking to for 3 weeks now. Within '5-days' of talking to each other he actually posted one post: 'Hi Sexy, How would you feel if we made love together as I wonder how hot we'd get?'
I'm late 40's so not a spring chicken, but would like the opinions of the mature generations if there are any here - because I don't just bed men after meeting them that quickly - certainly when you haven't even met them & got to know them in person either, and after 5-days!
I did reply to him 'We haven't even met yet or got to know each other properly yet, so hold off please' I think he thinks 'sex & bedding girls' is the ultimate pleasure, but I'm not that easily used.
We did meet this Sunday afternoon & was a bit wary of his motifs due to his posts. He dropped me home, as I don't drive. But in the car in broad-daylight 7pm he gaily proceeded to kiss me tongue -in-mouth (after only 3 hours of meeting - doesn't mean we know each other). But in his eyes it does. I did pull apart & said 'It's daylight & there are cameras outside my block of flats & residents can see'. He said 'Well shall we go in your flat?'. I said 'No, my washing is all out hanging to dry in my flat' he kept asking, but I put my foot down & repeated the above to him - which was true.
To me he's too full-on & that turned me off him coming straight in on me like I'm his property. He's not had many girlfriends over the years from what he told me, so I think he's a novice & hasn't got the experience in life to know how to go out with ladies & to get to know them properly first myself.
Has anyone else had any similar experiences & how have you dealt with them? (due to dating apps being new to me) If anything what ones would you recommend to be the best & possibly free-ones (if any are)? Which ones are the best?