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Can I tell you what a CUNT my ex is

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YesyouyouCnut · 13/07/2019 21:01

We have a DD together who is 4. He stopped seeing her 5 months ago. Blocked all contact. He blocked my number, her iPad email and every other email connected with her.

She was going on and on all morning asking to call him. I told her we can’t get through. In the end I changed her iPad email and she FaceTimed him. He answered clearly not knowing it was her. Told her he was driving but to call back later tonight, said love you darling!

Then instantly blocked her again.

I want to drive round his house and make him face the poor little heartbroken girl

Go ahead and share that DM, I’ll even give you his bloody name Angry

OP posts:
Fluffycloudland77 · 14/07/2019 20:01

Block him 😂

C0untDucku1a · 14/07/2019 20:10

OP you need to protect your daughter. I just dont know how you do that.

MIL keep going at trying to make him a decent father. Tell him the importance of regular, weekly phone calls. Hold him accountable for the emotional damage he will do to your grandchild.

lunar1 · 14/07/2019 20:15

He needs to speak to you first to say if this is a one off or not, if it is it will do more harm than good sadly.

If he continues to be a cunt and you need to run him over I'll be your alibi.

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DiaryofWimpyMumm · 14/07/2019 20:21

My ex husband did the same. Now years later my sons have very little to do with him and he called me crying 2 weeks ago because he has no one. Karma

livinglavidavillanelle · 14/07/2019 20:27

Too fucking little too late you utter twat.

Up to you of course OP, but I would block that piece of shit. And his mother in law for good measure. You had a lucky escape there.

livinglavidavillanelle · 14/07/2019 20:27

*your mother in law. Although technically not her fault, I would just be so disgusted at them all.

MyKingdomForBrie · 14/07/2019 20:31

I wouldn't block contact, I know it rakes it up when it's stop start but she's going to see his mum so she's not going to 'forget' him so you really should keep doing what you've been doing and try to facilitate.

Gingerkittykat · 14/07/2019 22:05

Can you leave the contact with her dad to times she is with her grandmother? Sounds like you won't have to deal with any conflict or bullshit that way. Tell her she can only phone or facetime him when she is there.

Femodene · 14/07/2019 23:15

I hope the sperminators breeder is reading it😀 I hope she and her disgusting sons father are cringing. Doubt it though. ‘Don’t want to get involved’ aye? Then you don’t get a relationship with your grandchild and it should be publicised , you should be named in posts on FB about what a failure you and your offspring are, and embrace it because you actively choose this. The sperminator and the people who bred him are 100% responsible for their choices, lucky your daughter won’t have such trash in her life.

Femodene · 14/07/2019 23:17

Make sure you screenshot and securely save and back up all the incidences of the trash blocking contact with his small child, she can judge him herself in a few years.

Stompythedinosaur · 14/07/2019 23:51

Jesus, what a collosal wanker. He true is too pathetic for words.

Your poor little girl.

Gingerkittykat · 15/07/2019 02:32

Don't blame the MIL for his behaviour, also don't stop the relationship between child and grandmother.

My niece's dad was a waste of space, but she had a positive relationship with her grandparents growing up because they managed to consistently be in her life.

Let the ex be an arsehole, don't chase after him or try to contact him at all. Don't ask his mum to be a go between either.

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