@EffYouSeeKaye....
it started with him trying to force me to sign the most one sided separation agreement which consisted of the house being on the market within 2 weeks and being split 50/50, each keeping our own pension and savings....
Oh how l laughed and toodled off to a SHL... who was very professional and said it would never be agreed by the Judge....
He was absolutely FURIOUS when he realised l wasn't going to sign it AND had seen a solicitor after he said l didn't have too.
Thanks to Mumset l was one step ahead the whole time with what l expected behaviour wise, solicitor's etc.
Will never forget his face when after asking if we were going to try and sort it out and he refused, l said l do believe EOW and half of all school holidays are now yours. Really think he thought l was going to continue doing it all ..... silly delusional twat.
He was MOST upset when he realised that Form E had to be completed and the usual script of being a vindictive bitch and bleeding him dry was uttered..... probably because he didn't want me to find out that his pension was worth 6 times mine ...and his earning capacity as FT high paid job compared to my PT job really didn't compare.
Loads was said but l played MN Bingo and it helped keep my spirits up. I also found l was "living" again as l actually had time to myself EOW.