3 years ago I gave birth to my amazing little boy. The birth was traumatic, I won’t go into details, but after months of tests post natally I was offered a c-section if I were to have a second child. This didn’t matter as we were set in having one. We were both too scared, we are both only’s and life seems pretty good with just one. Until last week when I had doubts, should we have two, are we depriving him of a sibling. You see last week I was given a date for a an operation, super nervous, and also my son keeps asking for a sibling. Perhaps this two things have made me rethink. I don’t know, I am confused and reaching out for advice. I have no one I can talk too as I’ve told too many people we are stopping at one, feels wrong to to talk about changing my mind. Please any help or advice would be great.