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ragingchocoholic · 07/05/2019 00:16

Fancy a chat?

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wobblebot · 14/05/2019 21:40

Thank you @Zofloramummy you have been a massive support to me over the last few days. I don't really post a lot, I tend to just read, I'm really glad I have this time though!

I feel rather rude, I've not asked you how you are etc?

wobblebot · 14/05/2019 21:41

I have an appointment to see him again next Tuesday so I will ask him if it's an option, thank you!

Zofloramummy · 14/05/2019 21:43

Oh don’t apologise! I’m feeling like I’ve turned a corner since Sunday. All of a sudden I feel like me again. A bit more tired and I can’t walk as far as I’d like just yet but definitely on the mend.

Zofloramummy · 14/05/2019 21:45

I was thinking earlier how nice this thread has turned out. It’s not easy watching the world sleep. It’s nice just to post and everyone is quite supportive for each other and that’s a nice thing Smile

wobblebot · 14/05/2019 22:25

Why did you have to have your gallbladder removed?

I agree it's really nice knowing that I'm not completely alone in the dead of night. Even if there isn't an immediate reply!

Zofloramummy · 14/05/2019 22:40

I started having episodes of excruciating pain. Usually starting at night. I couldn’t lie, sit, stand upright. I was vomiting bile. Couldn’t take painkillers as I threw them up again. Hard to take a deep breath as I had chest pain. I thought I was dying the first time. As a single mum with a 7 yr old I rode it out until morning and it eventually passed off. Then it started happing more frequently. So I went the the GP and they said I had to go to A&E the next time, referred me for an ultrasound and said they suspected gallstones.

It happened again and I was admitted in jan with acute cholecystitis. Basically my gallbladder was infected. That was the worst one. My BP was sky high and I was nearly delirious with the pain. I was in hospital for a week. Since then I’ve been on a strict low fat diet and was told I needed it removed.

And I am feeling much better now it’s gone! After the surgery the surgeon said they’d struggled to get it out as it was chronically inflammed. And I’m not surprised as I was still symptomatic on a low fat diet.

I hit most of the triggers - female, forty, fertile, fair. But not the last one- fat! Grin

MollyHuaCha · 15/05/2019 00:12

Sounds scary Zoflora, how are you now?

Zofloramummy · 15/05/2019 00:24

It was very scary. However I’m now nearly 2 weeks post surgery. I don’t need painkillers anymore. I have tried cheese, chocolate and today had a sausage butty without any symptoms!!! I spent months eating white fish or chicken and rice so this is amazing for me Smile

Zofloramummy · 15/05/2019 00:30

Honestly though as a single parent I lay there in sheer agony because I didn’t want to scare my dd by having to call an ambulance. The night I finally rang my parents and said you’ll have to come and get her I have to go in was awful. There is no one else I can rely on. So they picked her up at 1am and I got myself to the hospital. My BP was ridiculous 200/149, my heart rate was really high too. I was lucky because gallbladder infection can be serious untreated.

Before my surgery I was really emotional (even started a thread) because I was so aware of how vulnerable my dd is. She has me, and what happens if I’m not here? My parents are amazing but my dad needs heart surgery and my mum is disabled. It really brought it home how important it is that I’m A ok until she is an adult.

wobblebot · 15/05/2019 02:30

That's sounds terribly frightening @Zofloramummy I remember the thread you posted!

I'm so glad you're improving. My DM has always said that I can't look after DS properly if I don't look after myself. That's the only reason I push and fight so hard to regain a 'normal' life, if it wasn't for him I'd find it so much easy to sit, feel sorry for myself and allow HCPs to make me feel like a nuisance.

In other news, another night of crappy sleep 😫

wobblebot · 15/05/2019 23:52

Anybody about tonight?

@Zofloramummy I have a date for my laparoscopy

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 00:47

Ooh! That’s good news! Smile When is it?

wobblebot · 16/05/2019 01:41

End of June

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 07:46

That’s good then, you can start to count the weeks off

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 17:53

Well I’m not sure I’ll sleep much tonight. My dad has had an angiogram today and he needs a valve replacement. He had a triple bypass 7 years ago but he is in his 70’s now and it’s stressful.

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 17:53

Also first day back in work tomorrow and the boiler had died fml

wobblebot · 16/05/2019 20:37

Oh that's really shit. Is it likely to be soon? Or more of a wait?

Are you ready to go back to work?

wobblebot · 16/05/2019 20:38

Also I'm so glad you posted (not the reasons but just the act) I really thought I'd killed thread with my self obsessed tangent

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 22:23

No! I’ve just been sat waiting for messages off my mum to see how it went. Then bedtime went to shit with dd as she was crying about a shouty teacher and a friendship group. Apparently one child thinks they are the ‘boss’ and has fired 2 of her friends from the group so my dd walked out voluntarily today. I was like Confused when did school become The Apprentice???

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 22:24

Hopefully won’t be long for his OP. I feel ok to go back. I can eat normally now. I’m just tired (which is fairly constant!)

Zofloramummy · 16/05/2019 22:25

Walked out of the friendship group that is, not the actual school.

wobblebot · 17/05/2019 08:51

That's hilarious .. the firing that is.

I hope you managed to sleep some? I actually slept last night, a normal to most standards 6 hours. However, DH is currently on the sofa due to his complete lack of respect to our marriage and disregard to my feelings so maybe not having him snoring and making me overheat by throwing limbs all over me has added to my success.

floraloctopus · 18/05/2019 01:20

2nd night of little sleep here due to unresolvable worries.

wobblebot · 18/05/2019 04:22

Oh @floraloctopus do you want to talk about it?

I have a new pattern of behaviour. Broken sleep. I'm not sure what's better.

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