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Can't say it to someone's face? Come and say it here.

608 replies

Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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geordiema77 · 02/03/2020 18:47

I can't say it to your face as you're no longer here. Almost 29 years since you've gone and there's so much we never got to do together. Nights out, holidays, gigs: all could have seen us there misbehaving but you never got to experience them sadly.
Your neice and nephew are adorable and your mum is still going strong bless her. She's even good over WhatsApp Grin
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I still think about you most weeks which is odd considering I haven't seen you in 28 years. I guess first loves never go away do they? You look so successful from what I can see and I hope that your home life is as good as your professional life seems x
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I still think about you and I'm glad you moved away although it hurt at the time. We were too toxic to both be in the same city which we proved on a couple of occasions. I see you're married with 2 DC, I'm happy you've settled down even if we had wild times together
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I think about you every day which simply isn't right. You and I, in much different circumstances would have been great together. I meant everything I ever wrote to you and never lied once. I've had to put distance between us for both of our sakes and I hope you understand that

OldUnit · 02/03/2020 18:54

I really like you, like really fucking like you. I think you're amazing. You're funny, kind, sensitive, vulnerable, you love your mum and I love that about you...
We're both beautifully broken and we know that about each other. Let's just do what everyone keeps saying we should and make it happen, let's have children and settle down together. I can see it..... I've never had a partnership with anyone like I could envisage with you. We're peas in a pod.
I know I'm not your type but I wish you'd just have the epiphany like I have.

He knows NONE of this....

lmnoh · 02/03/2020 18:56

I'm pissed off with myself that i aloud you to get under my skin and I just wished that you could have bowed out gracefully when I told you that we needed to cool things, instead of love bombing me again with ".... but I like you!"
You think you are something special but you're thoughtless, selfish, rude, arrogant, conceited and full of shite !!

TeensArghhhh · 02/03/2020 19:00

You reported to my best friend that I told you dreadful things about her. Why would I be comfortable saying these things to you? - someone I don’t like and have never spoken to?

Face it you are a liar. Your time is up!

Ilady · 03/03/2020 01:16

D, you contacted me and told me about that thing again. I don't know if you telling me the truth. I feel bad saying that but you have previous form for lying to me. We knew each other for years and you knew I wanted us to have a relationship but you decided you did not want this. We both know your current situation. But despite this your sextexting me and want us to meet up for sex. You tell me you meet me soon but their is no sign of you sorting this out. I have decided to give you until X date to make deffinate plans and after that I am not waiting any longer.
I have my own life. I am not putting my life on hold waiting for you to decide what you want.

GuineaSomethingGood · 03/03/2020 01:20

Mama, I love you. Always have. But why oh why did you not listen to me when I tried to tell you I did not think what Dad was doing to us children was right? I did not like being left alone with him- got hysterical over it. Remember those tantrums I had? I forgive but I cannot forget.

AnotherMurkyDay · 03/03/2020 01:34

I'm really fucking sorry. It keeps me awake at night. I've tried emailing, texting, writing, calling, but I freeze. I hope you know I'm sorry and I love you. Maybe one day I'll be brave enough to tell you.

TheKrakening3 · 03/03/2020 02:09

She is 87 with chronic health conditions. We all love her. But wailing and shrieking at doctors and demanding second, third and forth opinions because they can’t magically make her old body young is just ridiculous. Show some common sense and self-control.

MadgeMidgerson · 03/03/2020 02:24

I fancy the pants off you, it’s like being a teenager again but I love it so cheers for that!

SnowyPetals · 03/03/2020 02:54

I wish you would stop turning up for school drop off in your pyjamas. You are lowering the tone of the playground and are the only parent who does this. Get dressed you lazy cow!

Hooferdoofer37 · 03/03/2020 07:56

Have some fucking ambition and self-respect and do the job you're bloody paid to do.

FabulouslyFab · 04/03/2020 21:17

It’s been 40 years. Do you ever think of me?

bagelbaby · 04/03/2020 21:33

You are a patronising shit stirrer who has brought nothing to the company and is being paid shedloads. The rest us are working our arses off. You make me sick. . Have some decency and walk away

Luunaa · 04/03/2020 21:51

Why didn't you invite me out to the get together last week? I thought we were friends rather than just colleagues.

Luunaa · 04/03/2020 21:52

@SnowyPetals sorry but that has made me laugh so much! Lowering the tone of a playground. Love it. Wish that was the worst thing in my day.

duvetaddict · 13/03/2020 20:24

You make me feel worthless and you're so selfish!!

duvetaddict · 13/03/2020 20:27

You keep messing up and it's driving everyone mad. Stop criticising other people, it's you that can't do the job. Try listening just for once and stop shagging people at work. You might actually get something done properly If you stopped flirting for 5 minutes and concentrated on what you were doing!

Oldraver · 14/03/2020 09:15

Although I did tell you "I don't want to talk to you" which did seem to surprise you, I'm not going to justify myself to you you.

You are a massive bully who relentlessly bullied me in my last job. You are also the most vile racist and homophobe. No Love the Neighbour was not a fantastic programme and you can't tell 'gays' (your words) by how they walk.

Everything that comes out if your mouth is vile including the way you talk about your children, I have never heard you say one nice thing about anyone

Greyeye · 15/03/2020 15:45

I hate you so much.

You are a bully. You swan around town thinking you are the Queen Of Sheba. I hate your cheap, bleached hair. Wearing clothes made for teenagers only emphasises but a wrinkly old Grannie you are.

lobsterkiller · 15/03/2020 16:02

Stop testing your friendships, we can never live up to your ridiculous expectations and you are turning into a nasty, judgemental person. People are stepping back from you for a reason.

Woolyback · 15/03/2020 16:48

You think I think you are a cunt. You couldn't be further from the truth. I fancy the arse off you. I'd Shag you above anyone else. You make me laugh you make me cry. I really do think we are soulmates. I'm awful to you because you are married you wouldn't go there neither would I. Love you.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 15/03/2020 16:54

DM your bizarre insistence on a specific restaurant that you think is upmarket but isn't was one thing

Suggesting I buy my sister a mothers day gift was another

But why are you stubbornly insisting we are still going next Sunday?

We aren't!

cantdoitalone · 15/03/2020 16:57

I don't give a fuck about your patronising 'dearie me' when you saw me getting 4 bottles of milk from the supermarket shelf or your later comment to somebody else about 'what is all this about' as you walked round the supermarket without even a basket - you didn't work there so were you just there to be a judgmental prick or had you sent your wife round to do the work whilst you carried on behaving appallingly.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 15/03/2020 17:01

You are a wolf in sheeps clothing, who comes across plausibly and has a lot of people fooled, but is actually a manipulative, slightly dangerous scheming individual.

I know I haven't been alone in seeing your true self but it certainly feels like that

May this unalterable change in your circumstances, and the hurdles it will bring finally see you exposed for the utter horror that you actually are.

Warmhandscoldheart · 15/03/2020 17:04

Son, I sobbed again today because I found out you'd lied to me again. I love you but can't believe a word you say. I was so proud of you but you've disappointed so many people during the last two years and wrecked lives. I'm throughly ashamed of you.