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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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notsodimwit · 28/02/2020 03:18

I hate both of you! Really hate you both with a vengeance! One of you is due to die soon and the other will never see or hear from me again... Phew the relief that that's out!

bottleofbeer · 28/02/2020 04:12

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duvetaddict · 28/02/2020 04:35

Why am I not important enough for you ask if I'm ok. I'm there every time you have something going on and I just need you to want to bother to give me the same support back.

ShowerOfShite · 28/02/2020 04:58

I judge you for the fraud and the grabby sense of entitlement. That house should have gone to someone with a real disability. I'm really disappointed you just want to con your way through life, taking what's not yours.

myidentitymycrisis · 28/02/2020 07:23

I’m not a bully and I don’t think I want to continue in a relationship where you consider me to be one. I’m 53 and have never had that said about me in friendship, work or intimate relationship.

I know you think I’m going to move in with you, but I’m not. And I don’t know how to tell you

Cheermeupplease22 · 28/02/2020 07:30

To the person I dated for 6 weeks - I miss you Sad.

Sudename · 28/02/2020 10:03

Hey you bitch. I ended up having to give up a good and well paying job because of your constant picking and sniping. Management hadn't the balls to deal with you so it was a job or my sanity.
However I got the last laugh cause I'm now training for something new that I love and you're still there thinking you're cock of the walk when in fact no one likes you!

goose1964 · 28/02/2020 10:26

Stop driving everywhere,when you're back in a couple of minutes you could've walked.

peachescariad · 28/02/2020 10:36

You and your DH are both hypocritical, vile people who hide behind your Catholic religion.....you were a very poor friend and you always played the victim. You slag off your friends behind their backs, but still see them and are nice to their face.
I know your husbands secret and what's worse is that you do too and accept it.
I'm so glad you are out of my life.

ThePolishWombat · 28/02/2020 10:39

Stop acting like a petulant child Hmm
I’m pretty sure my 3 year old is more emotionally mature than you.

sergeantmajor · 28/02/2020 11:55

You are meant to be a professional. You lied three times during the 10 minute appointment, badly, contradicting yourself.. You were negligent with my child. You didn't give a shit. I felt bad being brusque with you at the time, but now I wish I had given it to you with both barrels. You are an arrogant bully.

kerkyra · 28/02/2020 12:02

Why did you get a dog??
Yes your DC was feeling low and you got it for her,but after three months it's never walked and DC will be off to uni in a year. Also left all day three times a week.
When I asked if you fancied a dog walk with me and my pooch,you said it was your DC's dog and up to her and that you just feed it.
I'm slowly distancing myself from you

NutttyNameChange · 28/02/2020 22:35

I went LC (low contact) with you after a final, decisive episode a couple of years ago. As a result, the mask of your public face slipped.

As a result, I studied narcissism. Just enough to get the gist. Some of the phrases/words/actions used as examples in the You Tube presentations were chillingly accurate. I had a real, 'oh I get it now' moment. Well, several, actually. Especially now I understand what is meant by, 'hoovering' when a narcissist needs to re-establish a source of supply. I see things so clearly now.

Can't lose you completely, not yet, have to have a modicum of communication between us until our widowed parent dies. Which might not be very far in the future.

So, it's unfortunate timing that you may have been diagnosed with a life limiting illness.

Before I was advised of this by you I fantasised about saying, 'congratulations' if you ever told me you had a life limiting illness but as the only one between us with any integrity, I didn't.

I'm scared at the thought of you passing away rather than sad.

hannabarbera · 28/02/2020 22:58

Dear ***

You know I like you and I know you like me. Those text you sent over the years prove it. Your friends even know it.

Your partner has landed on her feet. And being a single parent to 2 kids, her mum is over the moon that her DD has a guy who is well paid. I heard her saying it in a local chemist. Anyhow, you have been told by your friends that she fell pregnant after being advised not to and shes been in FB telling everyone about her near death experience. If you have 2 kids free m a previous marriage why risk your life?
She is no actress. She may have had a bit part in a soap opera in the last few weeks but means nothing.

Feel better now.

YourVagesty · 28/02/2020 23:00

Go fuck yourself you self-centred bitch!

PelicanPie · 28/02/2020 23:04

You want to know why I never come to see you? Really? Because you are rude and self centred . Because you have no idea how to make me feel welcome or even liked. You are the most passive aggressive person I know and the most selfish. Also have absolutely no self awareness.
Your husband is the most boring man I have ever met. I still prefer him to you though.

CoolCarrie · 28/02/2020 23:08

I think you are gorgeous...

sockittome123 · 02/03/2020 16:39

Why am I not important enough for you ask if I'm ok. I'm there every time you have something going on and I just need you to want to bother to give me the same support back.

This, with bells on. It's so hard isn't it duvetaddict

Londonmummy66 · 02/03/2020 17:28

To the wanky teacher at DS school who sent him home for a week on the say so of another child without asking for his side of the story - I simply have no words (or not that I can type here anyway)......

NemophilistRebel · 02/03/2020 17:32

I will never respect you after

1 - you got rid of your rescue dog because you had another baby

2 - you used your child’s inheritance to buy a house

3 - you try your best to humiliate me in front of extended family whenever you get a chance

Mrskeats · 02/03/2020 17:38

To my stepdaughter
Stop bashing your father on social media.
Then text him to ask for more money.
You are not a nice person.

SickOFant · 02/03/2020 17:53

Hello Ex,

I really enjoyed bumping into you the other day. I looked hot as fuck while you look like someone inflated a ball sack with rice pudding and drew a receding hair line on it.
I really enjoyed telling you about how well I'm doing in life (although I was really careful not to boast) because I stalk you a bit on Facebook every now and then and I know that your job as an 'executive procedural consultant' (or whatever bullshit you called it) is basically just a salesman job. I hope you remember the multiple times that you told me I had no ambition and I'd never get anywhere in life.
I know you were wondering and angling for information about this so, yes, my DP is the bloke I hooked up with pretty soon after we stopped seeing each other. Contrary to all of your predictions, he didn't drop out of university to start dealing drugs; he hasn't cheated on me; he has never been violent to me; and he most certainly didn't get me pregnant to trap me.

Yours sincerely,
SickOFant

worldsworststepfordwife · 02/03/2020 17:56

I wish I could be as positive about our children’s life long disability as you are but I can’t help but think that your positivity is helped by the fact that you’re fucking loaded. So no I’ll not get involved with your spreading positive messages malarkey because for some future parents they could easily be entering a lifetime of struggle and hardship, they need honesty and a chance to see the best and worst case scenarios, and come to their decision with no judgement

Pudding51 · 02/03/2020 18:00

Really really pleased for you..well done!!! Just sad I wasn't part of it.

worldsworststepfordwife · 02/03/2020 18:01

Oh I’ve another, I never come to visit you as I dislike you a tiny bit more every day as for every year older my children get and the more I know them and love them and how I’ll do whatever is needed for them the more I shake my head at what’s a useless selfish waste of space you are

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