IWhat I'm struggling with here is how anyone knows how someone else washes.
If someone smells bad, my assumption would be that they haven't washed, not that they have washed in a way that is different to how I do it. I just can't imagine asking someone how they wash and yet loads of people are saying that they know the person on the train strip washes, or the person on the hospital ward strip washes etc. How do you know?*
This. You can’t possibly know if someone smells because they showered 3 weeks ago, or yesterday.
I once read on here that a poster could smell when someone hadn’t washed their bra. How? Does an unwashed bra smell different from an unwashed T-shirt?
It’s individual anyway. I had a flatmate who bathed once a week. She did not smell. At all. I had a colleague who would be slightly BO whiffy by the end of a long day- didn’t come in smelling so definitely showered every day.
Those who can smell the difference between a strip wash and a shower, or a daily shower vs every other day, must have undergone extensive training.
I used the tube every day for 15 years. I never came across all these supposedly unwashed masses.
And yy to this idea that women’s fannies stink if not washed 5 times a day and after every toilet trip.